"Khalani okondwa ndi omwe ali osangalala ... " Aroma 12:15 (CEB). Mawu a Mulungu amenewa amatsutsana mwachindunji ndi zimene ndikufuna kuchita monga munthu. Kachitidwe kanga kachibadwa ndikawona kuti chinachake chabwino chimachitika kwa ena ndicho kuchita nsanje, ndiyeno kudandaula ndi kudzimvera chisoni. "N'chifukwa chiyani ndilibe zimene mnzanga ali nazo? Kodi inenso sindikuyenera chinthu chabwino? Mwina ine basi sindiri wabwino mokwanira. Kungoti si chilungamo." Ngakhale ndikapanda kunena mokweza, ndikuganiza ndipo zili mumzimu wanga. Pamenepo ndithudi sindikusangalala.
Kodi ndingatani ndi zimenezi? Kodi ndiyenera kupitirizabe kuganiza choncho? Uthenga wabwino ndi wakuti ndikhoza kusiya kwathunthu kuganiza zinthu zamtunduwu! Ndikaona kapena kumva chinachake ndipo zimakhala ngati malingaliro onsewa ansanje komanso odzikonda akuyandama kwa ine ngati mitambo yakuda, ndiyenera kuweruza malingaliro awa, ndikuwawona chifukwa cha zomwe ali - ndi mayesero a uchimo.
Ndiyeno ndikhoza kungonena kuti, "Ayi! Sindidzagwirizana ndi malingaliro amenewa ndikuwakhulupirira! Mawu a Mulungu sagwirizana nawo. Ndipo nawonso samandisangalatsa. N'chifukwa chiyani ndingapitirize kuwamvetsera?"
Nditakana, ndilinso ndi zida zina zamphamvu zoyendetsa malingaliro amenewa kutali. Ndikhoza kupemphera kwa Yesu kuti, "Ndithandizeni kuti ndisamvere ndi kupereka maganizo amenewa!" Ngakhale zikumveka zoona kapena zolondola malinga ndi kumvetsetsa kwanga kwaumunthu. Yesu ndi Mthandizi wamphamvu panthaŵi ya kusoŵa. (Ahebri 4:15-16.)
Mulungu amandithandizanso kuchotsa malingaliro amdima ameneŵa mwa kundipatsa Mawu Ake. "Khalani okondwa ndi omwe ali osangalala ..." Aroma 12:15 (CEB). "Chikondi sichichita nsanje ..." 1 Akorinto 13:4 (ICB). "Khalani ndi moyo wopanda chikondi cha ndalama. Khalani okhutira ndi zimene muli nazo." Ahebri 13:5 (CSB). Ndiyenera kungogwira mawu awa ndikupitiriza kunena kuti "kayi" ku malingaliro awa, ndiye kuti malingaliro sadzandilamulira!
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Mawu a Mulungu amandipatsanso mphamvu kuti ndiyambe kuganiza maganizo abwino, kutali ndi dyera m'chibadwa changa chaumunthu kumene ndimangoganizira za ine ndekha. Ndikhoza kuyamba kuthokoza Mulungu chifukwa cha anzanga ndi mmene Iye wawadalitsira. Mumtima mwanga ndimawakonda, ndipo ndikufuna kupitirizabe kuwakonda! Nthawi ina ndinamva kuti n'zosatheka kuganizira kwambiri za munthu amene mukumupempherera. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zomwezo ndi zoona pano - Sindingathe kuchitira nsanje munthu yemwe ndikupempherera! Ndikhozanso kuthokoza Mulungu chifukwa cha zonse zimene Iye wandipatsa. Ngati ine ndikuganiza mmbuyo pang'ono, n'zoonekeratu kuti Mulungu amandisamaliradi, Iye amatsatira pamodzi ndi zonse zimene zikuchitika mu moyo wanga, ndipo Iye amandipatsa ndendende zimene ndikufuna kuti ine ndikhoza kumasuka ku machimo onsewa, amene ali chimene ine ndikufuna kwambiri. Ndili ndi zifukwa zonse zokhalira woyamikira ndi kuthamangitsa malingaliro onse osakhutira kutali!
Pamapeto pake chiyeso chimataya mphamvu yake ndipo ndasunga chimwemwe changa. Ngati ndipitirizabe motere, kudzakhala kosavuta ndi kosavuta kukhala wosangalala ndi awo amene ali achimwemwe. M'kupita kwa nthaŵi, ndidzayamba kuchita zimenezo mwachibadwa. Ngati ndimangosangalala pamene chinachake chabwino chindichitikira, koma kukhala wosasangalala pamene chinachake chabwino chichitikira munthu wina, ndiye kuti ndidzakhala ndi chimwemwe chochepa kwambiri m'moyo. Koma ngati ine ndikhoza kukhala wokondwa ndi aliyense amene ali wokondwa – tangoganizani mmene chimwemwe kuti ndi! Ndipo ndidzasangalala kwambiri!