Ndine munthu wabwinobwino, wokhala ndi moyo wabwinobwino. Mikhalidwe yanga si yovuta kwambiri kuposa ya anthu ozungulira ine. Ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani nthawi zambiri ndimayesedwa kuti ndikhale wosayamika pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku? N'chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kudzuka ndi kupita kuntchito ndi mtima wosangalala pa Lolemba m'mawa? N'chifukwa chiyani kukhala woyamikira n'kovuta kwambiri?
Kuyamika sikubwera mwachibadwa ...
Ndi chifukwa chakuti ndili ndi chikhalidwe chochimwa chomwe palibe chabwino, monga momwe mtumwi Paulo akunenera pa Aroma 7:18: "Ndipo ndikudziwa kuti palibe chabwino chimene chimakhala mwa ine, ndiko kuti, mu chikhalidwe changa chochimwa. Ndikufuna kuchita zabwino, koma sindingathe."
Chimenecho chiyenera kuti chinali chinthu chovuta kwa iye kuvomereza - kuti panalibe chabwino mu chikhalidwe chake; kuti pamene anachita mogwirizana ndi chibadwa chake chaumunthu, zinali zolakwika nthawi iliyonse. Koma chimenecho ndicho choonadi kwa munthu aliyense. Ndili ndi chikhalidwe chonyadira, chochimwa chomwe chimandipangitsa kuganiza kwambiri za ine ndekha, zomwe zimandipangitsa kuganiza kuti ndikuyenera kukhala bwino. Ndipo n'chifukwa chake ndimayesedwa kudandaula za moyo wabwinobwino, wa tsiku ndi tsiku m'malo moyamikira.
Kodi yankho lake ndi lotani? Ndikumvetsetsa kuti palibe chabwino mu chikhalidwe changa chaumunthu. Zikanakhala kuti zinangothera pamenepo, zikanakhala zopanda chiyembekezo. Koma ayi! Mtumwi Paulo anali ndi vumbulutso lina lodabwitsa limene analemba pa 2 Akorinto 5:17; iye akuti, "kuti aliyense wa Khristu wakhala munthu watsopano. Moyo wakale wapita; moyo watsopano wayamba!"
Timapezanso lonjezo la Mulungu limeneli pa Yesaya 43:19, "Pakuti ndili pafupi kuchita chinthu chatsopano. Taonani, ndayamba kale! Kodi simukuziwona? Ndidzapanga njira yodutsa m'chipululu. Ndidzalenga mitsinje m'malo owuma."
Ndikuthokoza chifukwa cha dongosolo la Mulungu la moyo wanga
Mulungu ali ndi mapulani aakulu kwa ife! Iye amadziŵa zonse ponena za chibadwa changa choipa chaumunthu, koma Iye akulonjezabe kupanga chinachake chatsopano kotheratu mwa ine! Ndipo kodi Iye angapange bwanji chinthu chatsopano? Mwa kunditumizira mikhalidwe imene Iye anandipangira ine ndekha, kotero kuti ndiphunzire kusunga malamulo Ake. (Salimo 119:71, Yobu 42:5.)
Ndikamvetsetsa kwenikweni ndikuwona izi, ndiye kuti ndilibe chifukwa chokhalira wosayamika. Mulungu amandikonda kwambiri moti Iye amanditumizira mikhalidwe imeneyi n'cholinga choti andimasule ku tchimo la umunthu wanga ndi kundiphunzitsa kukhala ngati Yesu. (Aroma 8:28, 29.) Zimenezo ziyenera kundipangitsa kuyamikira kwambiri!
Mulungu samangotumiza mkhalidwe wovuta paulendo wanga kenako n'kundisiya. Ayi, Iye wandipatsa Mawu Ake, omwe ndi "chida" chachikulu kwambiri cholimbana ndi kusayamika ndi tchimo lina lililonse. Tangoyang'anani vesi ili mu 1 Atesalonika 5:16-18: "Nthawi zonse khalani osangalala. Musasiye kupemphera. Khalani oyamikira m'mikhalidwe yonse, pakuti ichi ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu kwa inu amene muli a Kristu Yesu."
Khalani oyamikira m'mikhalidwe yonse. Limenelo ndi lamulo lochokera kwa Mulungu! Ndipo Mulungu sali wosalungama. Sadzatipatsa lamulo limene Iye akudziwa kuti sitingasunge. Chotero pamenepo kuyenera kukhala kotheka kwa ine kukhala woyamikira nthaŵi zonse. Iye sananene kuti, "m'zonse zikomo, kupatula pamene chinachake choipa kwambiri chikuchitikirani. Pamenepo muli ndi ufulu wonse wodandaula kapena kukhumudwa."
Ngati ndisunga lamulo limeneli, ndikhoza kukhala wosangalala nthaŵi zonse! Zimatanthauza kuti palibe mkhalidwe umodzi umene ungabe chiyamikiro changa kapena chimwemwe changa! Ndikhoza kukhala wosangalala ndi woyamikira m'chiyeso chilichonse ndi chiyeso chimene Mulungu amatumiza. Ndi chida chotani nanga!
Ophunzirawo anayamikira
M'buku la Machitidwe, timawerenga nkhani yonena za ophunzira ena a Yesu. Iwo anamangidwa chifukwa cholalikira mumzinda, anamenyedwa ndi kulamulidwa kuti asiye kulankhula m'dzina la Yesu. Koma werengani zimene zinachitika:
"Atumwiwo anachoka m'bungwe lalikululo akusangalala kuti Mulungu wawaona kuti ndi oyenera kuvutika chifukwa cha manyazi chifukwa cha dzina la Yesu." Machitidwe 5:41.
Amuna ameneŵa anali atangomenyedwa kumene mosalungama! Chimenecho ndi chiyeso chovuta kuposa mayesero anga ang'onoang'ono tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma ophunzirawo anagwiritsa ntchito kuyamika ngati chida cholimbana ndi kudzimvera chisoni komanso kukhumudwa. Iwo anayamikira Mulungu kuti Iye anafuna kuwagwiritsa ntchito pa ntchito Yake padziko lapansi, ndipo iwo anabwerera pomwepo kukalalikira uthenga wabwino wa Yesu.
Ndi chida ichi choyamikira m'manja mwanga, ndikhoza kunena kuti Ayi nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndikuyesedwa kuti ndisayamika. Zinthu zoipa kapena zovuta zikachitika, ndingaphunzire kukhulupirira Mulungu. Ndi njira yatsopano imeneyi yochitira zinthu, moyo wanga ungasinthe kotheratu!
Tengani chida ichi choyamikira ndipo masiku anu onse amdima adzatha. Tamandani Mulungu chifukwa cha zimene Iye amatichitira!
Mavesi ambiri ogwiritsira ntchito ngati zida zoyamikira:
"Ndipo mtendere wochokera kwa Khristu ulamulire m'mitima yanu. Pakuti monga ziwalo za thupi limodzi mukuitanidwa kuti mukhale mwamtendere. Ndipo nthawi zonse khalani oyamikira." Akolose 3:15 .
"Musadandaule ndi chilichonse, koma pempherani ndi kupempha Mulungu zonse zimene mukufuna, nthawi zonse muziyamikira. Ndipo mtendere wa Mulungu, umene uli waukulu kwambiri umene sitingaumvetse, udzasunga mitima ndi maganizo anu mwa Khristu Yesu." Afilipi 4:6-7 .
"Tikudziwa kuti pa chilichonse Mulungu amagwira ntchito kuti anthu amene amamukonda akhale abwino. Iwo ndi anthu amene anawatcha, chifukwa chimenecho chinali cholinga chake." Aroma 8:28.