Ali wachinyamata kusukulu, anthu nthawi zonse ankandiuza kuti, "Ingokhalani nokha. Simukuyenera kudandaula ndi zomwe anthu amakuganizirani; ingokhalani nokha ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino."
Zimenezo zinamveka zazikulu kwambiri, ndipo nthaŵi zina ndinkalakalaka kuti, ngati kuti mwa matsenga, mwadzidzidzi sindingasamale zimene mabwenzi anga onse ndi anthu ena ofunika m'moyo wanga analingalira ponena za ine, kapena kusonkhezeredwa mosavuta ndi iwo. Koma, ndithudi, sizinachitike motero.
Simungathe kutumikira ambuye awiri
Chowonadi ndi chakuti ndikufunikira kupanga chisankho cholimba ponena za amene ndikufuna kutumikira ndi kukondweretsa. Ndipo sindingathe kutumikira ndi kusangalatsa Mulungu ndi anthu omwe!
Mwina ndili ndi anzanga ochepa ndipo amayamba miseche kapena amangokhala negative. Ndikudziwa zimene Mulungu amafuna kuti ndisankhe: Iye angafune kuti ndizinena zinthu zabwino zokhudza enawo komanso kuti ndiziyamikira chilichonse. Funso ndi lakuti: Kodi ndidzachita zimene Mulungu akufuna kuti ndichite, kapena ndikungopita "limodzi ndi wina aliyense" chifukwa chakuti "si zoipa kwambiri"? N'zoonekeratu kuchokera m'mikhalidwe ngati imeneyi kuti simungathe kusangalatsa Mulungu ndi anthu. N'zosatheka basi.
Nthaŵi zina, zosankha zimenezi za kumasuka ku kusangalatsa anthu zingakhale zovuta kwambiri. Zimenezi zimakhala choncho makamaka pamene ndi anthu amene akhala pafupi kwambiri ndi ine, mwina ngakhale anthu a m'banja amene ndimawakonda kwambiri.
Yesu ananenadi kanthu kena ponena za mikhalidwe yonga imeneyi: "Musaganize kuti ndinabwera kudzabweretsa mtendere padziko lapansi. Sindinabwere kudzabweretsa mtendere, koma lupanga. Ndabwera kuti mwana wamwamuna akhale wotsutsana ndi bambo ake, mwana wamkazi adzakhala wotsutsana ndi amayi ake, mpongozi wake adzakhala wotsutsana ndi apongozi ake. Adani a munthu adzakhala a m'banja lake. Amene amakonda bambo kapena mayi awo kuposa mmene amandikondera si oyenera kukhala otsatira anga. Amene amakonda kwambiri mwana wawo wamwamuna kapena wamkazi kuposa amene amandikonda si oyenera kukhala otsatira anga." —Mateyu 10:34-37 (NCV).
PALIBE malo a uchimo
Yesu ankadana ndi uchimo. Choncho pamene Iye anati, "Ndinabwera kudzabweretsa lupanga," Iye anatanthauza kuti Iye analibe konse malo a uchimo m'moyo Wake - ngakhale kuti anali banja Lake lapamtima ndi abwenzi akuyesera kumusonkhezera.
Zinaonekeratu kwa ine kuti ngati ndikufuna kusangalatsa ndi kutumikira Mulungu, ndifunikanso "PALIBE malo a uchimo" amenewa m'moyo wanga. Sindingathe kugwirizana ndi zokambirana kumene akuchita miseche kapena kulankhula za zinthu zoipa ndi zodetsedwa. Ndipo sindingagwirizane ndi uchimo chifukwa chakuti anzanga apamtima akundiuza kuti zili bwino ndipo palibe cholakwika.
M'malomwake, anthu ayenera kumva kuti pali "lupanga" lolimbana ndi uchimo wonse m'moyo wanga. Sindikugwirizana ndi uchimo, ndipo ndimakana kugonja ku uchimo! Zingandipweteketse kwambiri pamene ndikuyenera kusiya maubwenzi apadziko lapansi kuti ndikhale woyera, koma ndikuyenera kupanga chisankho cholimba chomwe ndidzatumikira ndi kukondweretsa, chifukwa "mwina ndikutumikira tchimo kapena ndikutumikira Mulungu".
Palibe njira yamatsenga
Ndithudi, pamene ndimakonda ndi kusamalira mabwenzi ndi achibale omwe asankha njira yosiyana, ndikufunadi kuwona kuti zikuyenda bwino nawo. Ndiyeno ndikhoza kuchita zimene Paulo anauza Timoteo kuti: "Samalani nokha ndi chiphunzitsocho. Pitirizani mwa iwo, pakuti pochita zimenezi mudzadzipulumutsa nokha ndi amene akukumvani." 1 Timoteyo 4:16. Zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti ndiyenera kudziyang'anitsitsa kuti ndikhale ndi moyo monga momwe zalembedwera m'Baibulo. Pamenepo ndidzadzipulumutsa ndekha ndi awo amene amandimvetsera. Ndikhozanso kuwasonyeza ubwino ndi chikondi, ndi kupemphera kuti Mulungu alankhule nawo ndi kuwathandiza kusankha kumutumikira.
Tsopano ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, ndikukhumba kuti ndikanamvetsetsa kuti "Ingokhala nokha" ndi chimodzimodzi ndi "Musakhudzidwe mosavuta ndi anthu." Ayi, simungathe kungodzimasula nokha mwamatsenga ku kusamalira zomwe ena amaganiza, koma mukhoza kupanga chisankho cholimba chotumikira Mulungu yekha ndikungokondweretsa Iye. Ndipo pamene mupanga chosankha chimenecho, Mulungu amakupatsani mphamvu zonse ndi thandizo limene mufunikira kuti nthaŵi zonse musankhe chimene chiri chabwino.
Choncho, ngati muyenera kupanga chosankha m'moyo wanu, pempherani kuti Mulungu akuthandizeni kukhala olimba ndi kungosankha zabwino ndi kukhala ndi moyo kwa Iye yekha. Mulungu analonjeza kuti zidzayenda bwino, ndipo tikakhulupirira zimenezi, timamvetsetsa kuti ngakhale kuti zinthu sizidzakhala zosiyana mwamatsenga, tidzakhala ndi mphamvu zonse zomwe tikufunikira polimbana ndi "nkhondo yabwino ya chikhulupiriro" imeneyi. (1 Timoteyo 6:12) ndi "kugonjetsa zinthu zonsezi ndi zina zambiri mwa chikondi chake". Aroma 8:37 (BBE).