Kodi ubwenzi weniweni n'chiyani? Kodi si ubwenzi umene chikondi sichizizira, zivute zitani? Kumene zinthu monga nsanje, kukayikira, ndi kuwawidwa mtima sizingagaŵanitseubwenzi?
Nkhani ya Mariya ndi Elizabeti, monga momwe yafotokozedwera mu Luka 1, ndi chitsanzo cha ubwenzi weniweni umene umawala kwambiri mpaka nthawi yathu. Ino.
Mariya ndi Elizabeti anali oopa Mulungu kwambiri. Onse aŵiri anapeza chisomo ndi Mulungu, ndipo onse aŵiri anasankhidwa ndi Iye kaamba ka ntchito zapadera.
Mariya ndi Elizabeti anapeza chisomo ndi Mulungu
Elizabeti anali ndi pakati pa nthawiyo paYohane M'batizi. Mulungu anam'patsa ntchito yokhala mayi wa munthu amene analosera kalekale. Iye anapeza chisomo chachikulu ndi Mulungu chifukwa cha mantha ake aumulungu.
Koma tikudziwa kuti Mariya analandira ntchito yaikulu kwambiri. Mngeloyo atamuchezera ndipo anamva nkhani ya chisomo chimene chinali kubwera m'njira yake, anafulumira kupita kunyumba kwa Elizabeti ndipo anasangalala naye.
Elizabeti anapatsidwa zambiri, koma Mariya anali atalandira kanthu kena kakulu koposa, anayenera kubala Mpulumutsi wa dziko, Yesu Kristu. Munganene kuti Mariya anali wamkulu kuposa Elizabeti.
Ngati panali nsanje iliyonse mumtima mwa Elizabeti, iye sakanasangalala kwenikweni ndi nkhani ya Mariya. Ndipo akanakwiya mosavuta. Koma si zimene timawerenga! Baibulo Limanena kuti anasangalala kwambiri kumva nkhani ya Mariya yakuti mwana amene anali naye anatakatakachifukwa cha chisangalalo m'mimba mwake! Mariya atagawana nkhani yake ndi Elizabeti, chisangalalo cha Elizabeti chinali chachikulu kwambiri moti anadzazidwa ndi Mzimu Woyera ndipo anafuula kuti, "Wodalitsika ndiwe pakati pa akazi!"
Ulendo wapadera
Kukambitsirana kumene kunatsatira pakati pa akazi aŵiri ameneŵa kunali kokha kwa chimwemwe ndi chitamando. Izi sizikanatheka ngati onse awiri sanali opanda kunyada kwathunthu, nsanje, kapena china chilichonse chomwe chingapangitse chikondi chawo kuzizira.
Kenako Mariya anakhala ndi Elizabeti kunyumba kwake kwa miyezi pafupifupi itatu. Ngati tilingalira za kukambitsirana kwawo patsiku loyamba, umenewo uyenera kukhala ulendo wapadera kwambiri! Chiyenera kuti chinali chodzaza ndi chimwemwe, chikondi, ndi chiyanjano chenicheni.
Mariya ndi Elizabeti ankakonda kwambiri Mulungu. Zimenezi zinapangitsa ubwenzi wawo kukhala wolimba kwambiri, wachikondi ndi woyera. Iwo ayenera kuti anali kuyembekezera mwachidwi kubadwa kwa ana awo aamuna! Mantha awo aumulungu ayenera kuti anali aakulu kwambiri, popeza kuti onse aŵiri anali ndi pakati pa ana aamuna amene akakhala zida zofunika kwambiri za chipulumutso chathu!
Mbadwo wotsatira
Tikudziŵa kuti unansi wachikondi pakati pa Mariya ndi Elizabeti unapita kwa mbadwo wotsatira. Mtima wa Yohane M'batizi unali wopanda nsanje kwambiri moti ankatha kunena za Yesu kuti: "... wina akubwera yemwe ali wamkulu kwambiri kuposa ine. Sindili woyenerangakhale kumasula nsapato zake. Adzakubatiza ndi Mzimu Woyera ndi moto." Luka 3:16 (GNT).
Ndipo pa Yohane 3:29-30 (GNT) iye anati: "Mkwati ndi amene mkwatibwi ali; koma bwenzi la mkwati, amene akuimirira ndi kumvetsera, amasangalala akamva mawu a mkwati. Umu ndi mmene chimwemwe changa chimapangidwira. Ayenera kukhala wofunika kwambiri pamene ine ndikukhala wosafunika kwenikweni." Yohane 3:29-30 (GNT).
Iye "analandira" mtima wopanda nsanje kwa amayi ake. Ndi dalitso lalikulu chotani nanga kukhala ndi choloŵa choterocho! Munthu wamtima wonse komanso woopa Mulungu akhoza kukhala ndi chisonkhezero kwa mibadwo chikwi. (Eksodo 20:6.)
Tingakhale oyamikira kwambiri chifukwa cha Mariya ndi Elizabeti ndi ntchito zimene anachita chifukwa cha mantha awo aumulungu. Tingatsatirenso zitsanzo zimene anatipatsa ndi kulola chikondi chaumulungu kulamulira m'mitima yathu, kotero kuti maubaleathu onse akhale oyera ndi odzazidwa ndi mayanjano enieni!