Ndikuganiza kuti aliyense amafuna kukhala wosangalala. Koma kodi mumasangalala bwanji? Kodi mumapeza bwanji mtendere weniweni ndi chimwemwe m'moyo? Kodi zimenezi n'zothekadi?
Ndikukumbukira nkhani yomwe ndinamva nthawi yapitayo, yokhudza mwamuna wofooka, wokalamba yemwe anali kuyenda limodzi ndi mnyamata. Mwamuna wokalambayo anatembenukira kwa mnyamatayo n'kunena mwachangu kuti, "Ndikusangalala kwambiri! Kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake? Chifukwa palibenso chilichonse chimene ndikufuna kunja kwa Mulungu!" M'moyo wake, mwamuna wokalambayo anali atasiya tsiku ndi tsiku chifuniro chake chadyera kuti achite chifuniro chabwino cha Mulungu, ndipo anali wokhutira ndi mmene Mulungu anamukonzera zinthu m'moyo wake. Zimenezo n'zimene zinam'sangalatsa kwambiri.
Posachedwapa, ndinaonera pulogalamu pa TV yokhudza achinyamata komanso momwe ankafunira kuti miyoyo yawo ipite. Iwo ankafuna moyo wapamwamba wokhala ndi nyumba zazikulu, magalimoto okwera mtengo komanso mawonekedwe abwino. Koma chomwe chinandivutitsa maganizo chinali chakuti achinyamata amenewa ankaoneka otsimikiza kwambiri kuti akapeza zinthu zonsezi, adzakhala osangalala. Kodi zimenezi n'zoona?
Ndinalingalira za mawu a mwamuna wokalambayo, ponena za mmene mawu amenewo a mwamuna wokalambayo analili omveka bwino ndi osavuta. Mawu ake anasonyeza kuti anali ndi chidziŵitso chabwino kwambiri cha chimwemwe kuposa anthu ambiri. Ndi chimwemwe mosasamala kanthu za mikhalidwe yanu yakunja. Ndi chimwemwe chimene mumalandira mwa kusiya chifuniro chanu chochita chifuniro cha Mulungu.
Kwenikweni ndi zophweka. Mungakhale wachimwemwe mwa kusiya zofuna zanu zonse zadyera pa anthu ndi pa moyo wonse.
Chitsanzo cha moyo wachimwemwe
Mu Aheberi 1:9 (NLT) kwalembedwa ponena za Yesu kuti: "Umakonda chilungamo ndi kudana ndi zoipa. Choncho, inu Mulungu, Mulungu wanu wakudzozani, akuthira mafuta a chimwemwe pa inu kuposa wina aliyense."
Vesi limeneli limafotokoza mmene zinalili kwa Yesu pamene Iye anali kukhala pano padziko lapansi. Iye anadzozedwa ndi mafuta a chimwemwe kuposa wina aliyense; m'mawu ena, Iye anali wosangalala kuposa anthu onse ozungulira Iye. Koma kodi chilungamo chimenechi chimene Iye anachikonda chinali chiyani, ndipo choipa chimene Iye ankadana nawo chinachokera kuti?
Yesu Mwini akuti, "Pakuti ndatsika kuchokera kumwamba, osati kudzachita chifuniro Changa, koma chifuniro cha Iye amene anandituma Ine." Yohane 6:38. Iye ankakonda kuchita chifuniro cha Mulungu. Choipa chimene Iye ankadana nacho, chinali chifuniro Chake – kumene chifuniro Chake chinatsutsana ndi zimene Mulungu ankafuna kuti Iye achite.
Mwachitsanzo, tikuona pa Mateyu 26:38-44 mmene Yesu anamenyera nkhondo m'mapemphero Ake kuti chifuniro Chake chisapeze mphamvu iliyonse. Umu ndi mmene Yesu ankamenyera tsiku lililonse la moyo Wake pamene Iye anaona kuti Iye anayesedwa kukhala wokwiya, nkhawa kapena wosaleza mtima etc. Iye anakonda chifuniro cha Mulungu, chimene chinali chakuti Iye ayenera kuvutika moleza mtima, kukhala wachifundo kwa anthu, kudalitsa, ndi kuchita zabwino.
Mofanana ndi munthu wokalamba ameneyu, Yesu sanafune chilichonse kwa Iyemwini kunja kwa Mulungu. Tsiku lililonse pamene Iye anali pano padziko lapansi, Iye anadzipereka Yekha kuchita chifuniro cha Atate Wake wakumwamba, ndipo panthaŵi imodzimodziyo anati Ayi ku chirichonse chimene chinali kunja kwa chifuniro ichi.
Ngati ndikukhulupirira kuti moyo wa Yesu ndi woyenera kuutsatira, ndiyeneranso kusiya chifuniro changa chaumunthu monga momwe Yesu anachitira!
Ndidzasangalala ndikasiya chifuniro changa
Monga anthu, tili ndi chifuniro chathu champhamvu kwambiri chomwe chimadziwonetsera kuyambira nthawi yomwe tili ana ang'onoang'ono. Ndipo tili ndi malingaliro okhudza mitundu yonse ya zinthu - za ufulu wathu, momwe anthu ayenera kutichitira, momwe timaonekera, zomwe tingachite, ndi momwe tikufunira kuti zinthu zikhale. Zinthu zikapanda kupita mmene timafunira, kapena wina akutsutsana nafe komanso motsutsana ndi zimene tikufuna, ndiye kuti chimwemwe chathu chimayesedwa. Ndi m'mikhalidwe imeneyi, yomwe anthu onse amakumana nayo, kuti ife mosavuta kukhala nkhawa, zowawa kapena kumverera ife kuchitiridwa mopanda chilungamo.
Koma kodi tingasunge motani chimwemwe chathu, mtendere, ndi chimwemwe m'mikhalidwe yoteroyo?
Kungosiya chifuniro changa ndi zofuna zanga, ndi kukhulupirira Mulungu - ndizo zomwe Yesu anachitanso pamene Iye anali pano padziko lapansi. Chifuniro chathu chaumunthu chochimwa nthawi zonse chimatsutsana ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu monga momwe chimanenera momveka bwino mu Aroma 8:7 (GNT), "Ndipo kotero anthu amakhala adani a Mulungu pamene akulamulidwa ndi chikhalidwe chawo chaumunthu; pakuti samvera lamulo la Mulungu, ndipotu sangalimvere." Ngati sitisiya chifuniro chathu chaumunthu, chidzatipititsa kutali kwambiri ndi Yesu amene anapereka chifuniro Chake.
Ngati m'mikhalidwe ndikusankha kunena kuti "Inde" ku chifuniro changa (kutanthauza kuti ndikunena kuti "Ayi" ku chifuniro cha Mulungu) ndidzathera m'malo opanda pake, m'malo osakondwa ndi osungulumwa, ndekha ndi zofuna zanga ndi ziyembekezo, ndi kutali ndi Mulungu ndi dongosolo lake langwiro la moyo wanga.
Ngati tikufuna kukhala achimwemwe, tiyenera kuika moyo wathu wonse m'manja mwa Mulungu ndi kukhulupirira Atate wathu Wakumwamba. Ndiyeno mawu ochokera pa Mateyu 6:33 (NLT) adzakwaniritsidwa, "Funani Ufumu wa Mulungu koposa zonse, ndipo khalani ndi moyo wolungama, ndipo Iye adzakupatsani zonse zimene mukufuna." Kokha pamenepo tidzakhala achimwemwe kwenikweni!
Anthu ambiri apeze njira yopita ku moyo wachimwemwe kudzera mu maphikidwe osavuta awa, "Palibe zofuna."