Wokwiya, wosaleza mtima, wouma khosi komanso wofuna. Awa ndi mawu amene akanandifotokozera mosavuta.
Tikuwona kuti machimo ena amalandiridwa - amaperekedwa ku mibadwomibadwo. M'banja langa, kukwiya mosavuta ndithudi ndi chimodzi mwa zimenezo. Anthu ambiri angagwiritse ntchito machimo amenewa ngati chodzikhululukira kuti apitirize kuchitapo kanthu m'njira inayake. Koma machimo akhoza kugonjetsedwa, ndipo monga Mkhristu sindiyenera kudzikhululukira ndekha chifukwa chosagonjetsa m'dera lililonse. Ngakhale kuti ndi chinthu chomwe chili chozama kwambiri mwa ine komanso cholimba kwambiri m'banja langa.
Chibadwa cha anthu kapena chikhalidwe chaumulungu?
Monga Mkristu ndiyenera kusonyeza chibadwa cha Mulungu. (2 Petro 1:2-8.) Moyo wanga uyenera kuwonetsa zipatso za Mzimu ngati chikondi, chimwemwe, kuleza mtima etc, zomwe ndizofanana ndi chikhalidwe chaumulungu. (2 Akorinto 4: 10-11; 1 Petro 3:9.) Ngati ine kwenikweni kuganiza za zimene zikutanthauza, zikutanthauza kuti kukhala pafupi ndi ine ayenera kukhala ngati kukhala pafupi Yesu Mwini. Ziyenera kukhala kuti pamene nthawi ikupita, tchimo mu chikhalidwe changa chaumunthu, monga mkwiyo ndi kusaleza mtima, limagonjetsedwa ndi kuloŵedwa m'malo ndi zipatso za Mzimu. Kenaka kuleza mtima, kufatsa ndi ubwino zimatuluka.
Izi sizingakhale momwe anthu ena amandichitikira tsopano, koma ndikudziwa kuti mwa kukhala wokhulupirika m'moyo wanga wa tsiku ndi tsiku, zingakhale chonchi. Pamene ndikuyesedwa kuti ndikwiye kapena kukhumudwa ndikhoza kunena kuti Ayi tchimo ili mu chikhalidwe changa - kunena Ayi mkwiyo ndi Inde ku ubwino. Ndiye pang'ono ndi pang'ono ndimapeza zipatso zambiri za Mzimu. Ena ozungulira ine sayenera kukumana ndi machimo amenewo omwe anatengera m'chikhalidwe changa. Ayenera kukumana ndi chibadwa chaumulungu m'malo mwa chikhalidwe chimene ndinabadwa nacho ndi mikhalidwe ya banja imene ndili nayo!
Moyo wopita patsogolo
Kukwiya mosavuta ndi chitsanzo chimodzi chooneka bwino kwambiri. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti n'zoonekeratu kwambiri munthu akakwiya, n'zolimbikitsanso kwambiri kuona kupita patsogolo m'moyo wa munthu wina m'dera limeneli. Mwinamwake bwenzi lanu, kholo, kapena mbale wanu nthaŵi zonse wakhala wofulumira kukwiya ndi kukwiya. Koma kenako akufika pamene akufunadi kutha ndi zimenezi, ndipo mukuzindikira kuti sakukwiyiranso.
Iwo anali nthawi zonse kukwiya ndi zinthu zimene munanena ndi kuchita, koma tsopano, chifukwa cha uthenga wabwino wa kugonjetsa uchimo, iwo kugonjetsa. Izi zimakupatsani chiyembekezo chachikulu kwa inu nokha! Mukhozanso kugonjetsa ndi kukumana ndi kusintha kwa moyo wanu.
Ndine mtundu wa munthu amene amachita nsanje mosavuta ndipo kotero, pamene anzanga akusangalala ndipo sindikuitanidwa, chinthu chachibadwa kwa ine chikanakhala nsanje. N'chifukwa chiyani sindinaitanidwe? Kodi sitili mabwenzi? Malingaliro ameneŵa anali kundichititsa chipwirikiti chachikulu, koma tsopano ndikumvetsetsa kukana malingaliro ameneŵa ndipo m'malo mwake kukhala wosangalala pamene enawo ali achimwemwe. (Aroma 12:15.)
Pamene mukuŵerenga Baibulo, simulandira konse mkhalidwe waumunthu umene Yesu anabadwa nawo. Izi zili choncho chifukwa Iye nthawi zonse ankanena Kuti Ayi ku tchimo mu chikhalidwe Chake chaumunthu - kotero kuti chikhalidwe cha Mulungu chikhoza kuwonekera kuchokera ku moyo Wake. Zingakhale chimodzimodzi ndi ife. Ngati ndikanasamukira kumalo atsopano mawa, kodi mabwenzi atsopano ndi anansi angakumane ndi chiyani? Chikhalidwe chakale chimene ndinabadwa nacho chodzaza ndi ulesi ndi kusaleza mtima? Kapena kodi angakumane ndi munthu amene ali waumulungu, wogwira ntchito mwakhama komanso woleza mtima?
Ndithudi, iyi ndi ndondomeko yomwe imatenga nthawi, koma ndikudziwa kuti ngati ndikuganizira kwambiri za chikhalidwe cha Yesu, ndiye kuti zidzachitika. Ndipo ndi mmene enawo adzandichitikira.