Kodi munayamba mwaganizapo za mfundo yakuti inuyo ndinu nokha amene mumasankha mmene mungachitire zinthu pa moyo wanu?
Osati zokhazo, komanso momwe mumachitira ndi zinthu zomwe mumakumana nazo m'moyo zidzasankha momwe mungakhalire osangalala kapena osakondwa. Kuyankha kwanu, ndi kachitidwe kanu kokha, kudzasankha zimenezo.
Chilichonse chimene chimakuchitikirani m'moyo, chilichonse chimene ena amanena kapena kuchita, zinthu zimenezi mwa iwo okha sizingakhudze chimwemwe chanu kapena kupanda chimwemwe; iwo sangapangitse chimwemwe chanu kukhala chochuluka kapena chochepa. Mwina izi sizikumveka bwino, chifukwa ndizosiyana kotheratu ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amaganiza ndi kunena ndi kumva. Komabe ndi choonadi! Mukamayesa kwambiri izi, mudzawona kwambiri kuti ndizoonadi.
Palibe amene angakupangitseni kuchimwa!
N'kupusa kwambiri kudzikhululukira ndi kuika mlandu pa ena. Zimene ena amanena kapena kuchita zimakhudza chimwemwe chawo, koma osati chanu, osati chanu konse. Tchimo lanu limakupangitsani kuchita zinthu m'njira yoipa kwa inu. N'zosavuta kwambiri kuganiza kuti zimene ena amanena kapena kuchita zakupwetekani; pafupifupi aliyense padziko lapansi ndi wotsimikiza kwambiri za izi - koma sizoona.
Pokhapokha ngati muli omasuka ku mphamvu ya uchimo m'moyo wanu, ndi pamene mungachitepo kanthu pa chilichonse m'njira imene ingapangitse chimwemwe chanu kukhala chochuluka osati chochepa. Pokhapokha pamenepo mudzatha kuchitapo kanthu pa chilichonse ndi aliyense m'njira yoti musunge chimwemwe chomwe muli nacho kale komanso kuti chimwemwe chanu chikhoza kukula.
Mayesero = Mwayi
Chitsanzo chotsatirachi chikusonyeza kulakwa kumene anthu ambiri amapanga: Munthu wina amakuchitira zoipa. Simungathe kupirira, ndipo kotero inunso mumakhala oipa. Ndiyeno mukuganiza kuti ngati munthuyo sananene kapena kukuchitirani zoipa zimenezi, simukanakhala woipa. M'mawu ena, ndi mlandu wa munthu winayo. Mukayamba kuganiza za izo, izi zimamveka bwino, koma sizili choncho. Ndipotu, ndizolakwika, zolakwika kwambiri.
Kumvetsetsa koyenera ndi uku: Khalidwe loipa la munthu winayo linakubweretsani m'chiyeso chochita zoipa komanso, ndipo zimenezo zinakupatsani mwayi wogonjetsa chiyeso chimenechi cha kukhala woipa. Koma m'malo mogonjetsa, munagwera m'chiyesocho. Inali mlandu wanu. Gwero la vutolo ndilo mkhalidwe wanu wauchimo.
N'kulakwa kotheratu kunena kuti munagwa chifukwa cha zimene munthu winayo ananena kapena kuchita. Ayi, khalidwe la munthu winayo linangokuwonetsani zoipa mu chikhalidwe chanu chaumunthu, zomwe zinali zitakhalapo nthawi zonse. Munagwa kokha chifukwa chakuti simunamasulidwe ku mphamvu ya uchimo, osati chifukwa cha zimene munthu winayo analakwa. Munachita m'njira yolakwika, njira yachizoloŵezi, yauchimo, ndipo inali yosafunikira kotheratu. Mukanachita zinthu mwaumulungu. Mukanagonjetsa choipa chimenechi mwa inu nokha! Munali ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri, koma munalephera kuugwiritsa ntchito.
Nkulakwa kuganiza kuti simungalephere kukhala woipa pamene wina wakhala woipa kwa inu. Zimenezo nzolakwika kotheratu! N'zoona kuti malinga ngati ndinu woipa, n'zoona kuti mudzachita zinthu zoipa ndipo simungathe kuchita zinthu zina. Koma mukhoza kukhala womasuka kuchita zinthu mwanjira imeneyi nthaŵi zonse. Ingowerenga kalata yachitatu ya Yohane m'Chipangano Chatsopano!
Zochita - kutsogolera ku moyo kapena imfa
Hava akanatha kuchita mosiyana; akanatha kuuza njokayo kuti iwo anali osangalala kwambiri ndi zonse monga momwe zinalili, choncho panalibe chifukwa chilichonse chodyera chipatso choletsedwacho. Ndiyeno sipakanakhala "kugwa" ndi chikumbumtima choipa chimene chinabwera pambuyo pake. Nawonso sakanatumizidwa kutali ndi Munda wa Edene, ndipo sipakanakhala matenda kapena imfa padziko lapansi.
Adamu akanachita mosiyana, akananena kuti Ayi ku chopereka cha Hava cha kudya chipatso choletsedwacho, ndipo uchimo sukanabwera m'dziko kudzera mwa iye.
