"Tili ndi ufulu wochita zinthu zonse, koma pali zinthu zimene si nzeru kuchita. Tili ndi ufulu wochita zinthu zonse, koma si zinthu zonse zimene zili zabwino kwa anthu onse." 1 Akorinto 10:23.
Ngakhale ngati tili ndi ufulu wochita chinachake, sitiyenera kulola chilichonse kutimangirira kapena kutilamulira. Kwa ine, pakhala pali zokonda zambiri zosiyana, monga nyimbo, masewera a pakompyuta ndi zinthu ngati zimenezo, zomwe zatenga nthawi yanga yambiri komanso malingaliro anga ambiri. Panali nyengo imene malingaliro anga onse anali otanganitsidwa ndi zinthu zimenezi ndipo ndinalibe malingaliro otsala kaamba ka Mulungu.
Ndinayenera kudzipezera ndekha zomwe zinali zabwino kuti ndichite komanso momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito nthawi yanga m'njira yoyenera.
Kumangidwa ndi zinthu "zabwinobwino"
Zinali zovuta kwambiri kuona kuti ndinagwidwadi ndi zinthu zimenezi.
Ndikayang'ana kumbuyo ndiye kuti ndikutha kuona kuti zinthu zomwe zili bwino kwambiri, monga kufufuza Facebook kapena Instagram, zinali ndi mphamvu pa ine. Ndinamva pafupifupi kukakamizidwa kufufuza Facebook. Sindikunena kuti Facebook ndi yoipa, koma kwa ine inali itakhala chizolowezi, ndipo ndisanagone kapena nditangodzuka, ndinayenera kufufuza. Ndinangofunika. Zinali ngati chikhumbo champhamvu chimene sindinathe kuchilamulira.
Chitsanzo china ndi masewera a pakompyuta. Anthu ambiri amakonda kusewera masewera a pakompyuta nthawi ndi nthawi kuti apumule, koma ndikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kusamala. Kwa ine ndekha, pali ngozi yakuti malingaliro anga onse amakhala otanganidwa ndi masewera a pakompyuta, ndiyeno palibe malo a Mulungu. Sikuti nthawi zonse ndimaganizira za Mulungu, koma ngozi inali yakuti ndinkaona kuti sindikusowanso Mulungu.
Masewera a pakompyuta ndi ma media media sali oipa mwa iwo okha. Koma kwa ine iwo anakhala ofunika kwambiri kuposa kukhala ndi moyo wachikristu, kuposa kukhala ndi moyo kwa Mulungu. Dziko langa ndi malingaliro anayamba kuyang'ana pa kuchita zomwe ndinkafuna kuchita, zinthu zonse zomwe ndinali ndi chidwi, ndipo sindinafunikire china chilichonse.
Ndinaona zinthu monga kuwerenga Mawu a Mulungu kapena kuchitira ena zinthu zabwino monga zinthu zimene zinandithandiza kuti ndisazisangalala ndi zinthu zimene ndimakonda. Ndipo sindinaone kuti ndinali kutali bwanji ndi Mulungu; Ndinkaganiza kuti moyo wanga uli bwino ndipo ndinalibe chikhumbo chofuna kupeza zipatso zambiri za Mzimu monga kuleza mtima, kukoma mtima ndi ubwino.
Pamene ndinkangoganizira zofuna zanga komanso zosangalatsa zanga, sindinkatha kugonjetsa uchimo ndipo ndinkaona ngati kugonjetsa kunali kovuta kwambiri. Tsopano ndikutha kuona kuti sizinali zachilendo ngakhale pang'ono zomwe sindinathe kuzigonjetsa.
