Kodi n'zotheka kugonjetsa "kuopa munthu" ndi kusagonja ku chitsenderezo cha anzanga kapena anzanga a m'kalasi? Kodi ndingasiye bwanji kusonkhezeredwa mosavuta kuchita zimene ndikudziwa kuti n'zolakwika?
Chitsenderezo cha anthu: ndani sanakumanepo nacho? Ndi paliponse—kusukulu, kuntchito, pakati pa abwenzi. Ndi chitsenderezo champhamvu kwambiri chimenecho kuchita zomwe enawo akuchita, nthawi zambiri motsutsana ndi zomwe ndikudziwa kuti ndizoyenera. Ndikagonja, ndimatha kumva kukhala wopanda kanthu komanso wopanda mphamvu mkati. Osati kokha, komanso ndimamva kukhala wosasangalala ndipo ndili ndi chikumbumtima choipa. Ndikudziwa kuti si moyo umene ndimaitanidwa monga Mkhristu, koma kodi ndingatani? Kodi ndingasiyedi kusonkhezeredwa ndi anthu ena ndi malingaliro awo?
N'chifukwa chiyani ndimasonkhezeredwa?
N'chifukwa chiyani ndimasonkhezeredwa mosavuta ndi anthu ena? Ndi chifukwa chakuti ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa ine zomwe enawo amaganiza za ine; Ndimaopa zimene anganene ndikawauza zimene ndimakhulupiriradi, kapena ngati sindigwirizana ndi zimene akuchita. Mwina angaganize zochepa za ine, ndipo mwina angayambe kunena zinthu zokhudza ine pamene sindili pafupi! Izi nthawi zina zimatchedwa "kuopa munthu", ndizosiyana ndi kuopa ndi kutumikira Mulungu, ndipo ndi chifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kukana chitsenderezo cha anthu.
Kodi ndingatani kuti ndisatsutse chitsenderezo cha anthu chimenechi?
Ndiyenera kuvomereza choonadi ponena za ine ndekha. Ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti ndimasonkhezeredwa kwambiri ndi zimene anthu amaganiza za ine. Ndikuyenera kuvomereza kuti nthawi zambiri ndimapanga zosankha zotsutsana ndi zomwe ndikudziwa kuti Mulungu akufuna kuti ndichite, chifukwa cha kukakamizidwa ndi zisonkhezero kuchokera kwa omwe ali pafupi nane kapena atolankhani. Ndipo ndikufunika kufuna kukhala womasuka ku izo! Kenako Mulungu angayambe kundithandiza. Iye angandithandize ngakhale kufika pa mfundo yakuti ndikhoza kukhala chisonkhezero chabwino pa anthu ozungulira ine!
Tumikirani Mulungu yekha
Zitha kumva kukhala zofunika kwambiri kuvomerezedwa ndi anthu, koma bwanji za Mulungu Mwini - kuti Iye amandilandira ndi kuganiza bwino za ine? Pamene zochita zanga zikulamulidwa ndi zomwe anthu ena amaganiza, ndimataya kugwirizana kwanga ndi Mulungu ndipo sindingathenso kumutumikira ndikumva mawu Ake.
"Uzikonda Ambuye Mulungu wako ndi mtima wako wonse, ndi moyo wako wonse, ndi mphamvu zako zonse." —Deuteronomo 6:5. Njira yoyamba yolimbana ndi chitsenderezo cha anthu ndiyo kusankha kungokhala ndi moyo kaamba ka Mulungu: kumkonda Iye ndi kukhala ndi mantha a kuchimwira Iye. Ngati ndizindikira kuti sindimakonda Mulungu mokwanira ndipo ndilibe mantha oyera awa ku uchimo, ndikhoza kupemphera kwa Iye amene amapereka mowolowa manja ndipo ndidzalandira! (Yakobo 1:5.)
Pewani kucheza ndi anthu oipa
Ndikavomereza choonadi cha mmene ndimakhudzidwira mosavuta ndi chitsenderezo cha anthu, ziyenera kukhala zachibadwa kwa ine kuti sindidziika m'mikhalidwe imene ndidzayesedwa mosavuta.
Mu 1 Akorinto 15:33 kwalembedwa kuti, "Musanyengedwe: 'Mayanjano oipa amawononga makhalidwe abwino.'" Pansi pa mtima ndimadziŵa amene amandisonkhezera m'njira yolakwika. "Koma iwo ndi anzanga," ndimalingalira ndekha, "Ngati ndiima pamaso pawo, sadzandikondanso!"
