N’zotheka kumasuka kotheratu ku maganizo oipa
Anthu ambiri amatha nthawi yambiri akuda nkhawa tsiku lililonse. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chinachake chodetsa nkhawa. Mwachitsanzo, makolo angamaganizire kaŵirikaŵiri kuti, “Kodi mwana wanga ali wosangalala? Bwanji ngati agundidwa ndi galimoto? Nanga akamazunzidwa ndi anzake? Akadwala?” Mndandandawu ulibe malire, ndipo pangakhale zifukwa zambiri zodera nkhawa kwa makolo. Achinyamata ambiri amavutikanso ndi nkhawa ndiponso kusautsika maganizo; amadera nkhawa mayeso ndi maonekedwe awo, kapena amaopa kuti sangagwirizane ndi anzawo pa nkhani za kucheza.
Aliyense akhoza kumangokhalira kuganiza modandaula. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti zimenezi ndi mbali chabe ya moyo ndipo palibe zambiri zimene tingachite nazo. Koma choonadi n’chakuti pali chinachake chimene tingathe kuchita pa nkhani imeneyi! N’zotheka kumasuka kotheratu ku maganizo oipa ndi olemetsa amene amachititsa moyo kukhala wovuta kwambiri kwa ife eni komanso kwa anthu onse otizungulira.
Koma kodi zimenezi zingatheke bwanji? Sitingathe kuchita zimenezi ndi mphamvu zathu zaumunthu. Pali njira zina zimene zingathandize pang’ono, koma sizingathe kumasula munthu kwathunthu ku nkhawa ndi kudandaula.
Koma thandizo lenileni silili patali. Lingapezeke mwa chikhulupiriro m’Mawu a Mulungu; mawu amene Mulungu watipatsa m’Baibulo amatithandiza kukhala ndi moyo wachimwemwe, panopa komanso kwamuyaya. Pali thandizo lenileni kwa anthu amene amafunafunadi thandizolo ndipo amavomereza kuti sangathe kuchita okha popanda thandizo la Mulungu ndi Mawu Ake.
Yayesedwa ndi kutsimikiziridwa
Ndikulankhula kuchokera pa zimene ndakumana nazo. Ndili ndi mtundu wosowa kwambiri wa khansa umene sungachiritsidwe. Madokotala sanathe kundiuza kuti ndatsala ndi nthawi yaitali bwanji kuti ndikhale ndi moyo. Ndipo ndili ndi mwamuna ndi ana anayi oti ndiwasamalire. Ndakumana ndi zinthu zambiri zosatsimikizika, zisankho zovuta zachipatala, maopaleshoni akuluakulu ndi mankhwala amphamvu ochiza khansa; choncho mwachibadwa, nthawi zambiri ndimayesedwa kwambiri kuda nkhawa, kuchita mantha ndiponso kutaya mtima. Nthawi zina ndinkaona ngati ndaima m’mphepete mwa phompho, pamene maganizo ambiri a mantha ndi opanda chiyembekezo ankayesa kundikokera pansi.
Ndikanangodalira mphamvu zanga zokha, maganizo opanda chiyembekezo amenewo akanandigonjetsa kalekale. Koma ndalandira thandizo; ndalandira thandizo lenileni kudzera m’chikhulupiriro changa chosavuta, chonga cha mwana, mwa Mawu a Mulungu. Pali makamaka mavesi awiri a m’Baibulo amene ndawagwiritsitsa kwambiri, ndipo mawu amenewa andithandiza kupirira ngakhale m’nthawi zanga zovuta kwambiri. Akupitirizabe kundipatsa mphamvu mpaka lero.
Ndime imodzi ili mu Masalimo 23, imene anthu ambiri amaidziwa: “Yehova ndiye mbusa wanga; sindidzasowa kanthu. Amandigoneka pa msipu wobiriwira, amanditsogolera ku madzi akumwa abwino, amatsitsimutsa moyo wanga. Amanditsogolera m’njira zachilungamo chifukwa cha dzina lake. Ngakhale ndiyende m’chigwa cha mdima wakuda bii, sindidzaopa choyipa, pakuti Inu muli ndi ine; chibonga chanu ndi ndodo yanu zimanditonthoza. Mumandikonzera chakudya adani anga akuona. Mumadzoza mutu wanga ndi mafuta; chikho changa chimasefukira. Zoonadi, zokoma ndi chikondi chosasinthika zidzanditsata masiku onse a moyo wanga, ndipo ndidzakhala m’Nyumba ya Yehova kwamuyaya.”
Linalo lalembedwa mu Afilipi 4:4-7, “Nthawi zonse muzikondwa mwa Ambuye. Ndikubwerezanso: muzikondwa! Kufatsa kwanu kuzioneka pamaso pa anthu onse. Ambuye anu ali pafupi. Musade nkhawa ndi kanthu kalikonse, koma pa china chilichonse, mwa pemphero ndi chidandaulo pamodzi ndi chiyamiko, perekani zopempha zanu kwa Mulungu. Ndipo mtendere wa Mulungu, umene upambana nzeru zonse udzasunga bwino mitima yanu ndi maganizo anu mwa Khristu Yesu.”
Komanso kwalembedwa mu Afilipi 4:8, “Potsiriza, abale, muziyika mtima wanu pa zinthu zilizonse zabwino ndi zotamandika monga, zinthu zoona, zinthu zolemekezeka, zinthu zolungama, zinthu zoyera, zinthu zokongola, ndi zinthu zosiririka.”
M’malo mowononga maganizo anga podera nkhawa, ndingadzaze maganizo anga ndi zinthu zabwino zimene zingandilimbikitse kuchita zinthu zabwino. Nditha kuyesetsa kuwongolera maganizo anga ndi kupempha Mulungu kuti andithandize. Mwanjira imeneyi, moyo umakhala wabwino.
Ndasankha kukhulupirira mawu awa
Ndasankha kukhulupirira mawu awa. Pakhala nthawi zovuta, koma ndalirira Mulungu kuti andithandize, ndipo ndalandira thandizo lake. Ndasankha kuchita zinthu tsiku limodzi pa nthawi yake, ndipo sindilola kuti nkhawa za m’tsogolo zidzaze maganizo anga. Ndikhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti Mulungu ali nane, ndipo amalola kuti zonse zichitike kuti zinthu zindiyendere bwino ine ndi banja langa (Aroma 8:28).
Ndingadzifotokoze kuti ndine munthu wokondwa. Kudzera mu chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu ndi Mawu Ake amoyo, zimenezi n’zotheka kwa aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za mmene zinthu zilili pa moyo wake.