Zipatso zonse za Mzimu "zimakoma" zabwino ndi "kununkhiza" za ulemerero wosatha. Zina mwa zipatso zimenezi zimatchedwa pa Agalatiya 5:22-23 kuti: "...chikondi, chimwemwe, mtendere, kutalika, kukoma mtima, ubwino, kukhulupirika, kufatsa, kudziletsa..." Yesu, amene anatiitana ife kuchokera ku mdima kupita ku kuunika Kwake kodabwitsa, watiitana kuti tisonyeze ulemerero Wake. Ndipo ulemerero Wake ndi makhalidwe Ake abwino, zipatso za Mzimu. (1 Petro 2:9.)
Kukoma mtima ndi chimodzi mwa zipatso za Mzimu. Ngati tikufuna kuti ulemerero wa chipatso chabwino chimenechi cha kukoma mtima ubwere kuchokera ku moyo wathu, chilichonse chovuta m'moyo wathu chiyenera kuphwanyidwa. Kukoma mtima kumagwirizana kwambiri ndi nzeru zomwe zimachokera kumwamba, zomwe ndi zoyera, zamtendere, zofatsa, zofunitsitsa kugonjera, zodzaza ndi chifundo ndi zipatso zabwino. (Yakobo 3:17.)
Chilichonse chimene Mulungu analenga n'cholimba komanso chosasunthika ndipo chimagwira ntchito yakuya. Timawerenga pa Miyambo 25:15 kuti lilime lofatsa limathyola mafupa. Palibe choipa chimene chingagonjetse mphamvu ya kufatsa. Kufatsa kumapangitsa zinthu zakumwamba kuoneka zazikulu kwambiri ndi zinthu za padziko lapansi kukhala zazing'ono kwambiri kotero kuti sizili zoyenera kulimbana nazo konse.
Paulo anali ndi uthenga wamphamvu wa "imfa" pa mtundu uliwonse wa uchimo; koma pankhani ya kuchita zimene analalikira, anabwera ndi mawu okoma mtima ndi abwino, odzala ndi chiyembekezo, chitonthozo ndi chithandizo. Iye akulemba mu 2 Akorinto 10:1 (NCV), "Ine, Paulo, ndikukupemphani ndi kufatsa ndi kukoma mtima kwa Khristu... zosavuta pa inu pamene ine ndiri ndi inu ndi molimba mtima pamene ine ndiri kutali."
Mu 1 Atesalonika 2:7-8 (GNT) iye akulemba, "Koma ife tinali ofatsa pamene tinali nanu, ngati mayi kusamalira ana ake. Chifukwa cha chikondi chathu kwa inu tinali okonzeka kugawana nanu osati Uthenga Wabwino wochokera kwa Mulungu wokha komanso ngakhale miyoyo yathu. Munali okondedwa kwambiri kwa ife!" Kupyolera mu kukoma mtima kumeneku, chisamaliro ndi ubwino, chirichonse chomwe chinali cholimba ndi chozizira chinaphwanyidwa, ndipo mpingo ukhoza kukula mu chikondi chenicheni cha abale monga ana a kuwala, kuyembekezera kubweranso kwa Yesu.
"Ndipo mtumiki wa Ambuye sayenera kukangana koma kukhala wofatsa kwa onse, wokhoza kuphunzitsa, woleza mtima ..." 2 Timoteyo 2:24. N'zosavuta kwambiri kukangana kapena kukangana ndi munthu wina. Kaŵirikaŵiri munthu amayamba kukweza mawu a munthu, kuweruza, kudzudzula ndi kuneneza, ndipo posachedwapa mzimu wa kunama umabwera.
"Opusa amasonyeza mkwiyo wawo wonse, koma anzeru amaugwira." —Miyambo 29:11 (CEB). Lilime lofatsa ndi lanzeru lingakhazikitse mtima pansi mkwiyo wambiri ndipo lingalepheretse maukwati ambiri kutha.
Davide ananena za Sauli ndi Jonatani kuti anali ankhondo amphamvu, koma anali okondedwa ndi ofatsa m'moyo. Davide mwiniyo anali yemweyo, kokha kuposa iwo. Mu 2 Samueli 22:35-36 iye akuti, "Amaphunzitsa manja anga kupanga nkhondo ... Kufatsa kwanu kwandipangitsa kukhala wamkulu." Chomwe chimapangitsa munthu kukhala wamkulu ndi pamene agonjetsa zoipa ndi zabwino. Yesu anali mkango ndi mwana wa nkhosa.
Yosefe ndi chitsanzo chachikulu cha kukoma mtima, ubwino, ndi kukhululukira anthu ndi kukhazikitsa mtendere. Iye anali ndi mphamvu zobwezera pamene anakumananso ndi abale ake ku Igupto, koma ubwino unagonjetsa zoipazo. Atauza abale ake kuti iye ndi ndani, anayamba kulira kwambiri moti Aiguputo anamva, ngakhale m'nyumba ya Farao. Atatumiza abale ake kunyumba kukatenga bambo awo, Yakobo, iye anati: "Onani kuti simukukangana panjira." Izi siziyenera kuchitika paulendo wofunika kwambiri woterewu womwe adatumizidwa - panjira yopita kwa bambo awo.
Tikaganizira za "ulendo" wathu wofunika kwambiri popita kwa Atate wathu wakumwamba, tiyenera kuchita manyazi kwambiri ndi maganizo onse a kusagwirizana ndi kukangana. (Werengani Genesis 45.)
Mawu okoma mtima amachokera mumtima woyera ndi wabwino. Atate anaphunzitsa Yesu zimene anganene kuti Iye atsitsimutse anthu otopa ndi Mawu Ake. (Yesaya 50:4.) Mawu oterowo ndi ofunika kwambiri kuti athandize ndi kutonthoza ena. Mawu okoma mtima ndi amtengo wapatali.
"Mtima wa munthu wanzeru ndi mphunzitsi wa pakamwa pake, ndipo umapereka kuphunzira kowonjezereka ku milomo yake. Mawu osangalatsa ali ngati uchi, okoma ku moyo ndi moyo watsopano ku mafupa." Miyambo 16:23-24 (BBE).
Ŵerengani kalata ya Mtumwi Paulo kwa Filemoni. Ndi chitsanzo china cha kalata yodzaza ndi mawu a kukoma mtima ndi ubwino. O, Mulungu atipatse chisomo chochuluka kuti tigwiritse ntchito lupanga la Mzimu, lomwe ndi Mawu a Mulungu, ndi lilime lofatsa ndi lokoma mtima mumzimu woyenera komanso panthawi yoyenera.