"Koma ngati tikukhala mu kuwala, monga Mulungu ali mu kuwala, tikhoza kugawana chiyanjano ndi wina ndi mnzake. Ndiyeno magazi a Yesu, Mwana wa Mulungu, amatiyeretsa ku tchimo lililonse." 1 Yohane 1:7.
Anthu ambiri ali ndi anzawo, anthu amene amawakonda, koma zimenezo sizikutanthauza kuti ali ndi chiyanjano. Umu ndi mmene zilili pakati pa osakhulupirira komanso pakati pa okhulupirira. Anthu ambiri sadziwa tanthauzo lenileni la chiyanjano.
Kuyanjana pogawana cholinga chomwecho
Pamenepo kodi chiyanjano chenicheni nchiyani? Ndiko kukondana ndi kusamalirana chifukwa tonsefe tili ndi cholinga chofanana. Tonsefe timabadwanso ndipo tikuyembekezera cholowa chathu kumwamba. (1 Petro 1:3-4.) Tasankhidwa pakati pa mitundu yonse ya anthu kuti tikhale thupi limodzi—thupi la Khristu. (Akolose 3:11-15.)
Tikhoza kuona kusiyana kwakukulu komwe kungakhalepo pakati pa anthu osankhidwa—ali ndi maumunthu osiyanasiyana, zikhalidwe, zochokera ku zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana etc.—koma mwa onsewo Khristu ayenera kukhala zonse zofunika. Chotero, mayanjano awo sali ozikidwa pa kukondana wina ndi mnzake chifukwa chakuti ali ofanana kapena ali ndi zikondwerero zofanana za padziko lapansi, koma amakondana chifukwa chakuti ali ndi chonulirapo chofanana, ndipo ndicho kukhala ngati Yesu, kukhala ndi phande m'mkhalidwe waumulungu. Kuyanjana kumatanthauza kusamalirana wina ndi mnzake ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo kusinthidwa kotero kuti tikhale ofanana kwambiri ndi Khristu m'miyoyo yathu.
Momwe mungakhalire mu chiyanjano
Kuti tikhalebe m'chikondi chimenechi, sitiyenera kukhumudwa ndi kukwiya ndi khalidwe lachilendo ndi zizoloŵezi za enawo, kapena kusiya kukonda munthu chifukwa chogwera m'uchimo. Tikaona zinthu zimenezi mwa okhulupirira anzathu, ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri yosonyeza chikondi chathu ndi chisamaliro chathu kwambiri!
Paulo analemba kuti: "Mulungu wakusankhani ndi kukupangani anthu ake oyera. Amakukondani. Chotero nthaŵi zonse muyenera kuvala chifundo, kukoma mtima, kudzichepetsa, kufatsa, ndi kuleza mtima. Pirirani wina ndi mnzake, ndipo khululukirani wina ndi mnzake. Ngati wina wakulakwirani, mukhululukireni munthuyo chifukwa Ambuye anakukhululukirani ..." Akolose 3:12-13 .
Ife tikufika kuona tchimo mu chikhalidwe chathu chaumunthu pamene tili ndi anthu ena amene sali ndendende mmene tingafune kuti iwo akhale ndi amene ali osiyana ndi ife. Chifukwa cha khalidwe lachilendo la ena ndi zizolowezi, tikuwona kusaleza mtima, kukayikira kapena kudzilungamitsa kukubwera mkati mwathu - kuchokera ku chikhalidwe chathu chaumunthu. Ndiyeno ndi nthawi yoti tiyeretsedwe m'magazi a Yesu. Zimenezo zikutanthauza kuti tifunikira kuvomereza ndi kugwirizana ndi Mulungu kuti zinthu zimenezi zomwe zikubwera mwa ife ndizolakwika, ndikupempha Iye kuti atithandize kuzigonjetsa. Pamenepo mitima yathu idzakhala yoyera. Kenako timayeretsedwa m'magazi a Yesu.
Munthu amene safuna kuona ndi kuvomereza tchimo limene likukhalabe m'chibadwa chake chaumunthu, amachokera m'chiyanjano ndi m'chikondi. Pano tiyenera kudziyang'ana tokha osati kuweruza ndi kudzudzula enawo. Tikhoza ngakhale kuthandiza ena kusintha mwa kugonjetsa zinthu zimenezi zimene ife kupeza kuona mwa ife eni, chifukwa pamene iwo akukumana kuti chikondi chathu ndi kuwasamalira amakhala kwambiri, ifenso zimapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kwa iwo kuti asatuluke mu chiyanjano .
Kuthandiza ena
Pamene tidziŵa ndi kukumana ndi mayanjano enieni, kukhala ndi nthaŵi ndi kuyanjana ndi awo amene ali kunja kwa mayanjano enieni, chifuno chathu ndicho kuwatsogolera kwa Mulungu. "Pakuti Khristu anavutikanso kamodzi chifukwa cha machimo, chilungamo cha kupanda chilungamo, kuti Iye atibweretsere kwa Mulungu, kuphedwa m'thupi koma kupangidwa wamoyo ndi Mzimu ..." 1 Petro 3:18.
Pano tikhoza kuona kuti zonse zimene Yesu anavutika nazo zinali kuti Iye atitsogolere kwa Mulungu. (Ahebri 2:10-11.) Umu ndi mmene zilili kwa ife amene tili otsatira a Yesu. Yesu anakumana ndi mavuto pamene Iye anati Ayi ku chifuniro Chake. Tiyeneranso kukana chifuniro chathu (ndi tchimo limene tikuyesedwa) kuti titsogolere ena ku chiyanjano ndi kwa Mulungu.
Mzimu choyamba akufuna kutisonyeza kusaleza mtima, kukwiya, kukayikira, kusowa chikondi etc. zomwe zimachokera ku chikhalidwe chathu chaumunthu komanso zomwe zimafuna kuwononga chiyanjano. Ngati tikana zinthu zonsezi ndipo sitigonja kwa izo, ndiye choyamba, ife eni tikhoza kukhalabe mu chiyanjano ndi ubwino, ndipo tingathandize ena kukhalabe mu chiyanjano. Chachiwiri, mofanana ndi Yesu, pamenepo timatha kutsogolera anthu amene ali 'kunja' kuti azigwirizana ndi kuwatsogolera kwa Mulungu.
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