Simuli mayi woipitsitsa chifukwa chakuti mukuyesedwa kufuula kwa ana anu chifukwa cha kusaleza mtima kapena mkwiyo.
Mulibe mlandu chifukwa chakuti mukuyesedwa kukayikira.
Simuli oipa chifukwa chakuti mukuyesedwa kuyang'ana zinthu zodetsedwa.
Mukuyesedwa chifukwa ...
Ziyeso zimenezi zimabwera chifukwa chakuti tili ndi chikhalidwechaumunthu chochimwa. Ndi chifukwa cha kugwa (Genesis 3) kuti tonsefe tili ndi zilakolako zauchimo zimenezi zomwe zimatiyesa kuchimwa.
"Mayesero a m'moyo wanu sasiyana ndi zimene ena amakumana nazo. " 1 Akorinto 10:13 (NLT).
Koma cholinga chake n'chakuti tizilamulira zilakolako zauchimo zimenezi osati kuti zitilamulire! (Genesis 4:7.) Sitiyenera kupereka pamene tikuyesedwa kukwiya, mkwiyo, kukayikira etc., koma tiyenera kuwagonjetsa. Si tchimo kuyesedwa, koma ngati tigonja ku chiyeso, ndiye kuti timachimwa.
Mwachitsanzo, pamene mukumva kukhala wosaleza mtima ndipo mukuyesedwa kufuula kwa ana anu, simunachimwebe! Chiyeso nthaŵi zonse chimabwera monga lingaliro kapena lingaliro limene mukufuna kuchitapo kanthu. Koma mukudziŵa kuti nkulakwa kukhala wosaleza mtima, ndipo mumadana ndi lingaliro limenelo la kusaleza mtima. Ndipo ngakhale kuti mumamva kukhala wosaleza mtima, simuchitapo kanthu ndipo musayambe kukuwa ana anu ndi kuwalankhula mawu aukali. Ndiye mukugonjetsa.
Mndandanda wa mayesero a zochita:
Pali zinthu ziwiri zofunika kuchita mukayesedwa.
Choyamba ndicho kugwiritsira ntchito mawu a Mulungu monga chida cholimbana ndi mdyerekezi, amene amafuna kuti mugonjeku chiyesocho. "Mudzamva bwino kwambiri mukafuula," akukuuzani. Kapena "Iwo akuyenera." M'munda wa Edene anauza Hava kuti: "Kodi Mulungu ananenadi kuti ...?" ndipo anamupangitsa kukayikira malamulo a Mulungu. Koma pamene Yesu, chitsanzo chathu ndi mtsogoleri, anayesedwa m'chipululu, Iye anati: "Choka, Satana, chifukwa zalembedwa ..." Ndipo Iye anagwiritsa ntchito mawu a Mulungu kutumiza mdierekezi kutali.
Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi mawu a Mulungu okonzeka kukuthandizani m'chiyeso, muyenera kukonzekera musanalowe m'chiyeso. Muyenera kudziwa mawu a Mulungu. Pa SAL.119:11 (ESV) pamati: Ndinawabisa mawu anu mumtima mwanga, kuti ndisachimwire inu." Ŵerengani mawu a Mulungu ndi kuwasunga mumtima mwanu ndi malingaliro anu kotero kuti mukhale okonzeka kuwagwiritsira ntchito pamene mukuwafuna!
Chinthu chachiwiri chofunika kuchita mukayesedwa, ndicho kupita kwa Mulungu kukafuna thandizo. "Choncho tiyeni tibwere molimba mtima ku mpando wachifumu wachisomo, kuti tipeze chifundo, ndi kupeza chisomo chothandizira panthawi yosowa." (Ahebri 4:16.) Nthawi yanu yosowa ndi pamene mukuyesedwa. Ndiyeno mukhoza kupita ku mpando wachifumu wa chisomo ndi kupempherera thandizo kuti mugonjetse chiyesocho. Ndipo thandizo limenelo si lakuti chiyesocho chidzatha ndipo simukumvanso kukhala wosaleza mtima, koma kuti mupeze mphamvu yosagonja kufikira chiyesocho chigonjetsedwa mokwanira.
Kuphunzira pa mayesero
" Ndikulemberani ichi ana anga, kuti musachimwe; koma ngati wina achita tchimo, tili ndi wina wochonderera Atate m'malo mwathu — Yesu Kristu, wolungama." 1 Yohane 2:1 (GNB).
Ngatimugwamu uchimo, ndiye kuti mungapemphe chikhululukiro ndipo mudzakhululukidwa. Mpando wachifumu wa chisomo umakhalanso wa zimenezo. Koma cholinga chake si chakutimugwamu uchimo mobwerezabwereza. Kumbukirani, muyenera kulamulira uchimo! Koma ngati mugwam'uchimo, muyenera kuphunzira pa zolakwa zanu, ndi kuchita bwino nthaŵi yotsatira. Muyenera kukonzekera nokha ndi kukhala ndi mawu a Mulungu okonzeka mumtima mwanu musanayesedwe, ndiye kuti mungakhale otsimikiza kuti mudzagonjetsa nthawi yotsatira!
Zingatenge nthawi mpaka mutagonjetsa mokwanira. Mukavomereza choonadi chokhudza inu nokha - mwachitsanzo, kuti mumakhala wosaleza mtima kapena wokwiya mosavuta - ndipo mumatenga chisankho cholimba kuti mugonjetse zimenezo, sizikutanthauza kuti nthawi yomweyo mudzasiya kuyesedwa. Mudzayesedwabe, ndipo mungagwenso musanagonjetse. Koma ngati mupitiriza kufunafuna thandizo m'Mawu a Mulungu ndi pa mpando wachifumu wa chisomo, ndi kukhulupirira zimene Mulungu akulonjeza m'Mawu Ake, ndiye kuti mudzagonjetsa tchimo limene mukuyesedwa nalo.
Ndipo, pang'onopang'ono, mudzasinthidwa ndi kukonzedwanso, ndipokusaleza mtima ndi mkwiyo zimene zinali mbali ya chikhalidwe chanu, kuleza mtima ndi ubwino zidzakula ndi kulowa m'malo mwa zomwe zachokazo. Chimenecho ndicho chisomo chachikulu chimene tili nacho mwa Khiirisitu Yesu.