Zalembedwa pa 1 Atesalonika 5:18 (NLT), "Khalani oyamikira m'mikhalidwe yonse, pakuti ichi ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu kwa inu amene muli a Khristu Yesu."
Mukawerenga izi, n'zosavuta kuganiza kuti ndiyenera kuyamikira, ndipo ndikuyenera kuganizira kwambiri zomwe zili zabwino komanso zabwino, kuti ndikhale woyamikira ngakhale pamene sizili zophweka ndipo zinthu sizikuyenda njira yanga. Kenako ndimasankha kumenya nkhondo yamkati kuti nthawi zonse ndiyamikire. Ndikuganiza kuti umu ndi mmene Akristu ambiri achichepere amayambira kulimbana ndi kusayamika.
Koma pamene ndinayang'ana bwino moyo wanga, ndi pamene ndinayamba kuona kukoma mtima kosatha kwa Mulungu kwa ine. Iye anali ataganiziradi za ine Iye asanalenge dziko! Anandisankha pakati pa anthu ena ambiri kuti ndikhale m'bale wa Yesu, kuti ndiphunzire zinthu zambiri pano m'moyo uno kuti ndikhale woyenera ntchito imene Iye wandikonzera mu ufumu Wake wosatha.
Nditaona zimenezi, sindinayeneranso kumenya nkhondo kuti ndiyamikire. Ndiyeno chiyamikiro chachikulu chinaloŵa mumtima mwanga kaamba ka Mlengi wanga, kaamba ka chikondi Chake chachikulu pa ine. Mtima wanga unakhala wodzaza ndi kuyamikira pamene ndinaganiza za momwe Iye anatsogolera mapazi anga mu unyamata wanga - pamene ndinayenera kupanga zosankha zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wanga - kotero kuti ndinasungidwa otetezeka mu chifuniro Chake cha moyo wanga.
Ndinakhalanso woyamikira kwambiri chifukwa Mulungu anandichititsa kukumana ndi anthu ena okhulupirika amene amafuna kuchita chifuniro cha Mulungu ndi moyo wawo. Ndikumana ndi chiyanjano chenicheni ndi anthu amene amafunanso kukhala omasuka ku mphamvu ya uchimo, ndi amene amafunadi kukhala ndi moyo wofanana ndi umene Yesu anakhalamo. Ndipo ndadzazidwa ndi chiyamikiro chosatha kwa Ambuye wanga ndi Mbuye wanga, Yesu, amene anandikonda kwambiri moti Iye anali wofunitsitsa kupereka moyo Wake kuti ndipulumutsidwe. Pamwamba pa zimenezo, Iye akufuna kugawana ulemerero Wake wonse ndi ine.
Ndakhala ndikuganiza kwambiri za dyera lomwe ndinabadwa nalo. Malingaliro anga ndi chikhalidwe changa zinali zodzaza nazo. Zonse zimene ndinkasamala zinali ineyo ndi kuti ena azilankhula zabwino za ine ndi kunditamanda chifukwa cha zinthu zimene ndinachita. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, nthawi zambiri ndinkakhumudwa ndi mmene anthu ankandichitira, ndinkadandaula ndipo sindinkasangalala ndi anthu komanso zinthu zimene ndinakumana nazo pa moyo wanga.
Koma nditasiya kuganizira za ine ndekha, ndipo ndinayamba kuganizira zimene ndingapereke ndi kuchita kuti zinthu zikhale bwino kwa ena, ineyo ndinasangalala kwambiri. Zinachitika monga momwe zalembedwera pa Miyambo 11:25 (MSG), "Amene amadalitsa ena amadalitsidwa kwambiri; amene amathandiza ena amathandizidwa."
Pamene ndinasumika maganizo pa kudalitsa enawo, ndinayambanso kuona anthu owonjezerekawonjezereka amene anafuna kundidalitsa, ndipo mtima wanga unadzaza ndi chiyamikiro chowonjezereka kaamba ka mmene ndinali nacho chabwino. Pamene malingaliro oyamikira ameneŵa anayamba kudzaza mtima wanga, mtima wanga unadzaza ndi chiyamikiro chokha. "Zimene mumanena zimachokera ku zimene zili mumtima mwanu." Luka 6:45 (NLT). Tsopano ndikhoza kunena kuti ndikuthokoza kwambiri osati kungomenya nkhondo kuti ndikhalebe woyamikira.
Ndibwino kwambiri kukhala pamodzi ndi anthu oyamikira. Nthawi zonse amakhala osangalala, okhutira nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse amafalitsa chimwemwe, osakhutira, osadandaula chilichonse!
Mwa chisomo cha Mulungu ndalandira thandizo kuti ndigonjetse dyera langa. (Ahebri 4:16.) Ndipo ndafika pa moyo woyamikira, womwe ulidi moyo wodabwitsa.