M'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, timabwera m'mikhalidwe yambiri - nthawi zina zinthu zabwino zimachitika, nthawi zina timamva nkhani zomvetsa chisoni kapena kukumana ndi nthawi zovuta. Malingaliro ambiri oipa ndi oipa angabwere m'maganizo mwathu mkati mwa mikhalidwe yonseyi yosiyanasiyana. Awa ndi malingaliro omwe tiyenera kulimbana nawo - malingaliro a kunyada, kusayamika, kulefulidwa, nkhawa, zofuna kapena milandu yotsutsana ndi anthu otizungulira, ndi zina zotero.
Limanena za Yesu pa Yesaya 7:15 (ESV), "Adzadya ma curds ndi uchi pamene akudziwa kukana zoipa ndi kusankha zabwino." Mwachidule, izi ndi zomwe kulimbana ndi uchimo kumatanthauza: kukana zoipa - kunena kuti Ayi ku malingaliro oipa - ndikusankha zabwino - kuchita kuganiza malingaliro abwino.
Kodi timalimbana bwanji?
Kodi timalimbana bwanji kuti tipambane? Aliyense amene wayesa kulimbana ndi malingaliro awo oipa mwina akhoza kunena kuchokera ku zokumana nazo kuti simungathe kuchita izo ndi chifuniro chanu.
Choyamba tiyenera kusankha kukonda Yesu ndi mtima wathu wonse ndi kutumikira Iye yekha. Iye ndi amene angatithandize kugonjetsa zoipa nthawi zonse. Tiyenera kumupempha Iye kuti atithandize pamene tikuyesedwa - tisanagwere mu uchimo. Kupyolera mwa Mzimu Woyera, Yesu mofunitsitsa amatipatsa thandizo ndi mphamvu zimene tifunikira kuzigonjetsa. Nthawi zambiri timalandira vesi la m'Baibulo limene limatithandiza pa mavuto.
Imodzi mwa mavesi amenewa ndi Afilipi 4:8 (GNT), kumene kwalembedwa kuti: "Pomaliza, anzanga, dzazani maganizo anu ndi zinthu zabwino ndi zoyenera kutamandidwa: zinthu zoona, zolemekezeka, zabwino, zoyera, zokongola, ndi zolemekezeka."
Tiyenera kuyamikira zonse zimene Mulungu amatumiza. Kaŵirikaŵiri, tingapeze kuti tikukhumba kuti tikhale ndi mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana m'moyo, kapena tingakhale ndi malingaliro athu ponena za mmene tsogolo lathu liyenera kukhalira ndi zimene tikuganiza kuti zingakhale zabwino kwa ife eni. Tiyenera kuika malingaliro ameneŵa m'manja mwa Mulungu, ndi kuchita kukhala oyamikira ndi kukhulupirira Mwa Iye.
Pamene tiyenera kusiya chifuniro chathu kuti tichite zimene Mulungu akufuna kuti tichite, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri ndipo zingakhale ngati "kuvutika", koma pambuyo pake zimatipatsa mtendere wa mumtima, ndipo pang'onopang'ono, tikukhala omasuka ku uchimo.
Nthaŵi zina tiyenera kuphunzira kukhala oleza mtima mumkhalidwe wovuta, ndipo nthaŵi zina tiyenera kuphunzira kutaya nkhaŵa zathu zonse pa Mulungu ndi kukhulupirira monga mwana. Izi sizinthu zophweka kuchita ndipo timakumana nazo ngati "kuvutika", chifukwa ndi zachilengedwe kwambiri kuti tifune kuti mikhalidwe yathu yovuta ichoke mwamsanga, kapena kukayikira kuti Mulungu adzatsogolera zonse zabwino kwambiri m'moyo wathu, monga momwe zalembedwera pa Aroma 8:28.
Zotsatira!
Koma kodi zotsatira zake n'zotani? Zimenezo zalembedwa pa 1 Petro 4:1: "... pakuti iye amene wavutika m'thupi waleka [kuima ndi] tchimo ..." Kuvutika m'thupi ndi pamene, m'malo mochimwa, ndimasankha kupirira kuvutika kumene ndimamva pamene ndikunena kuti Ayi ku chinthu chimene ndikuyesedwa nacho kuchokera ku thupi langa (kuchokera ku chikhalidwe changa chaumunthu).
Tingagonjetsedi uchimo wonse! Zimenezi zimatipatsa mtendere wa mumtima. Timadziŵa kuti sitepe ndi sitepe, tikukhala omasuka ku uchimo. Tikamalimbana kwambiri ndi tchimo mkati pathu, zimakhala zosavuta komanso zabwino kukhala ndi anthu otizungulira. Timapeza mtendere ndi chimwemwe pamene sitikhalanso ndi zofuna zilizonse kuti enawo asinthe. Izi zimapangitsa moyo wathu pano padziko lapansi kukhala wolemera komanso wodabwitsa.
Ndipo tingayembekezeredi zam'tsogolo, chifukwa tsiku lililonse tikhoza kugonjetsa pang'ono!