Nthawi yochepa yapitayo ndinamva wina akunena chinachake chomwe chinandipangitsa kuganiza. Iye analankhula za "kutenga nkhondo yozindikira" pankhani yolimbana ndi uchimo. Zinandipangitsa kuganiza: zikutanthauza chiyani kwa ine kutenga nkhondo yozindikira yolimbana ndi uchimo? Nkhondo yozindikira, zikutanthauza kuti ndikudziwa kuti ndikulimbana ndi zomwe ndikulimbana nazo. Kodi ndikulimbanadi kuti ndisachimwe?
Ndaona kuti ndimaiwala mosavuta zinthu zabwinobwino za tsiku ndi tsiku ngati sindikumvetsera kwambiri zimene ndikuchita. Ndipo n'chimodzimodzinso ndi moyo wanga wauzimu. Pamene sindisumika maganizo pa kuyesa kukhala woyera, mwachitsanzo, ndiye kuti chidetso chikhoza kulowa mosavuta popanda ine ngakhale kuwona. Kapena, ngati sindikuganizira kwambiri za kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino okha okhudza anthu osati kuwaweruza, ndiye kuti ndikhoza kuyamba kuwaweruza mosavuta popanda kuzindikira.
Machimo ngati awa ndi mbali ya chikhalidwe changa chaumunthu ndipo amatha kubwera mosavuta m'maganizo mwanga ngati sindili maso. Pano ndikuwona kuti ndiyenera kuchita chinachake mwachangu ngati ndikufuna kuletsa uchimo m'moyo wanga. Ndi chinthu chimodzi kudutsa m'moyo ndi kudziwa kuti sindikuyesera kuchimwa dala. Koma kusankhadi kusachimwa ndi chinthu chosiyana kotheratu. Ndiko komwe nkhondo yozindikira yolimbana ndi uchimo imabwera - ngati nkhondo kapena nkhondo yomwe ndimatenga m'maganizo mwanga, m'maganizo mwanga.
Izi ndi zomwe zimatanthauza kumenya "nkhondo yauzimu". Ndikofunikira kudzuka m'mawa uliwonse ndi chisankho cholimba kuti lero sindidzachimwa. Lero ndidzamenya nkhondo osati uchimo; Ndidzakhala maso.
Kuganizira mwayi
Ndikudziwa kuti ichi ndi chinthu chomwe ndikuyenera kulimbana nacho. Ndikuyenera kutenga nkhondoyi mwamphamvu, chifukwa momwe ndimatengera nkhondozi zidzasankha kumene ndidzathera umuyaya wanga. Ndizoopsa zimenezo! Ngati nthawi zonse sindikulakalaka zimenezi kuti ndigonjetse uchimo, ndiye kuti mwadzidzidzi ndidzapeza kuti ndikuona kuti sizofunikanso kwambiri kuti ndigonjetse, kapena kuti zilibe kanthu kwa ine ngati ndili wosaleza mtima pang'ono kapena wodetsedwa pang'ono.
Ayi, kwa ine ndekha kwakhala kofunika kuti ndisumikedi maganizo pa chipulumutso changa. Chipulumutso sichinthu chomwe chimachitika kamodzi kokha pamene nditembenuzidwa. Ndi chinthu chomwe chiyenera kuchitika m'moyo wanga wonse. Zimatanthauza kuti ndimakhala wopulumutsidwa ku machimo onse omwe amakhala mu chikhalidwe changa chaumunthu - kuti ndikugonjetsa machimo onse omwe ndikuyesedwa. Ndipotu, ndi chifukwa chake ndili padziko lapansi - chifukwa chimene Mulungu anandiitana kuchokera dziko lapansi lisanalengedwe.
"Choncho pitirizani kugwira ntchito yopulumutsa nokha. Chitani ndi mantha ndi kunjenjemera." Afilipi 2:12 (NIRV). Kodi ndimachita zimenezo? Kodi ndi chidwi changa chachikulu?
Mwachitsanzo, ndikufunadi kukhala woleza mtima kwambiri, womwe ndi chimodzi mwa zipatso za Mzimu. Ndimapempherera kuleza mtima, koma pamene mikhalidwe ifika pamene ndikuyesedwa kukhala wosaleza mtima, kodi ndikusumika maganizo kwenikweni pa kukhala woleza mtima kwambiri kotero kuti ndipeze zambiri za chipatso ichi cha Mzimu? Ndikamapemphera kuti ndizikonda kwambiri anthu, kodi ndimathera nthawi yanga ndikuganizira za iwo n'cholinga choti ndiziwakonda kwambiri? Pamene ndikuganizira kwambiri zimenezo, ndiye kuti ndilibe ngakhale nthawi yoweruza kapena maganizo oipa.
Timapeza mipata yambiri yokula moleza mtima, koma ngati sindikuwawona, kuleza mtima kwanga sikudzakula. Ndipo tsiku lililonse kuntchito kapena kusukulu kuli chidetso chondizungulira, koma kodi ndingakhale woyera mosasamala kanthu za zimene zikuchitika pafupi nane? Chifukwa cha ichi ndiyenera kukhala maso ndi ogalamuka.
"Khalani tcheru ndipo khalani maso. Mdani wanu, mdierekezi, ali ngati mkango wobangula, akuzembera kuti apeze munthu woti awukire." 1 Petro 5:8 (CEV). Ngati mdani wanga akuyesetsa kwambiri kupeza munthu woti awukire, kodi sindiyenera kuthawa kwambiri tchimo limene akufuna kundigwira, ndi kulimbana mwachangu kuti ndigonjetse uchimo wonse?
"Koma kuthawa achinyamata oipa amakonda kuchita. Yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo wabwino ndi kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro, chikondi, ndi mtendere, pamodzi ndi amene amakhulupirira Ambuye ku mitima yoyera." 2 Timoteyo 2:22 (NCV).
Kulimbana ndi nkhondo yauzimu imeneyi
Tsopano popeza ndasankha mwamphamvu kumenya nkhondo yolimbana ndi uchimo, ndiyenera kumenya nkhondo mpaka mapeto. N'zosavuta kwa ine kuganiza kuti ndafikira kale chinachake chifukwa chakuti ndaganiza zochita, koma si momwe zimagwirira ntchito. Inde, ndapanga chisankho, koma tsopano ndikuyenera kuchitapo kanthu - pitani kuchitapo kanthu!
Zalembedwa kuti mapemphero a Yesu anamveka chifukwa cha mantha ake aumulungu. (Ahebri 5:7.) Iye ankaopadi kuchimwira Mulungu chifukwa ankadziwa kuti uchimo uli ndi mphamvu yowononga. Iye anaona mmene uchimo unawonongera miyoyo ya anthu kuyambira pachiyambi cha nthaŵi.
Iye anali wamphamvu kwambiri pa nkhondo Yake yolimbana ndi uchimo, ndipo ndikhoza kupeza mzimu wamphamvu umodzimodziwo mwa kuŵerenga Baibulo ndi kudzaza maganizo anga ndi mzimu umene Iye anali nawo. Ndiyenera kupeza maganizo okhala ndi zida omwe ali ofunitsitsa kunena kuti Ayi ku zoipa zomwe ndikuyesedwa ndipo, mwanjira imeneyi, kusiya ndi uchimo. (1 Petro 4:1.) Maganizo amenewa saopa nkhondo zomwe zikubwera, chifukwa amadziwa kuti zidzagonjetsedwa ndithu.
Kumenya nkhondo yauzimu imeneyi n'kofunika kwambiri. Ndiyenera kusiya kuchimwa. Ndiyenera kukhala wogalamuka kwambiri ngati ndikufuna kuwona mipata yonse yomwe ndingagonjetse uchimo. Iyenera kukhala nkhani ya moyo kapena imfa kwa ine. "... ndipo atachita zonse, kuima." Aefeso 6:13. Ngakhale pakali pano ziyesozo zikuwoneka kukhala zosatha, tsiku lina zidzatha. Pamenepo, sindidzakhalanso ndi mwayi wogonjetsa zambiri za tchimo mu chikhalidwe changa, kotero ndiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi lero!
Kugonjetsa kuyenera kukhala chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wanga. Ndipo ndinganene moona mtima kuti zakhala chonchi kwa ine.