Koma ngati ndipitiriza kuthera nthawi ndi "anzanga" amenewa amene amandikakamiza kuti ndichite zimene ndikudziwa kuti n'zolakwika, ndiye kuti sindingathe kutumikira Mulungu ndi kukhala wokhulupirika kwa Iye. "Kampani yoipa" ndizomwe ndimaonera kapena kumvetsera, komwe ndimayang'ana pa intaneti, zomwe "ndimatsatira" pa media media ndi zomwe ndimawerenga. "Kampani yoipa" imeneyi imapangitsa masomphenya anga ndi cholinga changa kukhala osadziwika bwino, ndipo ikhoza kunditsogolera m'mayesero osafunikira. Ndi kokha pamene ndidzipatula ku mayanjano oipa pamene ndingapite patsogolo m'moyo wanga Wachikristu!
Khalani okonzeka
Ngakhale pamene ndikusamala za mtundu wa "kampani" yomwe ndimasunga, ndidzayang'anizanabe ndi chitsenderezo chosayembekezereka cha anthu. Ndiyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale. Ndiyenera kudzuka m'mawa uliwonse ndi kusankha kukhala woyera ndi kumvera chitsogozo cha Mulungu mumtima mwanga.
Salmo 118:6 limati, "Ambuye ali kumbali yanga; Sindidzaopa. Kodi munthu angandichitire chiyani?" Ndikofunikira kudzikonzekeretsa ndi vesi ili kuti ndikhale wokonzeka tsiku lonse.
Khalani olimba
Palibe chifukwa chochitira manyazi kukhala Mkristu. Ngati ndasankha kutumikira Mulungu, ndiye kuti Iye angandipatse kulimba mtima kuti ndiyimire zimene ndikukhulupirira kuti n'zabwino. Pa 1 Petulo 3:17 pamati, "Pakuti ndi bwino, ngati kuli chifuniro cha Mulungu, kuvutika chifukwa chochita zabwino kuposa kuchita zoipa."
Zingakhale zoopsa kumva kusavomereza kwa ena pamene ndikuchita zomwe ndikudziwa kuti ndizoyenera, koma kusavomereza kumeneko si kanthu poyerekeza ndi mtendere wamkati ndi chimwemwe chimene ndimapeza pamene ndili ndi chikumbumtima chabwino pamaso pa Mulungu.
Khalani chitsanzo
Mwa kuuza ena zimene ndimakhulupirira, ndi kuchita zimene ndimachitira umboni, ndimakhala chitsanzo. Pa Mateyu 5:14-16 pamati, "Inu ndinu kuunika kwa dziko lapansi. Mzinda umene waikidwa paphiri sungabisidwe. Ndiponso samayatsa nyali ndi kuiika pansi pa dengu, koma pa choikapo nyali, ndipo imapereka kuunika kwa onse amene ali m'nyumbamo. Kuunika kwanu kuŵalitse kwambiri pamaso pa anthu, kuti aone ntchito zanu zabwino ndi kulemekeza Atate wanu wakumwamba."
Ndikhoza kusankha kukhala kuunika kwa mdima umene uli m'dziko. Ndikhoza kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanga yaulere kuti ndidziwe Mawu a Mulungu, kufunafuna kucheza ndi anthu amene akufuna kukhala oyera m'njira yofanana ndi imene ndikufuna. Mwanjira imeneyi, ndimangokana chitsenderezo cha anthu, komanso ndikhoza kukhala ndi chisonkhezero chabwino pa ena ozungulira ine!
Khulupirirani Mulungu
Mulungu amandipatsa mphamvu pamene ndikufuna kukhala ndi moyo kwa Iye. "Maso a Yehova amafufuza dziko lonse lapansi n'cholinga choti alimbitse anthu amene mitima yawo yadzipereka kwambiri kwa iye." 2 Mbiri 16:9.
Pamene ine moyo pamaso pa nkhope ya Mulungu yekha, ndiye Mulungu Mwini ali kumbali yanga. Pamene ndikhala womasuka kwambiri kwa anthu, m'pamenenso ndimakhala wogalamuka kwambiri ndi zimene Mulungu akulankhula kwa ine ndekha. Ndimakhala womasuka kuganiza, kuchita ndi kulankhula mogwirizana ndi momwe Mulungu akugwirira ntchito mwa ine kudzera mwa Mzimu Woyera. Ndiyeno ndimakhala thandizo, dalitso ndi chitsanzo kwa anthu amene ndimakhala nawo, ndipo ndimadzazidwa ndi chimwemwe chamkati chimene chimabwera kokha chifukwa chochita zimene ndikudziwa kuti n'zabwino pamaso pa Mulungu.
