Ndinaona mawu opweteka pa nkhope ya mnzanga ndipo ndinazindikira zimene ndinachita... Ndinali nditanena chinachake popanda kuganizira mmene mawu anga angakhudzire ena.
Ndikhoza kukhala wosadziŵa kotheratu za chiyambukiro chimene mawu anga kapena zochita zanga zimakhudzira. Zochita zanga, maganizo anga, momwe ndimawonera zinthu-zinthu izi zingakhale zikupangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri kwa anthu ozungulira ine. Mwina anthu amayenera kundilekerera ndi kundipirira kwambiri, chifukwa chakuti sindinaganizire za momwe mawu anga kapena zochita zanga zingawakhudzire!
Koma chifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika? Osati ndi ine ndekha, komanso ndi anthu ambiri? Chifukwa chake ndi chakuti tonsefe timabadwa ndi chikhalidwe chomwe chimaipitsidwa ndi uchimo. Paulo akufotokoza motere: "Ndipo ndidziŵa kuti palibe chabwino chimene chikhala mwa ine, ndiko kuti, m'chibadwa changa ... Ndapeza mfundo imeneyi ya moyo—kuti pamene ndikufuna kuchita zabwino, mosapeŵeka ndimachita zoipa." Aroma 7: 18,21.
Kuvulaza popanda tanthauzo
Ndi chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chaumunthu chauchimo ichi chomwe palibe chabwino chomwe chimakhalamo, kuti mawu anga ndi zochita zanga zingapweteke ena, ndipo nthawi zambiri sindidziwa ngakhale izi.
Sindikulankhula za kunena kapena kuchita zinthu zovulaza mwadala. Ndikulankhula za zinthu monga kukhala wouma khosi, sindikuwona kwenikweni zotsatira zovulaza za kukhala "osafuna kusintha" kwa omwe amandizungulira. Kapena mwina ndimadzitamandira popanda kuganiza, ndikupangitsa enawo kudzimva kukhala osafunika kapena opusa. Mwina ndimapanikizika ndi chinachake, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwa anthu ozungulira ine. Ngakhale nditatumiza kapena kutumiza uthenga ndipo pambuyo pake ndikuzindikira kuti ndinachitadi kuti ndikondweretse wina.
Kupepesa kwa ena kapena kuti simunatanthauze motere, ndibwino pakafunika, koma pali china chake chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri. Ku 1 Yohane 1: 5-7 imati, "Mulungu ndiye kuwala, ndipo mwa Iye mulibe mdima konse. … Koma ngati tiyenda m'kuwala monga Iye ali mu kuunika, tili ndi chiyanjano wina ndi mnzake, ndipo mwazi wa Yesu Khristu Mwana wake umatiyeretsa ku uchimo wonse." Ndipo ku 1 Petro 2:9 limati, "Koma inu ndinu anthu osankhidwa, ansembe achifumu, mtundu woyera, anthu a Mulungu. Munasankhidwa kuti mufotokozere za ntchito zodabwitsa za Mulungu, amene anakuitanani kuti mutuluke mumdima kuloŵa m'kuunika kwake kodabwitsa."
Mavesi awa amalankhula za "kuyenda mu kuwala", ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti zinthu zoyipa zomwe zimakhala mu chikhalidwe changa chaumunthu zimakhala zomveka pang'onopang'ono komanso zowonekera kwa ine kuti ndizitha kuziyeretsa. Kodi ndiyenera kuchita bwanji izi? Ndiyenera kukhala wodzichepetsa: Ndiyenera kuvomereza momwe zilili ndekha ndikupempha Mulungu kuti andithandize.
"Mulungu amatsutsa onyada koma amapereka chisomo kwa odzichepetsa." Yakobo 4: 6. Chisomo ichi chimatanthauza kuti ndimapeza "kuwala", kuti ndithe kuwona zinthu momveka bwino-monga momwe zilili-ndipo zikutanthauzanso kuti ndimapeza thandizo kuti ndigonjetse, ngakhale zisanatuluke ndikukhala zinthu zomwe zimavulaza ena. Monga wophunzira amene akufuna kukhala ngati Mbuye wanga, ndikufuna kukhala womasuka ku chibadwa changa chauchimo, choncho ndimaganizira mwachangu momwe ndingachitire zinthu bwino.
Ndimapanga chisankho choti ndigonjetse
"Chifukwa chake tsopano palibe chiweruzo kwa iwo amene ali mwa Khristu Yesu, amene sayenda mwa thupi, koma monga mwa Mzimu." Aroma 8: 1. Ngakhale ndili ndi chikhalidwe chauchimo ichi ndipo chifukwa chake sindichita zonse mwangwiro, sindingalole Satana kundiimba mlandu chifukwa cha izi. Satana amayesa zonse kuti andidzaze ndi kukayikira ndi kutaya mtima, koma chowonadi ndichakuti Mulungu amadziwa kuti ndili ndi chikhalidwe ichi chomwe chili chodzaza ndi kuuma khosi, kudzitamandira, kusowa kuleza mtima ndi chikondi, kufunafuna kusangalatsa anthu, ndi zina zotero. Koma ngakhale ndili nacho chibadwa ichi, kapena thupi, limene palibe chabwino chimene chikhala nacho, sindifunikira kuyenda monga mwa thupi, monga mwa chibadwa changa. Sindikuyenera kulola machimo amenewo kulamulira moyo wanga.
M'malo mwake, nditha kusankha kuyenda molingana ndi Mzimu ndikugonjetsa ndikayesedwa ndi tchimo m'chilengedwe changa. (Agalatiya 5: 16-25.) Ndipo Mzimu adzandipatsa pang'ono ndi pang'ono kuwala kwambiri pa zinthu zauchimo zomwe zimakhala m'chilengedwe changa, zinthu zomwe sindinazione kale.
Timawerenga mu Agalatiya 5:16 , "Lolani kuti Mzimu atsogolere miyoyo yanu, ndipo simudzakhutiritsa zokhumba za chibadwa cha munthu." Ndizodabwitsa bwanji kuti ndili ndi malonjezo awa ndikuti ndikhoza kukhala wosiyana kwambiri ndi kukhala mtolo, ndi kukhala wovuta. Ndimakhala dalitso lowonjezereka kwa ena, wokhoza kuwathandiza ndi kukhala ndi mawu abwino ndi olimbikitsa oti ndipereke.