Pali mawu ambiri ofotokozera momwe anthu amagwiritsira ntchito social media. Mwachitsanzo, "wodziwitsa," "womvetsera," "wofunafuna chivomerezo," "mlengi," ndi zina zotero. Ndimakonda kuziika m'magulu awiri - "wodzikonda" ndi "wothandizira".
Wodzikonda kapena mthandizi?
Tsiku lililonse, kulikonse komwe muli, malingaliro anu, mawu ndi zochita zanu zimasonkhezeredwa ndi kudzikonda kwanu, zomwe ndi zonse zomwe zili ndi "Ine", "ine" ndi "wanga", kapena ndi chikhumbo chotumikira ndi kudalitsa ena. N'chimodzimodzinso ndi mmene mumagwiritsira ntchito ma social media.
Kodi ndinu mtundu wanji wogwiritsa ntchito chikhalidwe cha anthu? Kodi malingaliro anu amadalira kuchuluka kwa zokonda ndi ndemanga zomwe mumapeza kuchokera ku zinthu zomwe mumayika? Kodi nthawi zonse mumafuna chisamaliro chowonjezereka, kodi mumamva kukhala wopanda pake ndi wosakhutira? Tengani mphindi kuti muganizire zomwe zimakulimbikitsani ndi kukuyendetsani.
Pamene ntchito yanu chikhalidwe TV akulamulidwa ndi ego wanu, kumene chirichonse chiri za wanu "Ine", "ine" ndi "wanga", inu mwamsanga kukhala osakhutira, kapena kunyada, kapena nkhawa, kapena pamwamba ndi basi otanganidwa nokha. N'chimodzimodzinso m'moyo wogwira ntchito ngati chimwemwe chanu chimadalira pa mmene ena amalankhulira za inu kapena kukuchitirani ndi mmene mumayerekezera ndi ena.
Mumamva kukhala wopanda kanthu.
Mwamwayi, pali njira yotulukira - simukusowa kukhala mukuganiza za inu nokha!
Pezani mwayi wodalitsa
"Musakhale odzikonda; musayese kukopa ena. Khalani odzichepetsa, muziganizira ena kuti ndi abwino kuposa inuyo." Afilipi 2:3 (NLT).
Ngati muchita zomwe zalembedwa pano, zingasinthe zochita zanu, ndipo ngakhale momwe mumaganizira! Tangoganizani momwe zimakhalira bwino kukhala ndi vesi ili ngati cholinga chanu ndikutsogolera tsiku lililonse - pa media media komanso m'moyo wothandiza wa tsiku ndi tsiku! Kumene kale munali otanganidwa kwambiri ndi kutumiza chithunzi chabwino kwambiri cha inu nokha, kapena kuyembekezera ndemanga ndi zokonda, kapena kungocheza pamwamba ndi abwenzi - mwinamwake ngakhale kulankhula pang'ono zoipa za ena kuti mudziwoneke bwino - tsopano mukuyang'ana mwayi wodalitsa.
Social media - chida chosaneneka
M'malo mokhala ndi chithunzi chanu ndi chimwemwe chanu chosankhidwa ndi zomwe mukuwona pa media media, chikhalidwe cha anthu chimakhala chida chodabwitsa komanso chothandiza. Mumaiwala za inu nokha ndi chithunzi chanu ndipo m'malo mwake mumapeza njira zolimbikitsira ena.
M'malo mochita nsanje pamene wina atumiza chinachake chokhudza zinthu zabwino zomwe anangogula, kapena tchuthi chawo, kapena chirichonse chimene nthawi zambiri mumakhala ndi nsanje, tsopano mukhoza kukhala osangalala ndi omwe ali osangalala! Kumene kale munakwiya kapena simunasamale pamene wina anadutsa nthawi yovuta, tsopano mukuwapempherera ndi kupeza njira yowadalitsira! Mumatumiza mauthenga olimbikitsa m'malo mwa backbiting. Mukukumbukira anthu pa masiku awo akubadwa. Mumalemba ndemanga zabwino. Zinthu zosavuta, zazing'ono zoterozo zingakhale ndi chiyambukiro chachikulu.
Chosankha ndi chanu
Ndife odzikonda mwachibadwa, ndipo sizibwera mwachibadwa kudalitsa ndi kukonda ndi kuganiza za enawo kukhala abwino kuposa ife eni. Kudzikonda kwathu, chikhalidwe chathu chochimwa, kumafunikira nthawi zonse "kupachikidwa ndi Khristu", zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndimakana ndipo sindichitanso chifuniro changa. (Agalatiya 2:20.) Ichi ndi chinthu chimene mungasankhe kuchita, mwa chikhulupiriro. Mulungu ali wokonzeka ndi kuyembekezera kukuthandizani nthawi iliyonse inu kuyesedwa, ndipo Iye adzakudalitsani inu kubwezera!
Kodi ndinu mtundu wanji wogwiritsa ntchito chikhalidwe cha anthu? Ndi chisankho chanu! Sankhani kukhala "wothandizira" weniweni, ndipo mudzapeza mwamsanga njira zothandizira ndi kudalitsa - zonse pa media media komanso m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku!