Kuimba mlandu ena kuli kwachibadwa mofanana ndi kupuma kwa anthu ambiri. Adzachita chilichonse kuti atsimikizire kuti chilichonse chichitike, anthu adzawaganizirabe bwino.
Ndikukhala pa desiki yanga, ndikuganiza za chinachake chimene ndinamva pamsonkhano wachikristu waposachedwapa. Iwo analankhula za 1 Akorinto 11:31 (CEB) kumene limati, "Pakuti tikadadziweruza tokha, sitikanaweruzidwa."
M'mikhalidwe iriyonse, chiri kachitidwe kachibadwa kuweruza kapena kuimba mlandu enawo. Zimenezi zinayamba pachiyambi penipeni ndi zimene Adamu anachita pamene Mulungu anamufunsa zimene anachita. Iye sanangoimba mlandu Hava chifukwa chomupatsa chipatsocho, komanso mwachindunji anaimba mlandu Mulungu ("Mkazi amene Munamupatsa kuti akhale nane ..." Genesis 3:12).
Dzina langa "labwino"
Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, ndimachita manyazi ndikaganizira nthawi zonse zimene ndachita zomwezo, kudziteteza ku mlandu uliwonse komanso kupereka mlandu kwa ena. Pafupifupi ngati mulibe ulamuliro pa izo. Mawu amangooneka kuti akutuluka okha: "Si mlandu wanga! Iye ndi amene anachita izo ..." "Kunena zoona, ndinali wotsutsana ndi lingaliro kuyambira pachiyambi ..." etc.
N'chifukwa chiyani ndili choncho? Sindimayesedwa konse kunena kuti sindinali mbali ya chinachake chomwe chinakhala chopambana. N'chifukwa chiyani ndikunena kuti sindinali mbali ya chinthu chomwe sichinayende mwangwiro? Pali yankho limodzi lokha. Monga munthu, ndabadwa ndi chibadwa chochimwa chomwe chimanyadira kwambiri moti sichingavomereze kuti chinachita chinachake cholakwika pamaso pa anthu ena. Choncho nthawi iliyonse pamene zikuwoneka ngati dzina langa labwino liri pangozi, ndimayesedwa kunama, kuukira ndi kuimba mlandu ena.
Kudziweruza ndekha ndikuvomereza choonadi
Kodi yankho lake ndi lotani? Kudziweruza ndekha? Zimenezo sizikumveka ngati chinthu chabwino. Koma ngati ndine mtundu wa munthu amene sangavomereze kuti ndikulakwitsa kapena akanatha kuchita zinthu bwino, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kuti ena akhale nane. Sindikufuna kukhala choncho! Ngati ndikufuna kusintha kuti zikhale zabwino, ndidzayenera kuchitapo kanthu - sizidzachitika palokha.
Chotero, ngati ndidziweruza ndekha ndi kuvomereza zolakwa zanga, pamenepo nchiyani? Ngati sindigonja pamene ndikuyesedwa kuimba mlandu enawo, ndidzayamba kuona zolakwa zambiri ndi uchimo mwa ine ndekha. Chisokonezo chonse chimene ndimamva mu mkhalidwe uliwonse nthawi zonse chimachokera ku zilakolako zanga zauchimo, mwachitsanzo, chikhumbo changa chofuna kukondedwa, kulingaliridwa kwambiri, kunyada kwanga. Sichichokera konse ku zochita za ena. Sindiyenera kuimba mlandu wina aliyense - pali zokwanira mu chikhalidwe changa chomwe ndingagwire nacho ntchito!
Izi zidzandipangitsa kukhala wokoma mtima kwambiri kwa anthu ozungulira ine, ndipo pamwamba pa izo, Mulungu akuwona. Ndikudziwa kuti Iye "adzapereka mphoto kwa aliyense wa ife monga mwa zimene tachita. Anthu ena akupitirizabe kuchita zabwino, ndi kufunafuna ulemerero, ulemu, ndi moyo wosafa; kwa iwo Mulungu adzapereka moyo wosatha." Aroma 2:6-7 (GNT).