Kwa nthawi yaitali, sindinkafuna kukhulupirira kuti zofuna zanga komanso zosangalatsa zanga zinali zovuta. Ndinayenera kudzichepetsa ndipo Mulungu anafunikiradi kundisonyeza mmene ndinaliri wofooka ndisanaone kuti zinthu zolakwika zinali zofunika kwa ine. Ndinayenera kuphunzira kuti sindingathe kufufuza Facebook ndipo sindikanatha kusewera masewera a pakompyuta panthawiyi m'moyo wanga, chifukwa zinthu izi zili ndi mphamvu pa ine.
Nditazindikira zimenezi, ndinayamba kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti ndilingalire za Mulungu ndi kudzidzaza ndi Mawu Ake.
Kodi ndiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanga pa chiyani?
Monga Akristu, timamenya nkhondo tsiku lililonse. Timalimbana ndi tchimo m'chibadwa chathu chaumunthu tsiku lililonse. Tikuyesedwa m'mayesero omwe amabwera m'njira yathu ndipo pamafunika nkhondo kuti tigonjetse tchimo limene tikuyesedwa . Ndimaganiza za nthawi yanga pakati pa mayesero osiyanasiyana ngati nthawi yokonzekera. Ndikhoza kukhala pansi ndikuwerenga Mawu a Mulungu - ndi kukonzekera "nkhondo". Ndinafunikira kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi imeneyo kuwerenga Mawu a Mulungu komanso kudzidzaza ndi mzimu wabwino kuti ndikhale wokonzeka "kumenyana" pamene ndinayesedwa. (Salimo 119:9.)
N'kofunika kuti aliyense wa ife adziwe tokha zimene tingagwiritse ntchito nthawi yathu komanso zimene tiyenera kuchita. Zinali zofunika kuti ndidziwe. N'zoona kuti nthawi zonse sindingathe kuwerenga Baibulo langa, koma chilichonse chimene ndimachita, ndimachita zimenezi mumzimu wabwino. N'kwachibadwa kuwerenga Mawu a Mulungu nthawi zonse. Sindikuganiza ngakhale kuti ndi thanzi labwino. Timakhala ndi moyo wathu, tili ndi anthu ena ndipo tili ndi zinthu zochita. Koma ngakhale pamene sindikuŵerenga Mawu a Mulungu ndimakhalabe ndi moyo wa wophunzira.
Kusiyana kwa moyo wanga
Kawirikawiri sindimamva ngati, "Inde! Tsopano ndikudalitsa enawo," kapena, "Tsopano ndikuwerenga vesi ndipo zidzakhala zodabwitsa!" Pafupifupi nthawi zonse pali chinthu china chimene ndingakonde kuchita, choncho ndiyenera kusiya chinachake.
Koma pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa masiku amene ndimakhala tsopano kaamba ka Mulungu ndi masiku amene ndinakhala ndi moyo ndekha kale. Kusiyana konse kuli momwe ndimagwiritsira ntchito nthawi yanga. Sindinamvetsepo kale, koma tsopano ndikuwona kuti ndizo zomwe zimapangitsa kusiyana konse. Sindingayembekezere kukhala ndi moyo wogonjetsa ndi wobala zipatso popanda Mzimu wa Mulungu. Ndikudziwa kuti Mzimu wa Mulungu uli m'Mawu Ake, ndipo ndikufuna kugonjetsa ndi kukhala ndi moyo ndi Mulungu. N'chifukwa chake ndiyenera kudzaza mawu a Mulungu tsiku lililonse, ngakhale nditakhala wotanganidwa bwanji.
Poyamba, zinali pafupifupi ngati tsiku langa linamva kukhala lopanda pake komanso losakwanira ngati sindinafike pamlingo winawake mu masewera kapena kuchita chinachake ndi nyimbo mwanjira ina. Koma tsopano masiku amenewo apita. Tsopano tsiku silikwanira ngati sindinapeze chinachake chakumwamba m'moyo wanga, ngati sindinadzidzaze ndekha ndi chinachake chabwino ndi choyera chochokera kwa Mulungu. Zimenezi zandisangalatsa kwambiri, ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu cha mtsogolo ndi zimene Mulungu angachite mwa ine!
