Kotero mukufuna kukhala opanda zolaula - kodi ndichoncho? Mukufuna kutuluka mu mkombero uwu wa kuyesedwa, kugwa ndi kumva liwongo, mobwerezabwereza?
Mukakhala omwerekera ndi kuyang'ana zolaula zimatha kumva ngati chimphona chachikulu chomwe sichidzakulolani kuti mupite. Ndipo "chimphona" chimenechi cha chidetso chimakulepheretsani kupita panjira ya Mkhristu. Koma n'zotheka kwambiri kusagonja ku ziyeso zodetsedwa zimenezi ndi kukhala ndi moyo woyera, wachimwemwe, wogonjetsa, wachikristu.
Mulungu analenga ukwati kumene mwamuna ndi mkazi angakhale pamodzi ndi dalitso Lake, mu ubale wosamala ndi wabwino. Kugonjera ku zilakolako zanu za kugonana njira ina iliyonse, kuphatikizapo zolaula, ndi tchimo. Ndi tchimo lonyansa kwambiri lomwe muyenera kuwona momwe Mulungu akuwonera: kwambiri, kwambiri!
Zolaula zimawononga moyo wanu
Ngati mugonja ku chigololo "chobisika" chimenechi, chidzakhudza anthu ambiri kuposa inu nokha. Musaganize kuti chifukwa chakuti mukuchita mobisa, palibe wina aliyense amene amavulala. Sikuti mumangowononga moyo wanu kudzera m'zithunzi zomwe zimakhalabe m'makumbukidwe anu, zimakhalanso zovuta kwambiri kukhalabe okhulupirika kwa mkazi wanu kapena mwamuna wanu, kapena mkazi wanu wamtsogolo kapena mwamuna wanu.
Pali anthu ambiri amene mwinamwake samanyenga mkazi kapena mwamuna wawo mwakuthupi, koma kugonjera ku chigololo chobisika kuli kowononga mofananamo. Zotsatira za kusakhulupirika kumeneku zikhoza kuwonedwa ponseponse padziko lapansi lero: nyumba zosweka, zowawa, kuwawa ndi kuvutika mkati.
Mdyerekezi akufuna kuba, kupha ndi kuwononga. (Yohane 10:10.) Imodzi mwa njira zowononga kwambiri kwa iye kuchita zimenezo ndiyo kupangitsa anthu kugonja ku zikhumbo zawo za kugonana kunja kwa ukwati. Kupyolera mu chinthu chonga zolaula, Satana amatenga ulamuliro wonse wa munthu. Zotsatira zake n'zoopsa.
Koma Satana amadziŵa kubisa zotulukapo zowopsazo, ndipo amazipanga kukhala zokopa kwambiri kwakuti mumaiŵala zimene zimatsogolera. Kenaka, pamene mukunyengedwa ndi "khungu", iye mochenjera adzajambula chithunzi cha chinachake kapena wina, kukuuzani kuti mulibe njira ina koma kupita limodzi ndi masewera ake oipa. Ndipo mutapereka, mumasiyidwa mukumva kukhala wodetsedwa, wogonjetsedwa ndi wamanyazi, nthawi iliyonse.
Kodi mukufuna kukhala wopanda zolaula ndi uchimo moipa motani?
Funso n'lakuti, kodi mukufuna kukhala mfulu moipa bwanji? Kodi kukhala ngati "kapolo" ku zilakolako zanu zodetsedwa kumangokuvutitsani pang'ono kapena mwafika pomwe mukufunadi kubwera kwaulere? Chinsinsi chake ndicho kupeza udani waukulu ndi woyaka ndi mkwiyo pa tchimo limeneli. Mukhoza kupemphera kuti Mulungu atsegule maso anu kuti aone zotsatira zoopsa za zolaula ndi kupeza chidani chenicheni pa tchimo limeneli. Kodi mungalimbane bwanji ndi chinthu chimene simukudana nacho kwenikweni kapena kuona kuti n'chachikulu? Kodi mungawononge bwanji kwathunthu chinthu chomwe chikungokuvutitsani pang'ono?
Mudzakhazikitsa alamu atatu osiyanasiyana ndikuchoka panyumba mphindi 45 kale kuposa zofunikira ngati muli ndi pangano lofunika kwambiri m'mawa kwambiri, mwachitsanzo - koma kodi mwakonzeka kuchita chiyani kuti mupewe mayesero kuti muyang'ane zolaula? Mwina muyenera kusiya kuyang'ana pa intaneti kwa kanthawi. Kodi zotsatira za zonse zopanda pake kuyang'ana pa intaneti kuti mulibe chifuniro chilichonse kunena Ayi ku uchimo?
