Tsiku lina ndinalandira uthenga wokhala ndi funso losangalatsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chakuti inatumizidwa monga meseji, ndinali ndi nthaŵi ya kulingalira za mmene ndingayankhire. Funso linali lakuti:
Kodi mumatuluka bwanji m'moyo uno mwa kungokhala nokha? Ndipo kusiya kukhala ndi malingaliro pa zomwe mukufuna, mukufuna kuchita etc.? Ndikaona X, nthawi zonse amakhala wosangalala kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zonse amaganizira zimene angachitire ena.
Zimene palibe amene angaone
Ndinadabwa ndi funso monga munthu wofunsa funso limeneli sanaoneke ngati akukhala yekha konse. Nthawi zonse ankaoneka kuti akusangalala, kuganizira ena etc. Ndipo ndikudziwanso kuti munthu amene anamuona kuti ndi chitsanzo choterocho nthawi zonse samamva kukhala wosangalala ndipo kwenikweni amakhala ndi nkhondo zake zotsutsana ndi dyera lake komanso kusasamala.
Nthawi zambiri timaganiza kuti anthu ena amadziwa bwino mmene angakhalire ndi moyo umenewu komanso kuti ndife amene tikuvutikabe kwambiri. Timayesetsa kunamizira kuti zonse zili bwino, koma mkati, kumene palibe amene angaone, tikhoza kuganiza molakwika za phindu lathu komanso kuyenda kwathu ndi Mulungu. Ifenso sitingathe kuona maganizo a enawo. Sitikuwona nkhondo zawo, kulimbana kwawo, kapena malingaliro oipa omwe ayenera kuwagonjetsa.
Zomwe zili zofanana kwa tonsefe
Pali chinachake chomwe chiri chofanana kwa tonsefe, ndipo ndikuti tonse tili ndi chikhalidwe chaumunthu chochimwa, kapena zomwe tingatchule kuti "moyo wanga" kapena "moyo wanga waumwini" - womwe ndi chilengedwe, wodzikonda ine. N'chimodzimodzinso kwa aliyense amene akufuna kutsatira Khristu – tonse tili ndi chikhalidwe chaumunthu chadyera choti tigonjetse. Ngakhale pamene ena ali "anthu abwino kwambiri" kuposa ine, onse ali ndi chibadwa chaumunthu chochimwa chogonjetsa. Kusakhala ndi umunthu wabwino umene umafunika. Chofunika ndi kupanga chisankho cholimba kuti mupeze moyo wodzikonda umenewu ndi kumasuka ku izo kapena "kutaya", monga momwe zalembedwera pa Mateyu 10:39.
Pa Aroma 8:29 kwalembedwa kuti Mulungu watisankha kuti tikhale ngati Mwana Wake. Choncho ngati tikufuna kukhala ngati Khristu, tiyenera kukhulupirira mwamphamvu zimene zalembedwa pa Aroma 7:18:
"Ndikudziwa kuti palibe chabwino chimene chimakhala mwa ine; ndiko kuti, palibe chabwino chimene chimakhala mu chikhalidwe changa choipa ..."
Ndipo chinthu china chofunika chimene tiyenera kukhulupirira ndi ichi:
"Iye amene apeza moyo wake adzautaya ..." —Mateyu 10:39.
Zimene tiyenera kukhala otanganidwa nazo
Cholinga chathu monga Akristu chiyenera kukhala pa zimene tikupeza kapena kuona za "moyo wathu" pa tsiku labwinobwino, osati mmene anthu ena alili. Ndipo kuti tipeze "moyo" wathu tiyenera kukhala tikuufunafuna; nthawi iliyonse yomwe timapeza chinachake m'miyoyo yathu chomwe chimatsutsana ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu kapena kuti si momwe Iye angafune, tiyenera "kutaya" kapena kuchotsa. Tiyenera kunena kuti Ayi , ndiyeno tatenga sitepe pang'ono patsogolo panjira yokhala ngati Yesu.
Tiyenera kusiya kuyesa kuoneka ngati "munthu wabwino", monga anthu omwe timakumana nawo omwe nthawi zonse amawoneka ngati okoma mtima ndikuganiza za ena. Mpingo wa Khristu sumamangidwa ndi anthu omwe akuyesera kukhala abwino kwa wina ndi mzake; umamangidwa ndi anthu omwe amapeza miyoyo yawo ndikuwataya - kapena kunena mwa mawu ena, anthu omwe amatenga nkhondo yolimbana ndi tchimo lomwe amawona mu chikhalidwe chawo chaumunthu.
Ndikudziwa kumene nkhondo yanga yakhala lero, koma ndi nkhani pakati pa ine ndi Mulungu. Mwinamwake palibe amene waonapo kuti ndamva chisoni, kapena kuti ndinafunikira kuyamba nkhondo yolimbana ndi kukhala wodzikonda, kapena kuchita nsanje kapena kukayikira kapena kudandaula kapena kukhumudwa kapena kukwiya.
Koma chimene anthu adzaona, ngati ndipambana nkhondo yolimbana ndi tchimo mwa ine ndekha nthawi iliyonse, ndikuti ndimayamba kusintha kuti ndikhale wabwino. Zinthu zina zingatenge nthawi yaitali kuposa zina, koma sitiyenera kuopa nkhondoyo, chifukwa timalonjezedwa kuti tidzagonjetsa.
"Ndipo ndikutsimikiza kuti Mulungu, amene anayamba ntchito yabwino mkati mwa inu, adzapitiriza ntchito yake mpaka potsirizira pake itatha pa tsiku limene Khristu Yesu adzabweranso." Afilipi 1:6.
