Chitsanzo cha Yosefe cha kukhululuka
"Abale a Yosefe ataona kuti bambo awo afa, iwo anati: "Bwanji ngati Yosefe watisungira chakukhosi ndi kutibwezera zolakwa zonse zimene tinamuchitira?" Choncho anatumiza mawu kwa Yosefe, kuti, "Bambo ako anasiya malangizo awa asanamwalire: 'Izi ndi zimene ukunena kwa Yosefe: Ndikukupemphani kuti mukhululukire abale anu machimo ndi zolakwa zimene anachita pokuchitirani zoipa kwambiri.' Tsopano chonde khululukirani machimo a atumiki a Mulungu wa atate wanu." Uthenga wawo utabwera kwa iye, Yosefe analira." Genesis 50:15-17 .
Abale ake a Yosefe ankaopa kuti wawakhululukira chifukwa chakuti bambo ake anamuuza. Kaŵirikaŵiri, ngati wina akanachitiridwa moipa monga momwe Yosefe anachitidwira ndi abale ake, iye akanakhala wokwiya.
Tsopano Yosefe anali ndi mphamvu zowalanga, ndipo abale ake ankaopa chilangocho. Choncho iwo anabwera kwa iye, anagwa pansi pamaso pake, ndipo anati, "Ife ndife akapolo anu." Genesis 50:18. Koma abalewo analibe chifukwa chochitira mantha. Chotero Yosefe anasunga mtima wake kukhala woyera m'zonse zonse ndipo chotero anali kuona dzanja la Mulungu m'zimene zinali kuchitika. Iye anali atawakhululukira kuchokera mumtima, ndipo apa pamabwera mawu otchuka akuti: "Munayesa kundivulaza, koma Mulungu anapangitsa kuti zikhale zabwino kwambiri, kuti apulumutse anthu onsewa, monga momwe akuchitira tsopano." Genesis 50:20.
Imeneyi ndi imodzi mwa nkhani zokhudza mtima kwambiri zimene tingawerenge m'Baibulo. Yosefe anazindikira kuti kukhululukira abale ake ndi kukhazikitsa nawo mtendere kunali kofunika kwambiri kwa ana a Yakobo ndi mibadwo yamtsogolo kukhala okhoza kukhala pamodzi ndi kusungidwa monga anthu amodzi mtsogolo. Tangoganizani kuti mtundu uwu wa mafuko khumi ndi awiri unayamba ndi abale 12 akupanga mtendere wina ndi mnzake.
Kugonjetsa choipa ndi chabwino
Nelson Mandela ku South Africa anachita chimodzimodzi. Anaikidwa m'ndende pa Robben Island kwa zaka 27. Chokumana nacho choterocho kaŵirikaŵiri chingachititse munthu kukwiya. Koma atatuluka m'ndende, anati: "Pamene ndinali kutuluka pakhomo kulowera pachipata chomwe chikatsogolera ku ufulu wanga, ndinadziwa kuti ndikapanda kusiya kuwawidwa mtima ndi udani wanga, ndidzakhalabe m'ndende." Iye anazindikira kuti tsogolo la anthu m'dziko lake silingathe kumangidwa pa mkwiyo koma lingakhale lozikidwa pa kukhululukirana ndi kupanga mtendere wina ndi mnzake.
"Musalole kuti zoipa zakugonjetseni. Kugonjetsa choipa mwa kuchita zabwino," Paulo analemba pa Aroma 12:21. Ngati mukhala wokwiya m'mikhalidwe ya moyo, mwagonjetsedwa ndi zoipa. Ndipo kenako simungathe kugonjetsa zoipa.
"Muziyesetsa kukhala mwamtendere ndi aliyense komanso kukhala oyera; popanda chiyero palibe amene adzaona Ambuye. Onani kuti palibe amene amaperewera pa chisomo cha Mulungu ndi kuti palibe muzu wowawa umene umakula kuti uyambitse mavuto ndi kuipitsa [kuipitsa] ambiri." Ahebri 12:14-15. Muzu wowawa umenewu ungangokula mumtima wodetsedwa kapena wodetsedwa. Zimafalikira kwa anthu ena, ndipo zimangowononga. Koma mtima woyera umasunga mkwiyo kunja.
Mtanda umagwirizana
"... Mulungu anali mwa Khristu, akupanga mtendere pakati pa dziko ndi iye mwini. Mwa Kristu, Mulungu sanaimbe dziko liwongo la machimo ake. Ndipo anatipatsa uthenga wa mtendere umenewu." 2 Akorinto 5:19. Mwa imfa ya Yesu, pangakhale mtendere pakati pa dziko ndi Mulungu. Mtendere umenewu ungapezeke ndi moyo uliwonse umene umakhulupirira Kristu.
"Khristu ndi chifukwa chake tsopano tili pamtendere. Anatipanga ife Ayuda ndi inu amene simuli Ayuda anthu amodzi. Tinalekanitsidwa ndi khoma la chidani limene linaima pakati pathu, koma Kristu anaswa khoma limenelo... Kudzera pa mtanda Khristu anathetsa chidani pakati pa magulu awiriwa." Aefeso 2:14-16.
Monga anthu timakumbukira mosavuta zoipa zonse zimene ena atichitira. Koma ngati tikufuna kusunga mtendere umene Yesu anabweretsa, tiyenera kuika zonsezi "pamtanda". Izi zikutanthauza kuti machimo athu ayenera "kupachikidwa", ayenera "kufa" osati kulamuliranso zochita zathu. "Mtanda" ndi malo okhawo omwe chidani ndi kuwawa kungaphedwe.
Chidani ndi kuwawidwa mtima zimathamangitsa anthu kwa wina ndi mnzake, pamene mtanda umagwirizanitsa anthu. Ngati mumalankhula zoipa za munthu wina kapena kuimba mlandu munthu wina, ndi chidani cha umunthu wanu wochimwa chimene chikugwiritsa ntchito lilime lanu monga chida. "Tinathera miyoyo yathu tikuchita zoipa ndi kuchita nsanje. Anthu ankadana nafe, ndipo tinkadana." Tito 3:3. Chidani chimangochititsa chidani chochuluka. Tangoganizani kuti tikhoza kutuluka m'gulu loipali mpaka kalekale! Choncho, n'koyenera kwa ife Akristu "kusalankhula zoipa za munthu aliyense, kukhala amtendere, ofatsa, osonyeza kudzichepetsa konse kwa anthu onse." Tito 3:2. "... monga Khristu anakukhululukirani, inunso muyenera kuchita." Akolose 3:13.
Tikuwona kuti kukhululukirana ndi kupanga mtendere ndi wina ndi mnzake ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri komanso zofunika kwambiri m'chiphunzitso chachikristu komanso monga chikhalidwe chokhala womanga dera.
