Kodi n'zotheka kukhala ndi banja loyera, kumene muli wokhulupirika kwa mnzanu wa m'banja ndi m'maganizo ndi m'zochita zanu?
Chiyero ndi chinthu chomwe chikukhala chachilendo kwambiri m'dzikoli. Ngakhale Akristu ambiri sakhulupirira kwenikweni zimene Baibulo limatanthauza ponena zimenezo, ndipo ambiri a iwo sakhala ndi moyo woyera. Mitundu yambiri ya chiwerewere siimaonedwanso ngakhale ngati tchimo.
Pamene tiŵerenga zimene Yesu Mwiniyo akunena ponena za chiyero, timaona kuti kuli koposa kungokhala woyera m'zochita, woyera kunja. Yesu anatiphunzitsa zosiyana mwachindunji ndi zimene atsogoleri achipembedzo panthaŵiyo anaphunzitsa, amene anaoneka okongola kunja koma mkati mwake anali odzala ndi zinthu zonse zodetsedwa. (Mateyu 23:27.) Iwo sanali okondweretsedwa kuchitapo kanthu ponena za chidetso ndi chidetso mkati pawo.
Banja loyera limayamba ndi moyo woganiza bwino
Yesu ananena kuti munthu amene amayang'ana mkazi kenako n'kuganiza zochimwa kugonana naye, wachita naye kale chigololo mumtima mwake. (Mateyu 5: 20,27) Izi zikusonyeza kuti ndi malingaliro athu omwe tifunikira kukhala oyera kuchokera ku mitundu yonse ya zilakolako zomwe tili nazo mkati mwa chikhalidwe chathu chogwa.
Kugonana m'banja ndi chinthu chimene Mulungu watanthauza kukhala dalitso, koma Yesu akufotokoza momveka bwino kuti ngakhale kukhala ndi malingaliro achilakolako ponena za munthu wina osati mnzanu wa muukwati ndi tchimo. Sitingathandizire kuwona kapena kumva zinthu m'dziko lotizungulira, koma tiyenera kuphunzira kunena molimba Ayi pamene zinthu zomwe tikuwona ndikumva zimadzutsa zilakolako zauchimo m'moyo wathu woganiza.
Izi n'zimene Yosefe wachichepere anachita. Pamene mkazi wa Potifara anayesa kumuyesa, iye anakana kugonja. Kodi anachita bwanji zimenezi? Yankho lake lili m'zimene anamuuza – "Kodi ndingachite bwanji chinthu choopsachi ndi kuchimwira Mulungu?" Genesis 39: 9. M'malo mogonja ku chiyeso, iye anathawa ndi kudzisunga yekha woyera.
Ndi mantha anu Aumulungu amene sangalole inu kukhala wosakhulupirika, kaya ndi m'maganizo mwanu, kumene mukuyang'ana, kapena m'zochita zanu. Pamene muli ndi mantha Aumulungu, amakupatsani maganizo olimba, olimba ndi osankha. Kenaka mumapanga chisankho cholimba kuti mukhale kutali ndi chilichonse chodetsedwa, ngakhale pamene muli pa social media kapena mukufunafuna zinthu pa intaneti.
Ngakhale pamene mwasankha mwamphamvu kuthaŵa monga Yosefe, mudzayesedwabe kukhala wodetsedwa chifukwa cha zilakolako ndi zikhumbo za umunthu wanu. Kuyesedwa si tchimo, koma ndi chiyeso cha kukhulupirika kwanu. Muyenera kusankha kulamulira tchimo limene mukuyesedwa. Zimenezi zikutanthauza kuti pamene muyesedwa, muyenera kukana ndi kulimbana ndi malingaliro odetsedwa amene amabwera ndi kufuula kwa Mulungu kuti akuthandizeni. Mulungu adzamva kulira kwanu ndi kukupatsani mphamvu yosunga chosankha chanu cha kukhala kutali ndi chidetso.
Ngati mupitiriza kuchita zimenezi, mudzakumana ndi mmene Mulungu amakusinthirani kukhala munthu watsopano ndi waufulu kotheratu.
Banja limachokera kwa Mulungu
Masiku ano, anthu ambiri amaona kuti banja ndi lachikale, koma si mmene Mulungu amauonera. Mulungu Mwini amaona banja kukhala lofunika kwambiri moti Baibulo limagwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo cha banja loyera pofotokoza ubale woyera ndi wangwiro pakati pa Khristu ndi mpingo Wake.
Pamene anthu okwatirana ali osakhulupirika kwa wina ndi mnzake, zimayambitsa kupweteka, kukayikira, ndi chisoni kwa mnzawo wa m'banjamo, ana awo ndi aliyense wokhudzidwa. Banja limayenera kukhala malo otetezeka, kukhulupirira, kukhulupirika ndi chikondi choyera kumene Mulungu angapereke dalitso Lake.
Salmo 110:2 limalamula kuti, "Lamulira adani ako!" Chidetso ndi chimodzi mwa "adani" amene tiyenera kulamulira m'maganizo mwathu. Nkwabwino chotani nanga kudziŵa kuti nkotheka kukana zilakolako za kugonana m'malingaliro athu, kotero kuti zisaipitse maganizo athu kapena kuwononga maunansi athu! Ndipo zimenezi zimabweretsa dalitso lalikulu chotani nanga kuchokera kwa Mulungu!