Kudzera m’mayesero ndi zovuta, ndaphunzira maphunziro ofunika amene ndikufuna kugawana nanu.
Mwachibadwa, ndine munthu wokhudzidwa mtima kwambiri, ndimatha kulingalira zinthu zambiri, ndine waluso pa kupanga zinthu, ndipo ndimatha kumvetsa mosavuta mmene ena amamvera. Nthawi zina ndimafunanso kuti zinthu zonse zikhale zangwiro mopitirira muyezo. Umu ndi mmene Mulungu anandilengera.
Ndili pakati pa zaka za m’ma 20 ndipo ndakumana kale ndi mavuto ambiri. Zinthu pa moyo wanga n’zosiyana ndi zimene ndinkaganiza kuti moyo wanga udzakhala. Ndili ndi zaka 16, ndinadwala kwambiri ndipo zinanditengera nthawi yaitali kuti ndichire pang’ono. Mpaka pano ndilibe mphamvu zambiri komanso chilimbikitso.
Ndinayenera kubwereza chaka chimodzi kusukulu, ndipo kwa ine, monga wophunzira wabwino, zinali zovuta kwambiri. Moyo wanga wonse unasokonekera. M’zaka zotsatira, mpaka pamene ndinamaliza maphunziro anga ndili ndi zaka 20, ndinapirira zovutazo. Kenako ndinakhala kanthawi kunja kwa dziko, ndipo zinthu zinkandiyendera bwino kwambiri. Koma matenda anga anayambiranso, ndipo ndinayenera kubwerera kunyumba.
Zinthu zisanu ndi ziwiri zimene ndinaphunzira pa zonsezi
N’chifukwa chiyani ndikukuuzani zimenezi, mukufunsa? M’nthawi zonsezi Mulungu wanga wandinyamula, ndipo ndalandira thandizo.
Nazi zinthu zimene zinandithandiza m’mbuyomu, ndipo zikundithandizabe m’nthawi zovuta.
1. Pali nyimbo yotchedwa “M’dzanja lotetezeka la Mulungu ndimakhala wotetezeka nthawi zonse.” Ndamva nyimboyi nthawi zambiri. Ndili wotetezeka m’dzanja la Mulungu, ndipo palibe chimene chimandivuta kwambiri. M’dzanja lotetezeka la Mulungu palibe chifukwa choopera. Palibe amene angandichotse m’dzanja Lake, pokhapokha nditasankha kusamukhulupirira. Zinthu zimangokhala zakuda ndi zolemetsa kwambiri ndikasiya kumukhulupirira.
2. “Amandigoneka pa msipu wobiriwira, amanditsogolera ku madzi akumwa abwino.” Salmo 23:2. Kwa ine, malo obiriwira ndi madzi abata zimaimira mtendere, chimwemwe, ndi zosoŵa zonse za mumtima mwanga. Nthawi zambiri sindimadziwa ndekha chimene chili chabwino kwa ine. Ndiyeno ndiyenera kungodalira Mulungu—Iye amaona zonse.
3. Yesu amandikonda ndipo ali ndi chidaliro kuti ndidzapambana mayesero amenewa. Mayesero amandithandiza kumasuka ku zinthu zimene sizili zabwino kwa ine—makamaka uchimo umene umakhala mwa ine. Mayesero amandisonyeza uchimo umene uli mwa ine. Afilipi 1:6; 1 Akorinto 10:13; Yakobo 1:2-4.
4. Musafunse kuti, “Chifukwa chiyani?” Zaka zingapo zapitazo ndinaganiza zosiya kufunsa chifukwa chake zimenezi zinkandichitikira. Ndazindikira kuti ichi ndi chizolowezi chabwino chimene changopangitsa moyo wanga kukhala wosavuta. Afilipi 2:14.
5. Tsiku limodzi pa nthawi. Ndingathe kupirira tsiku limodzi, chifukwa Mulungu amandipatsa mphamvu zokwanira kuti ndipirire tsikulo. 1 Akorinto 10:13. Lero ndi mphatso yochokera kwa Mulungu, ndipo ndiyenera kusangalala nalo. Salmo 118:24.
6. Ngati sindikumvetsa china chake, ndimangochisiya. M’Salmo 131:1 analemba kuti sitiyenera kulimbana ndi zinthu zimene sitingazifikire—zinthu zimene sindikuzimvetsa. Ndikasiya zinthu zimene sindikuzimvetsa, ndimadziteteza ku malingaliro ndi nkhawa zambiri komanso ku zolemetsa zosafunika.
7. Kuwerenga kwabwino kwambiri: Masalimo, Masalimo, Masalimo. Davide nthawi zambiri ankakumana ndi mayesero aakulu ndipo ankakhuthulira Mulungu za mumtima mwake, ndipo nthawi zonse ankapeza thandizo. Inenso ndingapeze thandizo nthawi zonse powerenga mawu amenewa.
Ndikuyamikira kwambiri thandizo limene limapezeka tsiku lililonse, ndipo limandithandiza kupirira, makamaka m’nthawi zovuta. Pali zinthu zambiri zosafunika ndiponso zachiphamaso m’dziko lino, ndipo n’zosavuta kutaya cholinga choyenera.
Aliyense amakumana ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana pa moyo, ndipo sikuthandiza kudziyerekezera ndi anthu ena. Koma pali thandizo pa nyengo zosiyanasiyana ndiponso kwa anthu osiyanasiyana. Kwa ine, mfundo zochepa zimenezi zakhala zothandiza kwambiri. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zingakuthandizeninso!