Ngati Yesu akanachita mosiyana—mwachitsanzo, akanakhala kuti anali wolungama pa chilichonse chimene Iye anachita koma sanafune konse kuvutika mopanda chilungamo — ndiye kuti sipakanakhala malipiro a machimo athu kapena chipulumutso kwa aliyense wa ife. Iye akanakhalabe pamodzi ndi Atate Wake Wolungama, ndipo tonsefe tikanatayika. Zodabwitsa bwanji kuti Iye anasankha njira imene Iye anachita!!
Mukhoza kukhala ndi chimwemwe chosasunthika
Mwa kuvutika mopanda chilungamo, mukhozanso kupambana miyoyo ina yomwe simukanatha kupambana. Kukangana za ufulu wanu, kuwafuna, kapena kuimba mlandu munthu mnzanu ndi njira yopusa kwambiri komanso yoopsa ya moyo. M'malo mwake, mungachitepo kanthu pa mkhalidwe uliwonse m'njira yakuti musunge chimwemwe chanu, mosasamala kanthu za mmene zinthu kapena anthu alili.
Ngati munthu anali ndi chakudya chochepa kwambiri, zimenezi pazokha sizingachotse chimwemwe chake. Koma kukhala wosasangalala ndi kudandaula za zimene ali nazo ndi kufuna kukhala nazo bwino ndi kukhala nazo zambiri kudzamchititsa kukhala wosasangalala! N'chimodzimodzinso ngati ayamba kukhala ndi maganizo oipa ponena za anthu amene ali ndi zinthu zambiri kuposa iye. Mosakayikira, njira yanu yochitira zinthu imasankha chimwemwe chanu m'moyo—palibe china. Ichi ndi choonadi chosavuta koma chodabwitsa!
Ngati mumakhulupirira kuti Mulungu amatsogolera zonse mwangwiro, mudzakhulupiriranso mwamphamvu ndi kukhulupirira kuti zonse zimene zimachitika n'zabwino kwambiri. Ndiyeno, ndithudi, mungasangalalenso ndi zonse zimene zimachitika. Mulungu amakusamalirani kwambiri ndiponso moona mtima. Iye amakuyang'anirani mokhulupirika chotani nanga!
Kukhulupirira Mulungu ngakhale m'tsoka
Kodi njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera kuvulala ndi imfa ndi iti? Madera amenewa kwenikweni ndi ofanana ndi ena alionse. Kuti muthe kuchita zinthu mwaumulungu, muyenera kuti munakhala opembedza. Munthu wosapembedza amachita zinthu mosapembedza, pamene munthu woopa Mulungu amachita zinthu mwaumulungu. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kuchitapo kanthu m'njira yoyenera, choyamba muyenera kupulumutsidwa ku zofuna, milandu, kusakhulupirira etc. zomwe zimakhala mu chikhalidwe chanu chaumunthu.
Baibulo limati, "Kodi tsoka limafika mumzinda pokhapokha Yehova atakonza?" Amosi 3:6. "Kodi mpheta ziwiri sizigulitsidwa ndi ndalama yaing'ono? Koma palibe ndi mmodzi yemwe wa iwo amene adzagwa pansi popanda Atate wanu kudziŵa za icho kale. Ngakhale tsitsi la m'mutu mwanu lonse limawerengedwa." Mateyu 10:29-30. Tikaganizira mfundo yakuti Mulungu amadziwa zinthu zabwino kwambiri kwa ife, tiyenera kukhulupiriranso kuti ngakhale chinthu chomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kapena chosafunikira chitachitika, n'zabwinobe kuti zinthu zinachitika ngati mmene zinalili. Ndipo ndani angalimbe mtima kupita motsutsana ndi zomwe Mulungu wanzeru zonse, wabwino zonse amaganiza kuti ndi zabwino kwambiri?
Koma mungachite mwanjira imeneyi pokhapokha ngati mwasiya kotheratu kukhulupirira malingaliro anu ndi kumvetsetsa kwanu. Mulungu ayeneranso kuti anakusinthirani kwambiri moti mwakhala wodzichepetsa ndi wofatsa, ndipo munagonja kotheratu kwa Mulungu. Pamenepo mudzasunga mtendere wakuya umenewo, wamkati ndi mpumulo m'mikhalidwe yonse, mosasamala kanthu za mmene mikhalidwe ingakhalire yopweteka.
Ndipo ngati aliyense wa okondedwa anu alowa m'mavuto aakulu, kapena kugwa kuchoka kwa Mulungu, n'kwachibadwa kuganiza kuti, "Aa, ndikanakhala kuti ndikanatha kuletsa zimenezi kuchitika!" Koma ngati mumvetsetsa kuti Mulungu Mwini—amene chikondi chake chiri changwiro—sanachiletse, mukhoza kukhala pa mpumulo mwa Mulungu, ngakhale mu mkhalidwe wopweteka kwambiri, ngakhale kuti chisonicho chiri chachikulu kwambiri, kwambiri. Pakuti, monga momwe zalembedwera m'Baibulo, ngakhale ndi nkhaŵa yathu yonse, sitingapangitse tsitsi lathu limodzi kukhala lakuda kapena loyera.
Choonadi chodabwitsa chimenechi nthawi zonse chizikhala chomveka bwino komanso chamoyo kwa ife—ndiko kuti, kuti zochita zathu ndi chinthu chokha chimene chimasankha chimwemwe chathu!