Zikayikiro zoipa ponena za anthu zimachokera ku chibadwa chathu chaumunthu chochimwa. Mumaona ndi kumva zinthu zokhudza munthu wina kenako mumawaweruza mwamsanga malinga ndi mmene mumazimvetsetsera ndi maganizo anu ochimwa aumunthu. Nthawi zambiri, inu basi busybody kusakaniza nokha mu bizinesi anthu ena. Ndipo zimenezo zimayambitsa chisokonezo chachikulu choyamba kwa inu nokha, komanso kwa ena mukamalankhula nawo za izo. Mukhoza ngakhale kumveka ngati inu kusamalira munthu pamene inu kulankhula za iye koma pansi pa zonsezi kulankhula, inu mukuganiza kwambiri za inu nokha.
Maganizo a munthu kapena maganizo a Mulungu
Yesu anati: "Musaweruze monga mwa maonekedwe, koma weruzani ndi chiweruzo cholungama." Yohane 7:24. Mukafunsa anthu chifukwa chake ali ndi maganizo enaake, nthawi zambiri mudzaona kuti ndi kukayikira chabe, zimachokera ku chidziwitso chosakwanira ndi malingaliro m'maganizo awo kapena a anthu ena. Mwinamwake anangomva kuchokera kwa ziŵalo za banja lawo kapena ena amene angavulazidwe kapena kukhumudwa. Ichi sichiri cholungama konse.
N'zosiyana ndi chitsanzo chimene Khristu ndi atumiki Ake oona anasiya. "... adzakondwera ndi kuopa Yehova. Sadzaweruza ndi zomwe akuwona ndi maso ake, kapena kusankha ndi zomwe akumva ndi makutu ake ..." Yesaya 11:3 (NIV).
Anthu akachita chinachake chomwe chimatipweteka, kapena timamva kuti ananena zoipa za ife, zimakhala zosavuta kukhumudwa kapena kupita kukapeza chithandizo ndi chifundo kuchokera kwa anthu osakhala achifundo.
Sirach analemba kuti: "Funsani bwenzi, mwina sanachite; koma ngati anachita chilichonse, kuti asachitenso. Funsani mnansi, mwinamwake sananene; koma ngati ananena, kuti asanenenso. Funsani bwenzi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndi kusinjirira; choncho musakhulupirire zonse zimene mukumva." Sirach 19:13-15 (RSV). Kaŵirikaŵiri imeneyi ingakhale yankho losavuta kupuma, ndipo mwanjira imeneyi mumalimbitsa mayanjano m'malo mwa kuuwononga.
Zikayikiro zoipa zimachokera ku kusowa chikondi
Mtumwiyo anali wotsimikiza kuti abale ndi alongo a ku Roma anali "odzala ndi ubwino, odzazidwa ndi chidziŵitso chonse, ndi okhoza kulangizana wina ndi mnzake." Aroma 15:14 (ESV).
Kaŵirikaŵiri, ndilibe ubwino wokwanira ndi chikondi kaamba ka ena. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake ndimalola kuti zikayikiro zoipazi zikhalebe m'maganizo mwanga, pamene ndikanatha kulankhula ndi munthu yemwe ali, poyembekezera kubweretsa thandizo.
"Koma ngati muli ndi nsanje yowawa ndipo pali chikhumbo chadyera mumtima mwanu, musaphimbe choonadi ndi kudzitama ndi kunama. Pakuti nsanje ndi dyera si nzeru ya Mulungu. Zinthu zoterozo nzochititsa padziko lapansi, zopanda chikondi, ndi zauchiŵanda. Pakuti kulikonse kumene kuli nsanje ndi chikhumbo chadyera, kumeneko mudzapeza chisokonezo ndi choipa cha mtundu uliwonse." Yakobo 3:14-16 (NLT).
Zinthu zimakhala zovuta mosavuta komanso zosokoneza ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito nzeru zochokera padziko lapansi. Kenaka mumadzitsegulira nokha ku magwero a zoipa ndipo mwamsanga mukhoza kukhala wodetsedwa. Mukhoza kuyamba kukayikira mosavuta, kudzudzula ndipo ngakhale kutsutsa munthu amene mumamukonda ndi amene anali wamtengo wapatali kwa inu. Ngati zimenezi zichitika, mwafika kutali ndi kungokhala wokhulupirika kwa Kristu. Mwalola dyera kapena nsanje mumtima mwanu.
Chiphunzitso chenicheni cha uthenga wabwino
"Anthu ena adzaphunzitsa zabodza ndipo sadzagwirizana ndi chiphunzitso choona cha Ambuye wathu Yesu Khristu. Iwo sadzalandira chiphunzitso chimene chimatulutsa moyo wodzipereka kwa Mulungu. Amanyadira zimene akudziwa, koma samvetsa chilichonse. Iwo akudwala ndi chikondi cha kukangana ndi kumenyana ponena za mawu. Ndipo zimenezo zimabweretsa nsanje, mikangano, mwano, ndi kusakhulupirirana koipa [zikayikiro]." 1 Timoteyo 6:3-4 (ERV).
Tiyeni tileke ndi malingaliro athu onse opusa aumunthu ndi kugwiritsitsa chiphunzitso chowona cha uthenga wabwino, magwero a chipulumutso chonse, kudalitsidwa, ndi chiyanjano. Tiyeni, monga momwe Yesu analamulira, tidzikane tokha ndi kutenga mtanda wathu tsiku ndi tsiku. Tisapereke malingaliro ochimwa ameneŵa, tisaweruze kuti tisaweruzidwe. Tiyeni tivomereze kuti tikufunikira mzimu wa Mulungu, ndipo tiyeni tikonde monga momwe Iye anatikonderanso. Tiyeni tisumike pa kugwira ntchito pa chitukuko chathu ndi kukhalabe m'ziphunzitso za Yesu, pakuti ngati tichita zimenezi, tidzadzipulumutsa tokha ndi awo amene amatimva. Ndipo tiyeni tifunefune kukhala mwamtendere ndi aliyense ndi kukhala oyera, pakuti iwo amene sali oyera sadzaona Ambuye. (Luka 9:23; Mateyu 7:1; Mateyu 5:3; Yohane 13:34; 1 Timoteyo 4:16; Ahebri 12:14.)