N'zosavuta kwambiri kutumiza ndemanga pa Instagram kapena Facebook popanda kuganiza kwambiri za izo. Zimangotenga masekondi ochepa kuti mutumize meseji. N'zosavuta kunena mawu osakoma mtima kapena kuseka munthu wina. N'zosavuta kwambiri kupweteka munthu ndi mawu.
Posachedwapa ndinawerenga nkhani yowona yosweka mtima ndi mtsikana wazaka 17. Iye anafotokoza za mmene anzake a m'kalasi a kusekondale anamunyozera ndi kumutumizira mauthenga oipa kwambiri.
Mwatsoka, nkhani yake ndi imodzi yokha mwa zambiri. M'nkhani yake, iye akupempha ndi kutichonderera kuti tisamale ndi zimene tikunena ndi kulemberana makalata. "Mawu akhoza kupha. Kumbukirani izi sukulu ikayamba," akutero.
Ngakhale kuti zitsanzo zomwe amagawana ndizoopsa komanso zoyipa, ndi zithunzi za mauthenga omwe adalandira zomwe zimapweteka kwambiri. "Ndiwe wonyansa," iwo akulemba motero, "umayenera kufa." Iye akuimbidwa mlandu waukali wa milandu yowopsa popanda umboni. Mphekesera zinafalikira mofulumira kudzera pa media media.
Mawu amene amagwetsa
Anthu samangovulazidwa ndi kumenyedwa kwakuthupi. Mawu akhoza mwamsanga kuswa munthu kudzidalira kwa kanthu. Mauthenga a mauthenga omwe amakuuzani kuti palibe amene amakuderani nkhawa, kapena kuti palibe amene amakukondani chifukwa cha momwe mumaonekera, akhoza kuwononga kwambiri zomwe zingakhale zaka zambiri. Mwina iwo anatanthauzidwa ngati nthabwala; mwina munthu amene ankawatumiza anali pamodzi ndi anzake ena pamene analemba, ndipo anati iwo pansi pa chitsenderezo. Onsewo sali chodzikhululukira kaamba ka khalidwe loterolo.
Sitikungolankhula za mawu omwe amatenga mawonekedwe a kuwopseza imfa, monga mtsikana wosauka ameneyu analandira. Sitikungolankhula za kupezerera. Tikulankhula za mawu opanda chifundo, opweteka, otsutsa omwe inu ndi ine tinganene mosavuta popanda kuganiza. Mawu amene angapweteke, amene amachititsa munthu kukhala wosatsimikiza kapena wopatulidwa. Zimenezo si zabwino konse. Ngakhale ngati sitikutanthauza m'njira yoipa, sitiyenera kunena kapena kutumiza uthenga umene umachititsa anthu kumva chonchi.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zoopsa zazikulu ndi chikhalidwe CHA ANTHU - anthu amamva kutali kwambiri ndi munthu yemwe akulembera, kotero kuti amaona kuti safunikira kusamala ndi zomwe akunena kapena kugawana ndi ena. Ndipo zimachitika mofulumira kwambiri; uthenga waufupi chabe, ndi "kutumiza".
Kodi n'zotheka kufafaniza mawu?
Mawu samatha. Iwo amakhalabe m'maganizo a anthu amene amawalandira, ndiponso m'makumbukidwe a Mulungu. Izi zimagwira ntchito pa zabwino ndi zoipa, chifukwa Mulungu ndi woweruza wolungama. (Mateyu 12:37.) Tisanene kapena kulemba chilichonse chimene sitingabwereze, ndipo tiyeni tiime kuti tiganizirenso tisanasekere munthu wina kapena kupereka ndemanga zonyoza.
Koma ngati tikunena zinthu zimene pambuyo pake timamva chisoni, chinthu chabwino koposa chimene tingachite ndicho kuchipanga kukhala cholondola. Pemphani chikhululukiro. Kupempha chikhululukiro kungakhale kovuta, ndipo kumafuna kulimba mtima. Tonsefe timafunikira chikhululukiro, koposa zonse kuchokera kwa Mulungu Mwini. (Aefeso 4:32.) Pamene tipempherera zimenezi kuchokera mumtima woona ndi woona mtima, pamenepo Mulungu ali wabwino ndipo amatikhululukira mitundu yonse ya uchimo, ngakhale mawu osalingalira.
Koma tiyenera kuchitanso bwino ndi anthu amene tawapweteka. Ndiyeno tingapemphere kuti Mulungu atipatse maganizo atsopano, ndiponso kuti tiyambenso kuchita zimenezi kuti zimenezi zisachitikenso. Tiyenera kusinthiratu kuti mawu amtundu umenewo asatulukenso mwa ife.
Sankhani kudalitsa m'malo
Kodi n'chiyani chimasiyana ndi kupweteka munthu? Dalitso. Kodi kutsutsa n'kosiyana bwanji? Zolimbikitsa. Kwalembedwa kuti zipatso za kukhala ndi moyo wa Mulungu ndizo ubwino, chilungamo, ndi chowonadi. (Aefeso 5:9.) Izi ziyenera kusonyeza m'mawu athu. Ganizirani kukhala chitsanzo m'zinthu zimenezi m'malo mokhala munthu amene amagwetsa ndi mawu oipa. Timaitanidwa kuti timange, kukhala okoma mtima kwa wina ndi mnzake, kudalitsa. Tikhoza kugwiritsa ntchito mauthenga ndi chikhalidwe TV cholinga ichi komanso. Ndiye ife kunena ndi kutumiza mawu sitidzapepesa konse, kaya tsopano kapena mu umuyaya!
"Musalole aliyense kukukhumudwitsani chifukwa cha unyamata wanu; m'malo mwake, ikani okhulupirira chitsanzo m'mawu anu, khalidwe, chikondi, chidaliro ndi chiyero." 1 Timoteyo 4:12.
Tiyenera kukhala maso nthawi zonse kuti mawu athu asabweretse mdima kwa aliyense, koma m'malo mwake abweretse kuwala.
"Ambuye, ndithandizeni kulamulira lilime langa; ndithandizeni kusamala ndi zimene ndikunena." Salmo 141:3.
