Izi ndi zinthu zitatu zomwe Baibulo limanena momveka bwino kuti sitiyenera kuchita - ndipo ambiri a ife omwe ndife Akristu tikudziwa izi. Koma amanama kwambiri m'chilengedwe chathu, ndipo nthawi zambiri sitiona chifukwa chake tikuchita zinthu zimenezi.
Kuda nkhawa
"Choncho, ndikukuuzani, musadandaule za moyo wanu, zomwe mudzadya kapena zomwe mudzamwa, kapena za thupi lanu, zomwe mudzavala... Yang'anani mbalame kumwamba. Iwo samafesa mbewu kapena kukolola tirigu kapena kusonkhanitsa mbewu m'nkhokwe. Komabe Atate wanu wakumwamba amawadyetsa. Kodi si inu ofunika kwambiri kuposa iwo? Ndani pakati panu mwa kuda nkhawa amene angawonjezere mphindi imodzi pa moyo wanu?" Mateyu 6:26-27 .
Enafe timada nkhawa kwambiri. Pali zinthu zambiri zimene tikufuna kuzilamulira. Ndipo pali zinthu zambiri zimene sitingathe kuzilamulira. Tikhoza kuthera maola ambiri tikudera nkhaŵa zinthu zimenezi, tikumayerekezera kuti zoipa kwambiri zidzachitika.
Nthawi yotsatira mukafuna kuda nkhawa, yesetsani kuganizira chifukwa chake mukuda nkhawa. Kodi zingakhale kuti zimachokera ku kusoŵeka kwa chikhulupiriro ndi chidaliro mwa Mulungu? Ngakhale zinthu zitakhala "zoipa kwambiri", kodi timakhulupirira zimene Mulungu walonjeza, kuti zinthu zonse zimagwira ntchito limodzi kuti zikhale zabwino kwa anthu amene amamukonda? (Aroma 8:28.)
"Kukhulupirira" sikutanthauza kuti zinthu zidzayenda nthawi zonse momwe tikufunira kuti zipite. Koma zikutanthauza kuti tili ndi mtendere ndi kupumula mu mkhalidwe uliwonse, chifukwa timakhulupirira dongosolo langwiro la Mulungu kwa ife mu zonse zomwe zimachitika.
"M'malo mwake, chikhumbo [chifunafuna] choyamba ndi choyambirira ufumu wa Mulungu ndi chilungamo cha Mulungu, ndipo zonsezi zidzaperekedwa kwa inunso. Choncho, lekani kuda nkhawa za mawa, chifukwa mawa adzadzidera nkhawa. Tsiku lililonse lili ndi mavuto ake okwanira." Mateyu 6:33-34 .
Dinani apa kuti muthandizidwe kwambiri momwe mungagonjetsere nkhawa.
Kuweruza ena
"Musaweruze ena, ndipo simudzaweruzidwa." Mateyu 7:1.
Sizingatheke kunena momveka bwino kuposa pamenepo. Koma ngati tili oona mtima, tiyenera kuvomereza kuti sizophweka kwambiri. Ubongo wathu umaganiza zikwi zambiri tsiku lililonse. Nthawi zonse timakonza m'maganizo mwathu zinthu zomwe timawona, kumva ndi kukumana nazo, kudabwa ndi zinthu ndikupanga malingaliro. Kodi ndi angati a malingaliro amenewo amene ali 100 peresenti oona, olungama, oyera ndi abwino? (Afilipi 4:8.)
Pankhani ya zomwe timaganiza za anthu ena, kodi timangopanga maganizo potengera zomwe tikuwona ndi kumva, kapena kodi zingakhale kuti pali zambiri zomwe sitikuziwona kapena kudziwa? Kodi ife "perekani kwa Iye amene amaweruza molungama" monga Petro akutiuza kuchita mu 1 Petro 2:23? Kuchita zimenezi kumapereka tanthauzo latsopano kotheratu ku "kujambula malingaliro athu”, monga momwe zalembedwera mu 2 Akorinto 10:5. Mavesi amenewa akufotokoza momveka bwino kuti tili ndi zinthu zambiri m'maganizo mwathu zimene tiyenera kuzigonjetsa.
Miseche
Kuweruza ndi chinthu chimene timachita pafupifupi basi. Koma pamene tikuwona kangati ife kwenikweni kuyesedwa kuweruza ena mu malingaliro athu, ndi kuyamba kugwira ntchito kusunga mitima yathu koyera, ndiye miseche adzasiyanso mofulumira kwambiri, chifukwa miseche ikuyamba ndi lingaliro.
Kodi chifukwa chenicheni chimene timafunira kubwezera ena nchiyani? Kodi zingakhale kuti ndife ansanje, osakhutira, opanda chifundo, odzilungamitsa, kuti timakonda miseche kapena kuti timaganiza kuti ndife abwino kuposa wina (amene kwenikweni ndi kunyada)? (Afilipi 2:3.)
"... iwo ndi akunong'oneza [miseche], amiseche ... amene, podziwa chiweruzo cholungama cha Mulungu, kuti amene amachita zinthu zoterozo ayenera imfa, asangochita chimodzimodzi, komanso amavomereza amene amachita zimenezo." Aroma 1:29-32.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge zambiri za kuopsa kwa chizolowezi choipa ichi: Miseche
Tsopano ngati tiwona kuti tikudabe nkhawa, kuweruza ndi backbite, kumbukirani kuti tidakali mu nthawi ya chisomo ndipo tikhozabe kukonza zinthu. Bwanji osasankha kusiya ndi nkhawa, kuweruza ndi miseche chaka chino? Iwo amagona kwambiri m'chibadwa chathu chaumunthu, koma tikhoza kuwagonjetsa. Zimenezi sizidzatipangitsa kukhala achimwemwe kwambiri, komanso zidzapangitsa maunansi athu ndi ena kukhala abwino kwambiri. Tangoganizani momwe zingakhalira ngati tingosiya ndi zinthu 3 izi chaka chino! Taganizirani mmene zingakhalire zabwino kukhala ndi mtima woyera!