Kodi chimwemwe chimatanthauzanji kwa ine?
Kwa ine, chimwemwe makamaka ndicho kukhala ndi mtendere mumtima mwanga. Inde, mungapeze chimwemwe pamene zinthu zabwino zikuchitika pafupi nanu. Malingaliro amenewo akhoza kukwera ndi kutsika malinga ndi zinthu zomwe sindingathe kuzilamulira.
Koma pali mtundu wozama wa chimwemwe umene umakhalabe mosasamala kanthu za zimene zimachitika pafupi nane. Chimwemwe chamtunduwu chimachokera ku mtendere umene ndili nawo mumtima mwanga. Kumabwera chifukwa chodziwa kuti Mulungu amandisamalira. Zimachokera pakukhulupirira Mawu Ake ndi kukhulupirira malonjezo Ake. Zimabwera pamene ndikudziwa mumtima mwanga kuti Mulungu akundisamalira, kuti Iye ali ndi mapulani kwa ine, kuti Iye wandikhululukira, ndi kuti Iye akundithandiza kuchita chifuniro Chake.
Chidaliro ndi mtendere zimenezo sizikukhudzidwa ndi mikhalidwe yondizinga, ndipo ndi chidaliro ndi mtendere zimenezo zimene zimandisangalatsa kwambiri.
Mbali ina yaikulu kwambiri ya chimwemwe kwa ine ndi kuyamikira, zomwe ndi chinthu chomwe ndimasankha. Ndimasankha kuyamikira. Ndi chinthu chokhazikika. Komanso ndi chinthu chomwe sichifunikira kusonkhezeredwa ndi mikhalidwe yanga. Kotero, kwa ine, ngakhale kuti ndilinso ndi malingaliro osangalala, ndipo ndikuthokoza kwambiri madalitso omwe amabwera komanso kwa anthu omwe ndimawakonda komanso tsiku la dzuwa, chimwemwe changa sichidalira pamenepo, chifukwa mtendere womwe uli pansi umatha kuchotsedwa.
Ndithudi pali nthawi zowonongeka, nthawi zoyeserera, nthawi zomwe zinthu sizikuyenda njira yanga. Ndipo palibe malingaliro abwino, palibe malingaliro a chimwemwe mkati mwa nthaŵi zimenezo. Koma ndikhozabe kukhala ndi mtendere ndi kuyamikira mumtima mwanga. Zimenezo zimandipatsa chimwemwe chomwe sichikukhudzidwa ndi mayesero kapena mikangano yomwe ndili nayo, kapena chilichonse chomwe chingakhale chomwe ndikukumana nacho. Aliyense amadutsa nthawi zomwe sitimva kukhala osangalala kwambiri. "Kusankha chimwemwe" sikutanthauza kuti ndimapeza kusankha malingaliro osangalala, koma zikutanthauza kuti ndimagwira mwamphamvu Mulungu ndi Mawu Ake, ndipo zimenezo zimandipatsa chimwemwe chozama.
Kuyamikira ndi njira yopezera chimwemwe
Kuyamikira ndi chisankho. Pangakhale zinthu zomwe zimachitika zomwe si momwe ndingasankhire. Koma ndingasankhe mmene ndimachitira ndi zimenezi. Ndipo kwa ine, kuyamikira kwakhala yankho lenileni. Ntchakuzirwa chomene. Mwina ndili mu mkhalidwe ndipo pali chinachake chomwe sindimakonda kwenikweni. Mwinamwake ndiyenera kukumana ndi anthu ovuta, kapena mwinamwake ndimamva kukhala wosungulumwa pang'ono. Kenako ndingasankhe mmene ndingachitire ndi zimenezi. Ndikhoza kusankha kuthokoza Mulungu chifukwa cha zomwe Iye akuchita mwa ine komanso kuti ndikudziwa kuti ndili m'manja Mwake, ndipo ndikhoza kuchita zomwe Iye wandipatsa kuti ndichite ndi mtima wanga wonse. Ndipo ndikachita zimenezo, ndimasangalala.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti n'zotheka kukhala wosangalala nthawi zonse
Ndikaganiza kuti chimwemwe ndi mtendere ndi kuyamikira zimene ndili nazo mumtima mwanga, ndiye kuti ndimakhulupirira kuti n'zotheka kukhala wosangalala nthawi zonse. Ndipo sizidalira pa mkhalidwe wanga uliwonse. N'zosatheka nthawi zonse kukhala wosangalala komanso wosangalala. Pali masiku amdima kumene timayesedwa. Timawerenga ngakhale za "tsiku loipa" m'Mawu a Mulungu, koma sizikutanthauza kuti ndikufunika kutuluka mu mpumulo, kapena chifukwa cha chimwemwe chimene ndili nacho pamene ndikukhulupirira Mulungu ndi mtima wonse.
Chimwemwe changa chingakulenso pamene ndichotsa zinthu zimene zingachotse mtendere wa mumtima umenewu. Kudandaula malingaliro, kudziyerekezera ndi anthu ena, kusakhutira, mantha, ndi nkhawa ndi malingaliro onse omwe amabwera mosavuta mkati mwanga ndipo akhoza kuchotsa chisangalalo changa ngati ndiwalola. Chotero, ndiyenera kukonzekera ndekha ndi kugwiritsira ntchito Mawu a Mulungu monga chida chotsutsana ndi malingaliro ameneŵa ndi kupemphera m'malingaliro anga kotero kuti ndiwatsutse pamene abwera! Ngati ndikuchita izi, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kusunga chimwemwe changa - nthawi zonse! Koma ndiyenera kukhala maso ndi kuzindikira zinthu zimene zimafuna kundibera chimwemwe changa.
Ndimasankha kukhulupirira kuti Mawu a Mulungu ndi oona kwa ine
Ndikhoza kupeza chimwemwe chokhazikika chimenechi pamene ndingosankha kukhulupirira kuti Mawu a Mulungu ali oona kwa ine ndi kuti Mulungu amandikondadi ndipo ali ndi makonzedwe kaamba ka ine. Zolinga zake kwa ine sizovuta. Ndi za kuchita zonse zomwe ndikumvetsa ndi zomwe zili bwino pamaso panga. Kenako ndimagona usiku wodzala ndi mtendere, ndipo ndikudziwa kuti Mulungu ndi wa ine. Akutsatira. Iye ali ndi chidwi ndi ine. Mtendere umenewo ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa malingaliro alionse achimwemwe.
Kotero ngakhale zinthu zikunditsutsa pakali pano - pali zinthu zambiri zoti tiphunzire, mayesero ambiri, ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe timakumana nazo, makamaka pamene tili aang'ono kwambiri - nthawi zonse ndikhoza kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro ndi mtendere ndi chimwemwe mkati mwa mtima wanga.