Mwina mungafunse kuti: "Kodi palibe zinthu zina zothandiza zimene ndingachite kuti andithandize kuthana nazo?" Inde, ndithudi pali!! Koma inuyo ndinu munthu wabwino kwambiri kuyankha funso limeneli. Mukudziwa bwino kuposa wina aliyense kumene ndi pamene mwagwa m'mbuyomu. Mukudziwa zofooka zanu, ndipo nthawi yomwe mumavomereza komwe ndi nthawi yomwe muli ofooka, mumadziwa bwino komwe ndi nthawi yomwe muyenera kumenyana komanso komwe mukufuna mphamvu kuti mugonjetse.
Pemphero panthaŵi ya kusoŵa
Lemba la Aheberi 4:16 (BBE) limati, "Pamenepo tiyeni tisindikire ku mpando wa chisomo popanda mantha, kuti chifundo chiperekedwe kwa ife, ndipo tipeze chisomo cha thandizo lathu panthawi ya kusowa." M'mawu ena, muyenera kupemphera. Mukudwala tchimo, mumadana nalo, mukuyesera kukhala omasuka kuyang'ana zolaula koma mumamva kukhala opanda mphamvu. Kulira kwa Yesu mu nthawi yanu yosowa - pamene mukuyesedwa - kudzapangitsa kuti mphamvu yosakhulupirika iperekedwe kwa inu, mphamvu ya Mzimu Woyera.
Mzimu Woyera sumapangitsa mayesero kungotha. Koma nthawi yotsatira mukayesedwa kuti muyang'ane zolaula, mudzapeza kuti mwadzidzidzi pali chinachake mkati panu chomwe sichikufuna kungopereka ngati kale. Ndi Mzimu, ndipo Iye akupita motsutsana ndi zomwe chikhalidwe chanu chaumunthu chochimwa, chomwe chimatchedwanso "thupi", chikufuna kuyang'ana - zonyansa zomwe tsopano mumadana nazo kwambiri. Mwamsanga pamene lingaliro la izo lifika m'mutu mwanu, fuulani kuti, "Sindikugonja pa izi! Yesu, ndithandizeni kugonjetsa!" Ngati zimenezi n'zimene mukufunadi, ndiye kuti Yesu ndi wofunitsitsa kubwera kudzakuthandizani.
Nkhondo yofuna kuti mtima wanu ukhale woyera si nkhondo yophweka. Ndi nkhondo ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma Baibulo lili ndi malonjezo abwino kwambiri kwa anthu amene anagonjetsa kuti: "Chifukwa chake popeza Khristu anavutika chifukwa cha ife m'thupi, dzipangireni mkono ndi maganizo amodzimodzi, pakuti iye amene wavutika m'thupi waleka [kuimitsidwa ndi] uchimo." 1 Petro 4:1. Gwiritsani ntchito vesili ngati chida m'moyo wanu.
Chimwemwe cha kupambana!
Ngati mupitiriza kunena kuti Ayi nthawi iliyonse mukayesedwa kuti muchimwe, simukupereka "chakudya" ku zilakolako zanu zauchimo. Pamenepo tsiku lidzafika pamene zikhumbo zanu zodetsedwa zidzaima kukuvutitsani. Chimene kale chinali "chimphona" cha chidetso chidzakhala chakufa. Mudzakhala mutasiya ndi tchimo limeneli.
Ndipo mukayamba kugonjetsa mayesero amenewo kuti muyang'ane zolaula, zimakhala ngati dziko latsopano lonse likutseguka! Mumakhala osangalala kwambiri - mwadzidzidzi mukukumana ndi chisangalalo cha kupambana!
Kulimbana kuti mukhale oyera! Kulimbana kuti mukhale munthu amene Mulungu angagwiritse ntchito kuchita chifuniro Chake padziko lapansi, ndipo musataye mtima konse! Monga Mkhristu wogonjetsa, simudzaphonya "zosangalatsa" zotsika mtengo komanso zosakhalitsa zomwe munayenera kusiya.
"Mulungu amadalitsa anthu amene amapirira moleza mtima kuyesedwa ndi mayesero. Pambuyo pake adzalandira korona wa moyo umene Mulungu walonjeza kwa anthu amene amamukonda." Yakobo 1:12 (NLT).