James akuti pa Yakobo 3:5-6 (GNT), "Choncho ndi lilime: laling'ono monga momwe lilili, likhoza kudzitama ndi zinthu zazikulu. Tangolingalirani mmene nkhalango ingayatsidwe ndi lawi laling'ono! Ndipo lilime lili ngati moto. Ndi dziko lolakwika, kukhala m'malo ake m'matupi athu ndikufalitsa zoipa kudzera mwa moyo wathu wonse. Zimayatsa moto njira yonse ya kukhalapo kwathu ndi moto umene umabwera kwa iyo kuchokera ku gehena yeniyeniyo."
Tili ndi mphamvu pa malingaliro athu ndi lilime lathu
Chilichonse chomwe timanena chimachokera ku malingaliro athu, ndipo malingaliro athu amasonkhezeredwa ndi zilakolako zauchimo zomwe zimagwira ntchito mwachangu mu chikhalidwe chathu chaumunthu (Yakobo 1:14). Ngati sitili maso, tingayambe miseche kapena kulankhula zoipa mosavuta. Lilime lathu lingakhale mphamvu imene imaipitsa thupi lathu lonse ndi kusonkhezera moyo wathu wonse. Ndiyeno lilime lathu lenilenilo limatenthedwa ndi helo weniweniyo.
Kodi timayamba kuti kugonjetsa helo ameneyu? Ziyenera kuyamba m'moyo wathu woganiza. Sitingapeŵe kuyesedwa, koma tingachotse malingaliro athu pa zikhumbo zauchimo m'chibadwa chathu. Zosatheka, mukuti. Ayi, n'zotheka, chifukwa Yesu akuti, "N'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza zinthu zimenezi?" Marko 2:8 (NCV). Zimenezi zikusonyeza kuti tingaimbe mlandu chifukwa chogonjera maganizo ochimwa. Ndi malingaliro ochimwa, oipa awa omwe amayendetsa lilime lathu, ndipo ndi lilime lathu malingaliro oipa awa amatumizidwa m'njira iliyonse kuti "nkhalango zazikulu ziwotsidwe pamoto", kutanthauza kuti onse omwe amamvetsera adzakumana ndi chisonkhezero chawo chowononga.
Lemba la Miyambo 12:18 limanena kuti pali anthu ambiri amene amalankhula mawu osaganizira amene amabaya ngati lupanga. Ndipo lemba la Miyambo 12:23 (CEV) limanena kuti "... opusa amafalitsa zopusa kulikonse."
Maganizo athu amasankha ngati malingaliro ali abwino kapena oipa, kaya amachokera ku magwero oyera kapena oipa. Chilichonse chomwe chimachokera ku gwero labwino chiyenera kuloledwa kulowa m'mitima yathu chifukwa chidzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino. Koma tiyenera kuletsa malingaliro ochimwa, oipa.
Talandira mphamvu yonena kuti "Ayi" ku choipa ndi "Inde" ku chabwino; ndipo chifukwa chake talandiranso mphamvu pa malingaliro athu ndi lilime lathu. Sitiyenera kuganiza kapena kulankhula zoipa. Izi zimagwira ntchito m'madera omwe timadziwa kusiyana pakati pa zabwino ndi zoipa. Apa ndi pamene tiyenera kukhala maso.
Gwirani ntchito mwakhama kuti mugonjetse!
Yakobo akulemba kuti, "Palibe amene angathe kuthetsa lilime ... Dalitso ndi kutukwana zimachokera pakamwa limodzi." Koma kenako akuti, "Abale ndi alongo anga, siziyenera kukhala chonchi! Madzi abwino komanso madzi amchere samachokera m'dzinja lomwelo, kodi?" Yakobo 3:8-11 (CEB). Zimenezi zikusonyeza kuti mungaletse maganizo oipa kulowa m'maganizo mwanu. Pano inu ndi ine tiyenera kukhala maso. Tingaletse lilime lathu kulankhula zoipa pamene taletsa zoipa m'maganizo mwathu.
Kulankhula zoipa ndi kulemba zoipa ndi chinthu chomwecho popeza m'zochitika zonse ziwiri munthu walola zoipa kubwera m'maganizo mwake, maganizo amene anayenera kutumikira Mulungu (Aroma 7:25) .
Ngati takhala tikuganiza kapena kulankhula zoipa, tiyenera kuzivomereza ndi kunena mwamphamvu kuti Ayi ku malingaliro ena oterowo, ndipo ngati tavulaza ena ndi icho, tiyenera kuwapempha chikhululukiro. Zikatero tili ndi mwayi wabwino wodziphunzitsa tokha kukhala ndi moyo waumulungu (1 Timoteo 4:7).
Ganizirani kuti tingagwire ntchito ndi kudziphunzitsa tokha m'njira imene timagonjetsa m'maganizo, m'mawu, ndi m'zochita. Ndipo ngati tiyenera kukhumudwa mkati mwa maphunziro ameneŵa, tiyenera kupitirizabe kufikira titagonjetsa kotheratu!