Kuti tipeze chilakiko pa uchimo, kugonjetsa uchimo, kugonjetsa uchimo. Zonsezi zikutanthauza chinthu chomwecho. Kupeza chilakiko pa uchimo, kapena kugonjetsa uchimo, kuli chotulukapo cha inu kutenga nkhondo yolimbana ndi uchimo m'moyo wanu. Koma kodi chiri chilakiko pamene mwagonjetsa uchimo m'chiyeso chimodzi, kapena kodi chimaonedwa kokha kukhala chilakiko pamene simukuyesedwanso kuchimwa? Yang'anani motere: Mukulimbana ndi nkhondo yolimbana ndi tchimo m'chibadwa chanu chaumunthu chochimwa, chomwe chimatchedwanso thupi lanu. Koma nkhondo iliyonse imapangidwa ndi nkhondo zambiri zosiyanasiyana. Nthaŵi iriyonse pamene mugonjetsa chiyeso cha uchimo, mwapambana nkhondo imodzi imeneyo. Inu muli sitepe pafupi kupambana nkhondo.
Pamene lingaliro lodetsedwa likubwera, kapena chiyeso china chilichonse, ndiye kuti mumati "Ayi!". Mumapemphera kwa Mulungu kuti atipatse mphamvu ndipo mumagwiritsa ntchito Mawu Ake ngati chida, ndipo mumagonjetsa chiyeso chimenecho. Chimenecho ndi chilakiko, ndipo mwapambana nkhondoyo. Ngati chiyeso cha tchimo lomwelo chibweranso, muyenera kukumbukira kuti ndi nkhondo yatsopano; ndi mwayi wina wopambana nkhondo, kupeza chigonjetso. Ndi sitepe lina ku chonulirapo chomalizira cha kugonjetsa tchimo lonse m'chibadwa chanu chaumunthu chochimwa.
Pamene mugonjetsa m'chiyeso mphindi imodzi, mwagonjetsa ndi kupambana nkhondoyo. Koma pamene mukuyesedwa mphindi yotsatira ku chinthu chomwecho, sizikutanthauza kuti simunapambane nthawi yoyamba. Ndi mwayi chabe wogonjetsa mbali yotsatira ya tchimo limenelo, kotero kuti tsiku lina zonse zidzawonongedwa kotheratu.
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Kugonjetsa uchimo
Tangoganizani munda wodzaza ndi adani; onse amawoneka mofanana. Ndi ntchito yanu kuchotsa munda uwu. Aliyense wa adani ameneŵa ali chiyeso cha uchimo. Chimodzi mwa izo ndi chiyeso cha lingaliro lodetsedwa. Mumagonjetsa chiyeso chimenechi, mdani ameneyu, chifukwa Mawu a Mulungu amapereka mphamvu ndi nyonga kuti mukhale olimba kuposa mdani wanu! Mukuti, "Ayi!" ndipo mumagwiritsa ntchito Mawu a Mulungu ngati lupanga kuti muwaphe. Kenaka mumatembenuka ndipo pali mdani wina, chiyeso china cha lingaliro lodetsedwa. Koma mukudziwa kuti uyu ndi mdani watsopano; mutha kuona amene mwangomupha kumeneko, atagona wakufa pansi. Kotero, mumachitanso chimodzimodzi ndi chiyeso chotsatirachi; mukupha. Ndipo mumayang'ana mozungulira, ndipo mukuona chiyani? Adani ambiri! Koma mumangopitirizabe. Ngati maso anu ali pa mphoto, kumwamba, osati pa zomwe mungakhale nazo pano padziko lapansi, ndiye kuti mudzakhala olimba mokwanira kuti mupitirize; ndiye nkhondoyo siimakhala yovuta kwambiri. (Akolose 3:1-4.)
