Kodi mungamve bwanji ngati mutadziwa kuti zochita zanu zikuyang'aniridwa ndi kutsatiridwa ndi anthu ena amene muli nawo?
Kodi mungadzilingalire kukhala chitsanzo chimene ena angatsatire, osati kokha m'mphindi zanu zabwino koposa, komanso m'mphindi pamene munayesedwa ku mkwiyo kapena malingaliro odetsedwa?
Chilichonse chimene timachita chimakhudza ena amene timakhala nawo. Abale ndi alongo athu aang'ono kapena mabwenzi amapanga malingaliro ndi kutitengera zizoloŵezi. Anthu kuntchito amaona mmene timakhalira ndi moyo wathu mwa kukhala pamodzi ndi ife pantchito. Osakhulupirira amapeza lingaliro la Chikristu kwa ife.
Cholinga chathu si kudzipangitsa kuoneka bwino kuposa mmene tilili pamaso pa ena. Kumeneko ndi kunyada chabe - ndi bodza ndipo lidzaululidwa tsiku lina. Koma zosankha zathu zingatanthauze kanthu kena kwa ena pamene tisankha kukhala ndi moyo wokhulupirika. Tingaone zimenezi pa 1 Timoteyo 4:16: "Samalani nokha ndi chiphunzitsocho. Pitirizani mwa iwo, pakuti pochita zimenezi mudzadzipulumutsa nokha ndi amene akukumvani."
Udindo wathu waukulu
Mavesi angapo m'mbuyomo, pa 1 Timoteyo 4:12, tingawerenge kuti "Munthu asanyoze unyamata wanu, koma akhale chitsanzo kwa okhulupirira m'mawu, m'mayendedwe, m'chikondi, mumzimu, m'chikhulupiriro, m'chiyero." Ndi udindo waukulu kukhala chitsanzo kwa okhulupirira. Taganizirani kuti n'zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kutsogolera munthu wina m'njira yolakwika chifukwa ndinaganiza zogonja ku tchimo langa! Kaya tisonkhezera munthu mwadala kugonja ku uchimo kapena ngati tichita zimenezo mosazindikira, pangakhale chotulukapo chowopsa. Kukhala wodzikonda kumaphunzitsa ena mmene angakhalire odzikonda.
Lemba la Mateyu 18:6 limanena za mmene zimenezi zilili zoopsa: "Koma ngati muchititsa mmodzi wa ana aang'ono amenewa amene amandikhulupirira kuti agwere m'uchimo, zingakhale bwino kuti mukhale ndi mphero yaikulu yomangidwa m'khosi mwanu ndi kumira m'madzi akuya a m'nyanja." Izi sizikutanthauza kuti tikunena kuti ndi bwino kulanga mwakuthupi munthu yemwe wakhala chisonkhezero choipa, koma zikutanthauza kuti zotsatira za zosankha zathu zikhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zosatha, osati kwa ife tokha komanso kwa ena, ndipo ndi udindo wofunika.
Munthu amene wasankha kuchita zabwino amalimbikitsa ena kuchita zabwino. Ndipo munthu amene wasankha kuchita zoipa amalimbikitsa ena kuchita zoipa. "Musanyengedwe, Mulungu sanyozedwa; pa chilichonse chimene munthu wafesa, chimenenso adzakolola." Agalatiya 6:7. Zochita zathu zili ngati mbewu. Iwo adzakula ndi kukula kukhala zokolola zimene tsiku lina tidzakolola.
Kodi zokolola zanu zidzakhala zotani? Kodi mudzakhala munthu amene anapatsa ena chiyeso choganiza kuti: "Chabwino, ngati anachita zimenezo, ndiye kuti inenso ndingathe?" Kodi mwapatsa ena chifukwa chochimwa?
Tiyenera kukhala maso, osati kungoyesa kuyang'ana bwino pamaso pa ena, koma kwenikweni kukhala ndi moyo wobisika ndi Khristu kotero kuti chinthu chokha chimene ena amakumana nacho kwa ife ndi ubwino ndi chiyero.
Moyo wathu wobisika
Nanga bwanji ndikayesedwa ndikakhala ndekha? Ngati ena akanatha kuona m'moyo wanga woganiza pamene ndili ndekha, kodi ndikanakhalabe chitsanzo chabwino? Kodi n'zotheka kusonkhezera ena ndi zosankha zimene ndapanga pamene palibe wina aliyense amene akuonerera? Inde, ndithudi! Mphindi zimenezi ndi zoopsa kwambiri komanso.
Sizochititsa manyazi kuyesedwa - koma chinthu chofunika ndi zomwe ndimasankha pamene ndikuyesedwa, kaya wina akundiyang'ana kapena ayi. Zosankha zimenezi zimavumbulidwa m'kupita kwa nthaŵi m'njira imene timachitira, ndi mmene timasonyezera chisamaliro ndi chiyamikiro.
"Kumbukirani atsogoleri anu amene anakuphunzitsani mawu a Mulungu. Ganizirani zabwino zonse zimene zachokera m'moyo wawo, ndipo tsatirani chitsanzo cha chikhulupiriro chawo." Ahebri 13:7. Kodi zotsatira za mmene timakhalira ndi moyo n'zotani? N'zoonekeratu kuti moyo wathu wobisika ukutilepheretsa pamene mwachitsanzo sitikufuna kuthandiza ena chifukwa tili ndi chikumbumtima cholakwa kapena pamene sitingathe kuyang'ana munthu m'maso chifukwa timaopa kuti mwina angadziwe zimene tikuchita m'zobisika.
Timakolola zimene timafesa
Tsiku lina tidzaima pamaso pa Mulungu ndipo tidzakhala ndi mlandu wa zochita zathu. Ngati tilola uchimo kulowa mumtima mwathu udzakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa kwa ife eni ndi kwa ena. "Tetezani mtima wanu pamwamba pa zonse, pakuti umasankha njira ya moyo wanu." Miyambo 4:23.
M'Baibulo tili ndi malangizo a mmene tingakhalire ndi moyo wokondweretsa Mulungu – moyo umene tingathandize ndi kulimbikitsa ena. Ndi moyo waulemerero chotani nanga umene tingakhale nawo pamene tisankha kukhala monga chitsanzo cha zabwino!