Mu Ulaliki wa pa Phiri, Yesu anaphunzitsa za zimene Iye anakhala, kutisonyeza njira imene tiyenera kupita. Yesu ananena kuti aliyense amene anamva mawu kapena ziphunzitso zimenezi n'kuchita zimenezi adzakhala ngati munthu wanzeru amene anamanga nyumba yake pathanthwe. Nyumbayo sinagwe pamene mphepo yamkuntho inafika. Awa anali malamulo a Yesu, ndipo amene amamukonda Iye adzawamvera. (Mateyu 7:24-25; Yohane 14:21.)
Limodzi mwa malamulo amenewo ndi kukonda adani anu ndi kudalitsa amene akukutukwanani ndi kukukhumudwitsani ndi kukuzunzani. (Mateyu 5:38-45.) M'Pangano Lakale, linali diso la diso. M'Pangano Latsopano, Yesu anatipangira njira yochitira zimenezo mosiyana kotheratu.
Kugonjetsa choipa ndi chabwino
Paulo analemba kuti sitiyenera kubwezera tokha, chimenecho ndi chinthu chimene tiyenera kusiya kwa Mulungu. Iye yekha ndi amene angachite zimenezi m'njira yolungama. Sitiyenera kubwezera choipa pa choipa, koma kuganizira zabwino kwa anthu onse. Sitiyenera kugonjetsedwa ndi zoipa koma kugonjetsa choipa ndi chabwino! (Aroma 12:17-21.) Pamene wina ali woipa kwa ife, sitiyenera kukhala oipa ife eni.
N'zosavuta kwa ife kudziteteza ndi kuchitapo kanthu pamene wina akutitsutsa. Timapeza uchimo m'chibadwa chathu chaumunthu umene umatiyesa kukwiya, kubwezera, kuyankha ndi kudziteteza. N'zofala kufuna kukhala ndi mawu otsiriza mu mkhalidwe kotero timamva ngati tili olondola. N'zofala kuweruza, kuimba mlandu, kudzudzula, ndi kupita kwa ena kuti tipeze chithandizo kwa ife eni. Zoona zake n'zoti, zimenezi n'zimene "kugonjetsa choipa ndi choipa" n'kumene kuli.
Mayesero amenewa ndi ofala kwa anthu, monga momwe timawerengera pa 1 Akorinto 10:13. Ndipo pamene ziyeso zimenezi zibwera, pali njira yotulukira, njira yopulumukira, imene Mulungu watipangira kotero kuti tithe kuisamalira. M'mawu ena, kotero ife tikhoza kuwagonjetsa!
Werengani zambiri apa za momwe mungapezere njira yopulumukira poyesedwa.
Yesu anagonjetsa ziyeso zonsezi ndipo anatisonyeza njira yotengera zinthu monga momwe Iye anachitira. "Pamene ananyozedwa, sanayankhe mwachipongwe. Pamene anavutika, sanawopseze kubwezera. M'malomwake, anadzipereka kwa amene amaweruza mwachilungamo." 1 Petro 2:23. Iye anadzichepetsa, n'kusiyira Mulungu kuti aweruze zinthu. Iye sanalole malingaliro Ake ndi malingaliro Ake (chifuniro Chake) kulamulira Iye. Iye anachita ndendende zimene Iye anamva kwa Atate. (Ahebri 10:7.)
Mwayi ulipo nthawi zonse
Sitifunikira kukhala ndi ndewu zazikulu kapena kusamvetsetsana ndi anthu kuti tiwone tchimo mu chikhalidwe chathu; zikhoza kukhala zophweka ngati pamene wina sagwirizana ndi zomwe ndikunena. Zingakhaledi zovuta kusachitapo kanthu mwamsanga.
Tiyenera kumvera zimene Yakobo analemba, kukhala ochedwa kulankhula, ochedwa kukwiya, koma mofulumira kumvetsera, kulandira modzichepetsa mawu amene Mulungu wabzala mumtima mwathu, amene ali okhoza kutipulumutsa ku zochita zathu za moyo. (Yakobo 1:19-22.) Mzimu umatilimbitsa ndi Mawu omwe tamva ndi kuphunzira, kuti tithe kunena kuti "kayi" ku malingaliro a kudziteteza kapena kumenya kumbuyo. Tiyenera kudzichepetsa, mofanana ndi Yesu, ndi kukhala omvera.
Paulo anachitira umboni kuti anavutika kumbali zonse, kuzunzidwa ndi kumenyedwa, koma nthawi zonse ankanyamula "imfa ya Khristu" m'thupi lake, moti anayankha mmene Yesu akanayankhira. (2 Akorinto 4:8-11.) Zimenezo n'zimene zimatanthauzadi kugonjetsa choipa ndi chabwino! Kenaka timapeza ndi kupanga mtendere m'malo mwa mkangano! Ndipo zipatso za Mzimu zimakula mwa ife!
Nthawi zonse tidzakhala ndi mwayi wopeza tchimo limene limakhala m'chibadwa chathu chaumunthu ndi kugonjetsa tchimo limeneli chifukwa cha Yesu. Awa ndi mwayi kwa ife kuti tipeze zipatso zambiri za Mzimu. Pamene tichitiridwa mopanda chilungamo, tingapite kwa Mulungu kaamba ka thandizo, kotero kuti tingayankhe moleza mtima, mwachifundo, chifundo, ubwino, ndi chikondi. Zimenezi zimakhala ndi chiyambukiro chabwino kwambiri pa anthu amene tikuchita nawo kuposa zochita za chibadwa chathu chaumunthu chochimwa.
Mawu awa ochokera m'nyimbo amatisonyeza bwino mmene tingagonjetsere zoipa ndi zabwino:
"Kodi mudzamutsatira Iye tsiku ndi tsiku, kudzikana nokha? Kodi mudzayenda pa njira yatsopano, yamoyo? Tsatirani Iye, amene pamene anadedwa anayankha m'chikondi. Kodi mudzayenda m'mapazi Ake tsiku lililonse?"
(Kuchokera ku buku la nyimbo la BCC, Njira za Ambuye #314.)
Pamenepo tidzakhaladi ngati munthu wanzeru amene anamanga nyumba yake pathanthwe. Palibe chimene aliyense akunena kapena kuchita chimene chidzatha kutisuntha!