Pamene Mulungu analenga anthu, Iye anawapatsa chinachake chapadera kwambiri. Anawapatsa ufulu wosankha zochita kuti azisankha okha zochita.
Kugwa (Genesis 3) kunachitika chifukwa chakuti Adamu ndi Hava anagwiritsa ntchito ufulu wawo wosankha kumvetsera Satana. Koma, tingagwiritse ntchito ufulu womwewo wosankha kulandira chipulumutso chimene Yesu anabwera nacho, ndi kumutsatira Iye.
Mumakolola zomwe mwafesa
Mulungu, amene ali ndi mphamvu zonse ndi nzeru zonse, wapatsa munthu aliyense ufulu wosankha. Zimenezo sizikutanthauza kuti tingachite chilichonse chimene tikufuna popanda zotsatira zilizonse, chifukwa ngakhale tili ndi ufulu wosankha, timakhalabe ndi udindo pa zosankha zimene timapanga. M'Baibulo, malingaliro amene timasankha kuganiza, mawu amene timasankha kulankhula ndi zochita zimene timasankha kuchita, amayerekezedwa ndi kufesa mbewu m'dzikolo. Tingasankhe kufesa mbewu iliyonse imene tikufuna, koma mbewuyo ikangofesedwa, sitingasankhe zimene tidzakolola.
"Nthawi zonse mudzakolola zimene mumabzala [kubzala]. Awo amene amakhala ndi moyo kokha kuti akhutiritse mkhalidwe wawo wauchimo adzakolola kuvunda ndi imfa kuchokera ku mkhalidwe wauchimo umenewo. Koma amene amakhala ndi moyo kuti asangalatse Mzimu adzakolola moyo wosatha kuchokera kwa Mzimu." Agalatiya 6:7-8 (NLT).
Landirani ufulu wosankha anthu ena
Monga momwe Mulungu amalandirira ufulu wathu wosankha, tiyeneranso kulandira ufulu wosankha wa ena. Kodi zimenezo zikutanthauza kuti tilibe thayo kwa wina aliyense? Indedi ayi. Tangoganizirani za ana. Ngati mwana ali wamng'ono kwambiri, makolo ake sangangoganiza kuti, "Chabwino, ana alinso ndi ufulu wosankha zochita, choncho ayenera kuloledwa kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna kuchita."
Makolo ali ndi udindo wolera ana awo. Koma pamene ana awo akukula, makolo ayenera kupeza kulinganizika koyenera pakati pa ufulu wa mwanayo ndi udindo wa makolo wolera ndi kuphunzitsa mwanayo.
Tili ndi zambiri zoti tiphunzire m'derali. Mwachitsanzo, monga makolo, sitiyenera kulamulira ana athu; ndipo sitiyenera kuyesa kuzisandutsa makope a ife eni. M'malo mwake, tiyenera kukhala zitsanzo kwa iwo, kukhala nazo pa mitima yathu, ndi kuzipempherera! Tiyenera kulankhulana nawo ndi kuwathandiza kumvetsa bwino zinthu, m'malo mowavuta ndi malamulo ambiri.
Paulo monga chitsanzo
N'chimodzimodzinso ndi ubale wathu ndi anthu ena. Tingaphunzire zambiri pamene tiŵerenga mmene Paulo anachitira ndi Filemoni pamene anali kukambitsirana za Onesimo, kapolo wa Filemoni amene anali ku Roma ndipo anali atatembenuzidwa. "Ndikhoza kukhala wolimba mtima mokwanira, monga m'bale wanu mwa Khristu, kukulamulani kuti muchite zimene ziyenera kuchitidwa. Koma chifukwa chakuti ndimakukondani, ndimapempha m'malo mwake." Filemoni 1:8-9 (GNT). Iye akupitiriza kuti: "Sindikufuna kukukakamizani kuti mundithandize; m'malo mwake, ndikufuna kuti muchite mwa kufuna kwanu. Kotero sindidzachita chilichonse pokhapokha mutavomereza." Filemoni 1:14 (GNT).
Kutumikira ndi kudalitsa ufulu wanu wosankha
Kuvomereza ufulu wosankha winayo n'kofunikanso kwambiri pankhani yotumikira ndi kupereka m'tchalitchi. Pamenepo nzeru ingatiphunzitse malamulo abwino onena za maunansi athu ndi wina ndi mnzake. Kumbali imodzi, sitiyenera kulamulirana wina ndi mnzake, kulankhula mokwiya kwa wina ndi mnzake, kapena kukhala ndi zofuna pa wina ndi mnzake. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, tiyenera kupirirana pa mitima yathu, kupemphererana wina ndi mnzake, kulimbikitsana ndi kuthandizana.
Cholinga chathu chiyenera kukhala chakuti anthu mofunitsitsa asankhe kuchita chifuniro cha Mulungu, kuti afunedi kuchita chifuniro Chake. Pamenepo chikondi chawo pa Kristu chidzawatsogolera iwo m'lamulo langwiro la ufulu, monga momwe kwalembedwera pa Yakobo 1:25. Akalowa m'lamulo langwiro la ufulu limeneli, adzafuna kutumikira ndi kudalitsa enawo - kuchokera mumtima, ndi chimwemwe komanso kuchokera ku ufulu wawo wosankha.