Chiyeso ndi chiyeso: simunathe pambuyo pa nkhondo imodzi yokha. Koma ngati ziyesozo zingopitiriza kubwera, zimenezo sizikutanthauza kuti simukupambana. Zimangotanthauza kuti muli ndi chibadwa chaumunthu chochimwa, mofanana ndi munthu wina aliyense padziko lapansi. Koma mukupha adani amenewa, mmodzi ndi mmodzi. Patapita nthawi mumaima ndikuyang'ana kumbuyo kwanu, ndipo pali munda wodzaza ndi adani kumbuyo kwanu omwe sangakuyeseninso! Mukupita patsogolo; muli panjira yopambana nkhondo. (Ahebri 12:1-2.)
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Pang'ono ndi pang'ono mumachotsa tchimo
Mukhoza kuganiza chonchi za machimo alionse amene mumaona mwa inu nokha, mwachitsanzo kunyada kapena kulefulidwa. Zinthu zosiyanasiyana zidzabwera chifukwa pali machimo mwa inu omwe amanama mozama kwambiri, zinthu zomwe simukuziwona kapena kudziwa komabe; ndipo kenako pali zinthu zomwe mukuwona kale ndikudziwa. Simukuwona zonse panthawi imodzi, chifukwa zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kuti mupirire. Ndi "munda" umodzi panthawi imodzi: Mulungu amakuwonetsani zokwanira kuti zikhale zotheka kuti mugonjetse. (1 Akorinto 10:13.) Iye amapanga izo kotero kuti inu mukhoza kupulumutsidwa ku tchimo mwamsanga monga momwe zingathere, ndi zochepa monga momwe zingathere kuvutika. Tsiku lidzafika pamene mudzaima m'munda umenewo ndikuyang'ana mozungulira ndipo palibe adani otsala. Munali wokhulupirika ndipo simunasataye mtima! Pamenepo simudzayesedwanso m'dera limenelo; mwapambana chigonjetso chokwanira pankhondo imeneyo. Pamenepo mudzathokoza ndi kutamanda Mulungu kuti Iye wakupatsani thandizo ndi mphamvu kuti mumenye nkhondoyi ndi kuti tsopano muli omasuka ku tchimo limenelo kosatha.
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Kupambana = chinachake chatsopano
Sikuti muli omasuka ku tchimo limenelo lokha, inunso mwapambana chikhalidwe chaumulungu m'dera limenelo. Mkhalidwe waumulungu umenewu umatenga malo amodzimodziwo amene mkhalidwe wanu wauchimo munali nawo m'dera limenelo. Nthawi iliyonse mukagonjetsa chinachake chodetsedwa, chimasinthidwa ndi chiyero. Pamene tchimo mu chikhalidwe chanu chaumunthu - tchimo m'thupi lanu - likuwonongedwa, chikhalidwe chaumulungu chimatenga malo ake. "Zipatso za Mzimu" (Agalatiya 5:22-23) zidzalowa m'malo mwa machimo oipa amenewo. Mukukhala ngati Yesu; mumapeza mgwirizano wabwino komanso wabwino ndi Mulungu, ndipo mukukula mu nzeru, zomwe zidzapangitsa kuti "munda" wotsatira ukhale wosavuta kuchotsa. (2 Petro 1:4-8.)
Tsiku lidzafika pamene muli wangwiro. Pamene uchimo wonse wapita. Pamene palibe minda yotsala kuti ichotsedwe. Limenelo lidzakhala tsiku lalikulu chotani nanga! Tenepo imwepo mun'dzabwera wakukonzeka kukumana na Jezu, bzomwe imwepo mun'dzalimbana kwene-kwene. Mukulimbana ndi umuyaya ndi Iye. Pamenepo mudzakhala woyenera kutchedwa abale ndi alongo Ake. (Aroma 8:29; Ahebri 2:11, NCV.)
"Pakuti mufunikira chipiriro, kuti pamene mwachita chifuniro cha Mulungu, mulandire zimene zinalonjezedwa." Ahebri 10:36 (NRS).