Tinali ndi mlendo posachedwapa. Tinali titadya, ndipo tinali kucheza mosangalala m'mundamo.
Munthu wina anafunsa mlendoyo kuti, "Kodi mukuganiza kuti chinthu chachikulu chimene chimalepheretsa kucheza ndi anthu n'chiyani?"
"Nsanje," anayankha motero, mofulumira kwambiri.
Inde, tinali titamvapo zimenezi. Ife Akristu timadziwa kuti nsanje ndi yoipa. Koma kenako, anawonjezera chinachake chomwe ndimadana nacho kuvomereza, koma chinali chowona.
"Mudzapeza," adatero, "kuti ngati mukudutsa nthawi zomwe sizikuyenda bwino m'moyo wanu - mwina sizikuyenda bwino ndi ana anu - ndipo ngati muli ndi anzanu omwe zonse zikuyenda bwino - ana awo ndi angwiro, amalemekezedwa bwino ndipo amayamikiridwa kwambiri - ndiye kuti mudzapeza, pansi pa mtima muno," analoza pachifuwa chake, "pali mbali ya inu imene ikukhumba kuti chinachake chiwayendetse molakwika."
N'zoona kuti ndakumana ndi nsanje. Ndayang'ana miyoyo ya anzanga ndikukhumba kuti ndikhale nayo mofanana; poyerekeza nyumba yanga, ana anga, ntchito yanga, zovala zanga, malipiro anga, ndipo ndinapeza kuti ndinali ndi zochepa kwambiri. Ndipo ndikudziwa zokwanira za Mawu a Mulungu kuti ndizigwiritsa ntchito kundimasula ku malingaliro a nsanje omwe amangotsogolera ku malingaliro opanda pake, oipa...
Koma kwenikweni ndikukhumba kuti ziyende moipa m'dera lina kwa anzanga, kungondipangitsa kumva bwino?
Kumverera kochepa kosasangalatsa kumeneko...
Timadziwa bwino anzathu, ndipo timamva za kupambana kwawo konse. Timamva za izo pamene iwo kudutsa mayeso, kudzipereka, akuitanidwa pa ulendo wapadera etc. Pamene tikuwathokoza pali kumverera pang'ono kosasangalatsa, kochepa kwambiri kotero kuti tikhoza kunamizira kuti kulibe.
Zimene malingaliro ang'onoang'ono amenewa akunena kwenikweni ndi izi: "Sizikuyenda bwino kwambiri kwa ine ndi banja langa pakali pano ndipo kumva za mmene moyo wanu uliri wodabwitsa kumandipangitsa kukhala wopsinjika maganizo kwambiri."
Ndipo makutu anga ali otseguka ndi okondweretsedwa ndi chidutswa chilichonse cha miseche chomwe chimawaika m'malo oipa. Ndipo ndimanamizira kumva chisoni, koma mkati ndikuganiza, potsiriza amadziwa momwe zimakhalira kulimbana. Chifukwa ndi zimene zimayambitsa malingaliro amenewa. Moyo si chilungamo. Ndikuganiza kuti akhala ndi moyo wosavuta, kotero ndithudi adzakhala osangalala ndi oyamikira komanso abwino. Koma kwenikweni sindikuganiza kuti akhala akulimbana ndi mtundu wa mayesero omwe ndili nawo.
Ingoima pamenepo.
Chotero, chimene ndikunena nchakuti Mulungu sali wachilungamo m'kundipatsa ziyeso zambiri kuposa iwo? Kuti Mulungu sakumvetsa mkhalidwewo. Mulungu walakwitsa, choncho cholakwika kwambiri ...
Sindingathe kuganiza chonchi ngati ndikukhulupirira kuti Mulungu wandisankha, ndikuti Iye amasankha mayesero anga mwachindunji kuti andisinthe kuti ndikhale ngati Iye. (Aroma 8:28-29; 2 Akorinto 4:17-18.) Kodi ndingatani kuti ndisasangalale ndi zimenezi?
Sindiyenera kukhala wotanganitsidwa kulingalira zimene Mulungu amalola kwa mabwenzi anga. Si nkhani yanga basi. Bizinesi yanga ndi ubale wanga ndi Mulungu m' mayesero anga, osati awo.
Vomereza
Kwa nthawi yaitali, ndinkapewa kuvomereza kuti ndili ndi maganizo amtunduwu, chifukwa zinali zochititsa manyazi kuti ndikhoza kukhala wokondwa pang'ono pamene zinthu sizikuyenda bwino kwa mnzanga. Sindinaganizepo kuvomereza kuti ndinayesedwa kuti ndikhale wansanje– aliyense amamva kuti - koma sindinkakonda kuvomereza chinthu choipa kwambiri monga kufuna kuti chipite moipa kwa wina.
Koma ndinazindikira kuti ndikapeza malingaliro ameneŵa ndi kuwavomereza, angaweruzidwe. Pamene ine ndikuwaona iwo chifukwa cha zimene iwo ali ine ndikhoza kugwirizana ndi chiweruzo cha Mulungu pa iwo ndi kudana nawo, ngakhale kunena kuti mokweza kwa ine ndekha. Ndiyeno pang'onopang'ono ndimakhala womasuka ku chipwirikiti chimene chimabwera nthaŵi zonse pamene ndiyerekezera mkhalidwe wanga ndi mabwenzi anga. Ndithudi ufulu! Palibe chobisika: Ndikhoza kuyang'ana Mulungu kumaso ndikudziwa kuti ndili wotanganidwa kudziyeretsa. Ndikhoza kuyang'ana anzanga kumaso kwawo popanda kunamizira, ndi kuwadalitsa. Ngati sindingathe kuchita izi ndiye kuti sindimakonda kwenikweni anzanga.
Ndipo ufulu umenewu umabweretsa dalitso lochokera kumwamba; zimabweretsa mtendere pansi pa mtima m'moyo wanga kumene kale kunali zipolowe.
"Inu Ambuye, perekani mtendere weniweni kwa amene amadalira inu, chifukwa amakukhulupirirani." Yesaya 26:3.
